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talk a little bit about for you what
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that's been like um that can be
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overwhelming you have to like reain it
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in a little bit because it's it's a loss
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of control and I don't know why I
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thought I had control I was going to say
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and that illusion and that that's an
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illusion right but we think that when
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they're little right it's very
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controlled and we we can control the
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outcomes for the most part and then as
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they get older we get the we get that
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idea but as adults I literally have no
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control right and so you know we talked
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about that a little bit too like our
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children decide to go on trip and we're
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like but do you really need to do that
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because it's it's winter or it happened
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to me last night it's like I have worry
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and concern my son's going to go uh
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snowboarding and it's in a snowstorm and
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he's going to drive up the mountain at
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night in a snowstorm and it's not my
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place to say you shouldn't do that
