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Hey everyone, welcome back to our channel where we discuss everything related to relationship advice for men
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And women, of course. Just not today. Today we will be exploring some of the most important questions that many men struggle with
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while trying to approach a girl that they're attracted to. One of the key questions that we often overlook is understanding our own feelings and desires
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It is essential to examine and understand our own emotions. before we can actually pursue a potential partner
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Many times we mistake lust for love, and it's important to recognize the difference between the two
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Lust is a strong physical attraction, while love involves deeper emotions, connection and compatibility
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Knowing the difference can save you a lot of time and heartbreak in a long run
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To identify what you genuinely want from, a girl, try to ask yourself questions like, what do I like about her? What is the type of relationship
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that I'm actually seeking with her? Is it a short-term fling or a long-term commitment? It's crucial to
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be honest with yourself when answering any of these questions. Furthermore, examine your past
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experiences to identify patterns and understand what worked and what didn't work in your previous
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relationships. This reflection will give you more clarity on your own emotions and desires
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Overall, understanding your own feelings and desires is a critical step in pursuing a healthy
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and fulfilling relationship with anyone It not always easy to know if the girl that you are attracted to actually feels the same way But they often subtle and not so subtle signs that she may be attracted to you as well
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These signs could include things like making eye contact, touching you casually, playing with her hair
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or laughing at your jokes, no matter how stupid they are. It's important to note that not all girls show their attraction in the same way
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Some may be more reserved, while others may be more outgoing. Therefore, it's essential to be observant and patient and look for a combination of all of these signs
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We actually have a separate video on this up here. Additionally, it's important not to mistake and friendliness for attraction
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If a girl is simply being friendly, it doesn't necessarily mean that she's attracted to you
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Therefore be mindful of how she interacts with others around you. look for specific actions that may be directed specifically towards you and not anybody else
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Being able to recognize signs of attraction will help you understand if you should
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take those extra steps in pursuing a relationship with a girl that you like
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Sometimes men may miss opportunities to flirt with a girl that they like
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This could be because they are nervous, shy or are not sure how to initiate flirting
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It's essential to be aware of these men. missed opportunities and try to overcome them
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We have another video on this up here. Some flirting opportunities that may commonly miss include smiling, complimenting her, making
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small talk or even asking her opinion. These small gestures can help you build a connection and show her that you interested in getting to know her better However it important to be respectful and avoid coming across as desperate or creepy When it comes to flirting everything is about nuance
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So pay attention to all of the small things. And if you struggle with any of that, like I said
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check out this video up here and see how you can maybe improve your flirting
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and increase your own chances. Here are five ways to show your interest
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that is both effective and appropriate. Now, listen actively and show genuine interest in what she has to say
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Plan a fun activity or date that she will actually enjoy. Complement her on her personality
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intelligence or talents rather than just her appearance. Respect her boundaries and avoid being
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too aggressive or pushy. Show your interest in a subtle way such as by texting her occasionally
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and maintaining eye contact during all of your conversations. Once you have a
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establish a connection with a girl that you like, it's important to get her number so that you can
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continue to communicate and plan future dates. However, it's essential to do this in a way that
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feels natural and comfortable rather than desperate or pushy. One effective way to get her number
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is to simply ask for it directly, either in person or through a text, messaging DMs. You can also
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suggest a specific activity or date that you can plan together and then ask for her number so that you
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can coordinate the details. It's important to be confident and assertive when asking for
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a number, but also respectful and understanding if she's not interested. Remember that rejection
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is not a reflection of your own self-worth as a person. And there are plenty of other girls
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out there that may be much better match for you Remember that every relationship is about compatibility much more than just a sexual attraction that could not be long
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and could just be a short fling. Now that we've explored several important topics in
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this video including things like examining your own feelings, recognizing signs of
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attraction, seizing flirting opportunities and taking action to move things forward, the key takeaway from this video should be that it
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It's important to be confident, respectful and genuine when pursuing a romantic relationship
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the girl that you're attracted to. Remember, before you pursue a potential partner, it's important to examine how you feel
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how you actually feel about it, and be clear about what you want
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Pay attention to the signs of attraction, both obvious and subtle, and seize any opportunities
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to flirt and show interest in a non-needy and non-creepy way. And when it's time to take things to the next level, be confident and respectful in your approach
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Remember, a healthy relationship is built on mutual respect and genuine connection
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Now to wrap things up, always be true to yourself and treat others with respect
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