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Hi guys, welcome back to our channel. Today we're discussing a very important topic
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infidelity in marriage. It's a painful experience that can shatter, trust and leave deep emotional
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wounds. But did you know that many times infidelity can actually be prevented? It's true
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In this video, we'll be discussing 10 common mistakes that married people make that can
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eventually lead to infidelity. These mistakes can be easily fixed. All you need is little awareness
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effort and you can avoid them all and keep your marriage strong. So without further ado
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let's dive in. When you're married, it's important to make time for each other and show your
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partner that they are your priority. If you're constantly ignoring your spouse, they may feel neglected
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and essentially seek that attention from someone else. Not to mention that the feeling of love is
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intrinsically linked to our sense of need and desire thanks to the chemicals such as oxytocin
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which is the love hormone and other endorphins such as dopamine and serotonin
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To prevent this, make sure to set aside time for date nights and special moments with your partner
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Show them, love and affection on regular basis and make an effort to prioritize their needs
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Communication is the foundation of a strong relationship. If you are not communicating openly and honestly with your spouse it can lead to misunderstanding and mistrust
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If you follow this channel closely, then you know that we always stress the importance of communication
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Now to prevent this make sure to have regular honest conversations with your partner Don hold grudges or bottle up your emotions Express your needs and listen to your partner concerns
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All relationships have their ups and downs and it's important to address problems as they arise
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If you're constantly ignoring problems and sweeping them under the rug, they'll only grow bigger
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and create an even bigger rift in your relationship. To prevent this, make sure to address problems as soon as they come up
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communicate openly and honestly and try to find the solution together. Don't let issues turn into something huge
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You're a team, so work on it together. It's important to show appreciation for your partner and let them know just how much they mean to you
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If you're not expressing your gratitude on regular basis, your partner may feel
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undervalued and underappreciated. If that happens, they may seek it somewhere else
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To prevent this, make sure to regularly show appreciation. appreciation for your spouse. Tell them just how much you love them, appreciate them and make an effort
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to show it to them in all small ways. But it's more important that you show it than say it
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Intimacy is a crucial part of any healthy relationship and if you're not making effort to connect
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with your partner either on physical or emotional level, it can lead to feelings of loneliness
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and isolation. To prevent this, make sure to prioritize intimacy in your relationship
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set aside time for intimacy and try new things and make an effort to connect with your partner on a deeper level
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Also remember that intimacy may mean different things to men and to women
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Relationships take work and effort from both partners If you not putting in the effort to make your relationship a priority it can lead to feelings of resentment and disconnect
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To prevent this, make sure to put in the effort to make a relationship your priority
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If it's your priority, it will become priority of your partner. Show your partner that they matter to you and that you're willing to work to make your relationship strong
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It's important to have to have your partner. It's important to have your own space and independence in a relationship
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But if you're constantly giving your partner too much space and ignoring them, then it may lead to some feelings of loneliness and isolation
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Now, to prevent this is very easy. Just make sure to find a good balance
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Balance between giving your partner space their need and spending quality time together
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Don't neglect your partner, but also make sure to respect their needs for independence
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It's important to have realistic expectations in a marriage. If you're constantly trying to change your partner, expecting them to be something that they are not
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it can create tension and frustration. It can lead to lack of emotional connection between two of you and make your partner feel
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unfulfilled, which can obviously lead to their infidelity. It's important to take care of your own emotional and physical needs in a marriage
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If you're neglecting your own needs, it can create the sense of frustration, resentment, which
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can obviously lead to infidelity. Look after yourself and look after your partner
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It important to support each other dreams and goals in marriage If you not supportive of your partner goals it can create a sense of disconnection and make them feel unvalued It can lead to a lack of
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emotional connection between the two of you and make them feel unfulfilled, which can lead to
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infidelity. This is often a case in marriages where one gives into the other. Perhaps one works
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and the other studies. And the one who's been working while the partner has been studying for years
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feels unfulfilled. Perhaps they have their own dreams and they would like to pursue them
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So if that time comes up, have a talk, sit down, be honest and open with your partner
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and express your goals and needs or unfulfilled dreams and ask them to help you
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All right guys, there is it for today. I hope this video helped you in one way or another
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