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Why don't you tell your audience about
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>> We are really Thank you for bringing
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that up. I'm really excited and we had
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no plans to end up being seen by as many
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people as we are, but we hit over
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100,000 people a couple of weeks ago and
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I'm just elated that that many people
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are taking in what we're saying and
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gaining hopefully nuggets of wisdom
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related to human behavior and
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relationships and the the condition of
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our species and and ultimately how
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amazingly resilient and adaptable that
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we actually are. And I am so lucky to
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sit side by side with clients all day
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long and really be at the front row of
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their resilience and their adaptability.
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And that's that's really what prompted
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me wanting to do this show is people
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need to understand how amazing all of
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our fantastic and creative adaptations
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are that we have to do to survive our
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environments, whether they are
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generational or whether they are from
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our family systems. And that's really
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what the show started as. And it's
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really exciting to me that so many of
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you are benefiting from it. and have
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said you want more. So, thank you for
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>> Great. So, I'm just going to have a
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couple questions for you today and just
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>> how you got to where you are today and
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where you want to go in the future. And
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really on the theme of being adaptable,
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you've made some adjustments from season
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1 to season two now to season 3. Before
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we talk about season 3, could you just
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share with the audience what was your
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vision when you started season 1? Why
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did you even start this in the first
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place? And now qualify it and that
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social media is not really our bag,
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right? It's not like we do this because
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we're seeking likes or subscribers or
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monetization. This was a side gig. So,
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just talk a little bit about what you
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>> Um, well, as an EMDR therapist, for
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those of you who've been following
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along, one of the concepts around that
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kind of therapy is that we help to
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resolve memories that are maladaptively
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encoded in people's trauma stories. And
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in order to do that, we're basically
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like plucking out a weed of bad
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information and planting in a new idea
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that's related to adaptive information
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so that our experiences can now be
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encoded with more up-to-date
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information. And what I found myself
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doing day over, you know, day in and day
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out was explaining some of the same
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concepts really repetitively. And I just
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thought it would be more efficient if
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everybody could just watch this video
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and then come back to their next session
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about codependency or about boundaries
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or about attachment and then they could
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come back more prepared. And I really
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wanted it to be something that we could
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allow people from our practice to be
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better prepared and more efficient with
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their therapeutic experience.