Understanding the hidden programming running your life: Subconscious Mind Healing
Jun 11, 2026
Understanding the hidden programming running your life: Subconscious Mind Healing
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Hello. Welcome to this episode.
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Uh our topic
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is subconscious mind healing.
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Moving
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in
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to full understanding of
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the hidden programming running your
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life.
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We're going to be beginning this
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with an experiment. What if I could read
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your hidden scripts?
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I want you to imagine this.
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Imagine
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this scenario.
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That tonight, while you sleep, someone
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gains access to the deepest part of your
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mind.
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Not your conscious thoughts.
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Not the things you say aloud.
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Not the person you present to the world,
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but the hidden beliefs quietly operating
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beneath the surface.
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The beliefs you may not have even
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realized are there.
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And imagine they discover
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they discover a script running in the
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background.
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A script that says, "I am not good
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enough.
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People always leave. I have to struggle
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to succeed. I cannot trust anyone. I
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must be perfect. I don't deserve
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happiness." Now imagine that script has
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been running for years, influencing your
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choices, your relationships, your
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confidence, your fears, your reactions,
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without you fully realizing it.
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Wouldn't you want to know?
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Wouldn't you want to change it? Because
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this is exactly what the subconscious
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mind often does.
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It stores experiences, emotional
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memories, assumptions, beliefs that
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silently influence the way we experience
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life.
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It acts as an autopilot of our lives.
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Today,
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we are not simply talking about the
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subconscious mind.
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We are beginning a journey
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of
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healing it.
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Now, let's
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look at the invisible operating system.
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All right.
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Look at your your or think Think of your
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subconscious mind as an operating
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system.
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Most people focus on the screen, the
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visible part, their behaviors, their
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emotions, their habits, their
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relationship, their results. But,
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underneath the screen
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is programming.
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And programming influences outcome.
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And many people try to change their
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lives without changing the beliefs
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driving their lives.
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They say,
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"I want confidence." But, subconsciously
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believe they are inadequate.
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They say, "I want healthy
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relationships." But, subconsciously fear
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intimacy.
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They say, "I want abundance." But,
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subconsciously associate money with
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stress and struggle.
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And so, they experience internal
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conflict. One part wants growth. Another
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part is still operating from old
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programming.
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Healing begins when we become aware of
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what is running beneath the surface.
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Now, let's look at this. Where did the
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programming come from?
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This could be a question running through
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your mind.
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Most subconscious
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beliefs do not appear randomly.
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They were learned,
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collected, absorbed
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often during moments when we were
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emotionally vulnerable. Childhood
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experiences,
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when we dependent on the nervous systems
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of the adults around us, family
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messages, school environment,
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friendship, rejection, failure, losses,
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traumatic experiences.
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Repeated emotional experiences.
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Imagine a child learning from the adults
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around. You are too sensitive.
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Stop crying.
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You are not smart enough. Why can't you
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be like like your brother? Money does
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not grow on trees.
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We are a poor family.
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Men don't cry.
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People can't be trusted. The child
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may
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may not consciously analyze these
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messages,
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but the subconscious
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often stores them.
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Not always as mere information, but as
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truth.
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And years later,
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the adult wonders why they struggle with
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confidence, trust, worthiness, or
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emotional safety. The subconscious
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remembers what the conscious mind may
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have forgotten.
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Because the subconscious
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is the autopilot, and it keeps us
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continuously in survival mode.
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Now, the the
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How do you understand
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what is happening to you
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is because of the subconscious. Okay?
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So, we will get to understand
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um how
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to understand it through patterns.
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Okay? Look at your patterns.
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Patterns are often messages, repeated
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uh relationship struggles, repeated
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self-sabotage, repeated fears, repeated
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emotional reactions, repeated
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limitations. Sometimes, the subconscious
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reviews itself to questions such as,
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"Why do I keep attracting the same
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situations?
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Why do I keep doubting myself?
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Why do I keep settling for less? Why do
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I keep feeling afraid of success? Why do
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I keep condoning my goals?"
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The answer is not always lack of
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discipline.
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Sometimes, it is unresolved subconscious
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programming,
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unfinished
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business of the subconscious.
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The subconscious does not respond
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primarily through reasoning.
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It responds to what it believes is safe
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and familiar, even when what is familiar
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is painful.
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This is why
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people sometimes repeat unhealthy
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patterns.
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Most expe- especially, we see this in
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relationships.
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People stay in hurtful relationships.
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They They They even people separate and
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still get into the same kind of
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relationship. Not because they want
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suffering, but because familiarity feels
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safer than uncertainty. The working of
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the subconscious mind. The subconscious
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mind is now acting
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like an autopilot in
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our lives.
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Now, let's meet the inner archive.
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Now, imagine entering a beautiful
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library.
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This library represents your
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subconscious mind.
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Inside are shelves filled with memories,
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experiences, lessons, beliefs, stories.
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Some books contain wisdom.
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Some contain wounds. Some contain fear.
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Some contain strength.
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Today, imagine gently walking through
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this library without judgement, without
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shame, without criticism.
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Ask yourself,
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"What beliefs have I been carrying that
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no longer serve me?"
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"What emotional stories
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am I still living from?"
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"What old fears
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am I treating as present-day reality?"
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"What assumptions
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have become invisible rules?"
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This is not about you condemning your
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past.
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This is helping you
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get to understand it better.
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Awareness is a doorway to healing.
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You cannot rewrite a story you refuse to
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read.
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You cannot change a life you refuse to
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reflect and look inward
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to see what you can make out of it.
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Now, let's
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move together
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with this subconscious healing practice.
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Now, take a slow, deep breath in.
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And release it.
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Take another slow, deep breath in.
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Now, exhale.
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And imagine holding one limiting belief
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that has followed you for years.
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Maybe,
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"I am not good enough.
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I always feel I am unlovable, I am
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behind, I am not capable, whatever
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appears to you. Now ask,
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who taught me this?
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Where did this belief begin?
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Is it absolutely true?
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Has it always been true?
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Could there be another possibility?
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Now imagine placing that belief in front
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of you.
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Not inside you.
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In front of you.
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Observe it.
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Notice that you are not the belief.
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You are the awareness observing the
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belief.
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And because you are not a belief, you
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can choose differently.
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Say aloud or quietly,
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and place your hand on your heart area.
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This supports your nervous system to
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feel safe again. Now repeat this after
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me.
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I release beliefs that no longer serve
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my growth.
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I allow new understanding to emerge.
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I am not defined by old programming.
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I am open to healing.
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I am open to new possibilities.
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I am creating a healthier relationship
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with myself.
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Now let's take this practice of planting
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new seeds.
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The subconscious mind is like a garden.
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Whatever is repeatedly planted tends to
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grow.
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Fear grows when fear is continually fed.
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Shame grows when shame is continually
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reinforced.
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But compassion can grow, too. Confidence
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can grow. Worthiness can grow. Patience
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can grow. Healing can grow. Every day
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you have
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opportunities
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to plant
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new seed, to self-awareness,
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self-reflection,
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intentional talk,
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healthier habits, supportive
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relationship,
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emotional healing, and most importantly,
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compassionate
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self-talk.
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Small needs eventually create
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significant transformation.
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As we close today,
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remember this.
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You are not merely the experience you
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have lived through.
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You are not merely the beliefs you
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inherited. You are not merely the fears
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you learned.
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You are also the person capable of
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examining them,
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understanding them, healing them, and
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gradually transforming them. The
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subconscious mind is powerful,
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but awareness
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is powerful, too.
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And every time you bring light to what
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has been hidden, healing becomes
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possible. So today,
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approach yourself with curiosity instead
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of judgment, compassion instead of
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criticism,
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and patience instead of pressure.
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Because some of the most profound
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changes in life begins quietly,
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deep within the subconscious mind, long
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before they become visible
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in the outside world.
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And if you are listening to me
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and thinking you want to know more about
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your subconscious programming, you need
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support in this light, we are here to
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support you
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journey through
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in helping your mind become healthier.
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You Strong Cameroon is a non-profit
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organization
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that focuses
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on mental health and psycho and
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psychotherapy.
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And
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our primary concern is supporting you
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become better.
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Supporting you to become a healthier
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mind
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so that we can build a healthier
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community.
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Thank you for listening.
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