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TANYA and Josue are back! Love Don't Judge first met the pair in 2022 and now the couple have an exciting update. Josue revealed, "I'm twice her age and I want to get her pregnant." Despite their age gap, the couple remain madly in love - but, that doesn't mean that the judgement has gone. "We get all kinds of judgement. They call me a groomer, they say I groomed him, but I don't really see how that's possible," Tanya explained. While the couple are steady now, they have faced some challenges. "I was kind of toxic. And when I mean toxic, I mean checking through her phone," Josue said. But the couple have overcome the hurdles and are now stronger than ever, ready to embark on the joys of parenthood together. Tanya admitted, "It wasn't easy in the beginning, but we stuck next to each other and he's a great human being, I love him a lot."
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My name is Tanya. This is my husband, Josue. I'm 44. I'm 26. She's twice my age and I want to get
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her pregnant. We met through my oldest two sons. People always judge our relationship. This is
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low-key giving Cougar desperation vibes. Is that your mom? She had to pay him to stay, huh? I mean
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they call me groomer. The difference in maturity is significant. I was kind of toxic, checking
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through her phone. She looks left. I'm over here like, don't look left because I see a dude there
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We broke up and I had to walk away from you. All right
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How you going to change this diaper? When we first met, he was 19
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I was 38. There you go. Let me see what you're going to do
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He was pretty close to my kids. When I first seen her, first thing I said was, is that your mom
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And the first thing that came to my mind was, she's hot. I just knew you had a loud mouth and you were annoying
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I was annoying. We both broke up with our exes and we were together about a year later
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She's mine now. We got married in Vegas in 2022. We get all kinds of judgment
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If you ain't got haters, then you're not important. There's some comments that I laugh at
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Is that your mom? Is that your son? And for the people who keep saying I got mommy issues
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I'm just putting this out in the air, I don't got mommy issues. Me and my mom get along
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Just great. I'm just in love. Wait until he hits 30. He's going to realize what he signed up for
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Why? Because I'm almost 30. You better start realizing then soon. He's clearly using her for stability
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This is low-key giving cougar desperation vibes. She had to pay him to stay, huh
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He probably needs a green card. I'm from here. I mean, they call me groomer
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and they say that oh I groomed him and this and that but I don really see how that possible I was dating girls more my age before I got with her So I went through a lot of bad relationships
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So actually being with somebody who actually truly shows me love, it was kind of hard for me to believe
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So I was kind of toxic. And when I mean toxic, I mean checking through her phone
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She looks left. I'm over here like, don't look left because I see a dude there
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We broke up and I had to walk away from you. I don't even know why I still get emotional
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I don't even know why I still get emotional about that. I genuinely loved you, even back then
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I feel like you just didn't believe it. I didn't believe it
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And like, I don't know. I just wanted us to get along better
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When I was out there, I realized that nobody's like you. You were my home
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After that, I matured a lot. We've been talking about having a baby for a couple of years now
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but I think it's about time. I knew I wanted to give you a baby as soon as I fell in love with you
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I have four children. One is 22 years old, one is 19 years old, and the others are five and eight
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I want to give him a child. When you're in love with somebody, you want to give them the world
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And as a woman, I would love to give my husband a baby
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We've been cleared for IVF, and I've been cleared from my doctor to carry another baby
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She got four. I'll give her two more. Six ain't bad. Six ain't bad. What
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Six kids is cool. So yeah two I give her two kids Originally my oldest two were affected negatively and I not going to say that social media and the previous show that we did
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didn't help fuel their negative responses to our relationship. But I don't think that my older kids
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would want anyone else to be here help raising their little siblings other than him
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They weren't best friends. they didn't grow up together. It was more of like a big brother mentor
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relationship that they had because they also love him a lot and they have a great
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bond. I'm still very close with her sons. We still hang out every day. I don't think
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anything changed. You can make it work as long as you make sure that there's no
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power imbalance in the relationship. I don't tell him what to do. I don't mommy
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meet him. Sometimes I try. I'm gonna lie. But we know. Baby, eat now. You're leaving your food on
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the table. You pick up your dishes. I bet he only stays because of that influencer money
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We started doing social media influencing during the COVID pandemic. It was just a way for us to
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kind of supplement income and still provide for the kids. I remember in the beginning
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he really didn't want any part of social media. It was already on a couple of different platforms
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and he just kind of made fun of it. And he used to say, I'm not doing that, that's cringy
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And then here we are. And I think it's definitely made us stronger
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So altogether we have about 170,000 followers across all social media platforms
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People don't understand it's literally a job. It's hard to. To our haters, y'all are fans too
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Just remember that. The hate just gets the bag 100 I been making music for about 13 years and I hoping to one day make it I about to play a new song for my wife and I gonna see what she thinks about it
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Dude, that smile is cute. Please pick up your fire. You showed me videos of you when you were younger
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and you're sitting at a computer doing the same thing, doing music
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Did you like it? I love it. This is about you. I'm going to be honest, every song I make is about you
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Every song. The difference in maturity between a male from 20 to 25 or 26
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Sometimes it felt like I was dating a teenager at some point
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I still have my immature side sometimes. I think a lot of men, no offense to men in general
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but I think a lot of men have their immature kid side, no matter what age they are
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Want me to be honest? You do too. Oh yeah? Yeah. Leave me alone
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We're both allowed to be crazy together. That's right. When we got together, he was 21 and I was 38
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You're 21 years old. You're able to drink alcohol. You're able to gamble
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You're able to go to war for your country. Why are you not able to love who you want
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It wasn't easy in the beginning, but we stuck next to each other
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and he's definitely a great human being. I love him a lot. He made me into a better man
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Thank you. I can tell you that. So you're a one of a kind. I'm being honest
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I know you are. Thank you
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