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I'm Chapo. I'm monogamous, but my boyfriend is probably amorous. When I first met Desi, I had my wife, two girlfriends
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I don't like when other people post him as a boyfriend. I feel, like, disrespected
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My friends, they were very, like, girl, like, what are you doing? They got some to say
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I don't really give a . I feel like it kind of affects her in a bad way
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I just wonder how she deals with it, honestly, because if it were me, I would have already
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crashed out. On the internet, people always say the dumbest sh**. This guy is always with 20 different girls
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Red flag. Desi, I'd like you to ask Chapo if he's seeing any girls
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Bruh! You're not supposed to be talking to her. I know. Hi, my name is Desi, and this is my partner Chapo, and he is polynamorous
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Wait, did I say that name? Polynamorous. Polyamorous. People think it's weird that he dates other girls, but I don't date other guys
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I'm Mexican, so I like making a lot of Mexican dishes. But today is more just something simple
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We met at a Young Thug video shoot. I was trying to be mysterious and cool and just pop up, you feel me
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It was fast. He just asked for my Instagram, and boom. When I first met Desi, I had my wife
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She had a girlfriend that we were dating together. And then I also had another girlfriend
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She was a part of the polyamorous relationship, but it was, we had our own thing
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But everybody kind of broke up with each other. We were just together
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Then she got pregnant, didn't really have the time to entertain other women
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Like, not gonna lie, I had girls I kept in touch with. Why are you okay with y'all being part of women now
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Um well it really hard I guess I guess I just say I okay because he is you know my number one He is my baby father
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I do have to deal with it. I don't want to change him, but I do at the same time
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It takes, you know, baby steps and stuff like that, so we'll see
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Desi, I'd like you to ask Chapo if he's seeing any girls at this meeting
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Oh, God. And it's the part where I'm going to strangle him. Just kidding
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Yes. Really? Yeah. And you're not talking to that one girl, right
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You know who I'm talking about. Yes. Bruh. You're not supposed to be talking to her
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No. Okay, well, that has to stop happening because I already told you you should cut tiles with her
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I am. I'm working on it. No, it's not. I'm working on it. It's, yes, I am
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Yes, I am. But it takes time. I feel like disrespected. Sometimes I just find out
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And that, to me, I don't like. Because I feel like when you're in poly relationships
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you're supposed to tell you your partner everything. How's it feel being with somebody who allows you to be poly
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It's just a little bit more difficult navigating because she's monogamous. Whereas when you're dating somebody who's poly
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Polly, that's not as much animosity. If I come on a girl's picture, she might get mad about that
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I didn't tell her I was Polly. No. It was more like she found out, she knew, because we traded Instagram
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She's the type of person that I am. I don't like when other people post him as a boyfriend
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Just seeing that out of the blue gets me really, like, irritated and upset
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When we went public with our relationship, probably before we were in a relationship
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just because she was so pretty, I just wanted to show her off. Let's back up
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Oh What else to do Just fit check I have been doing TikTok since 2020 I get bad comments more because I poly There always like some personal things
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We'd always get like, this guy is always with 20 different girls
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People would comment and say like, oh, you're too pretty for him
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Oh, what do you do with him? Please find a better man. Very backwards
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Why does he have so many videos with other girls? Red flags
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The internet is just, you know, it's just a cesspool. My friends, they were very like
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they're like, what are you doing? They got to say. They got their opinions
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I don't really give a . One of our good friends, Leanna, she's going to be coming over today
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She's honestly, like, one of my besties. So, like, I be, like, venting to her a lot
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So I just know she has some good things to say. I don't really like her that much
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She don't really like me that much, so. I feel like it kind of affects her in a bad way
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Every woman wants to have a traditional relationship. It depends on the girl that he does it with
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Like, she's really picky. He can't bring no like around. She's gonna be like, uh-uh
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I'm not doing it, I don't care, I don't like her. He's not just gonna have like a or something with anybody
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Sometimes I just wonder how like she does it or deals with it honestly because if it were me
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I would have already crashed out. So are you guys gonna like still be poly when you get old
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I don't want to. I'm just gonna wanna be like more chilled out
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I'm like an opportunist. It's not something that's like, oh I've been on doing this my whole life
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But it's like, if I was an old man and some hot young lady wanted to watch a movie with me
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then I might watch a movie with her. But I'd rather watch the movie with her and her
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By the end of the day, no woman wants to share her man, though. So you think it fair like to Desi I would say like yes or no I would say it fair because she came into a relationship when I was married I never tricked her into thinking that things will change
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the way she wants them to. But I would say it's unfair when it's like she finds out
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that I don't tell her. I do feel like she deserves better, but I work on
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pretty good at evolving. I mean, it does make me happy, you know
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that he's willing to do that because some guys will really just not care
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So I'm thankful for that. Even though Chop was a cheater, he never left Desi though. Like
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Well, it's funny, Ben. Yeah. But like. Don't play. I think I have to say I'm on board
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Don't say that. Don't say that. I'm just joking. I don't think anything bad about you guys
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because I've actually been through worse relationships. I've been through some crazy relationships
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What I love most about him is he's a very sweet person
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He tells me he loves me maybe 100 times a day. Why wouldn't it work
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You know, when you love somebody, it's going to work. She's a wonderful mother
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I'm very irresponsible. I'm very childish, and she's very mature. We're kind of like opposites
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I worship the devil. She worships Jesus. That's a joke. I feel like a lot of opposite relationships
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they go perfectly together because they're different. It's like a girl cheating
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And she's also like, I'm very nice and she's very mean. No, that's not true
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I don't mind that he's poly because I love him. Thank you
