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I'm Quinn and this is my partner Alex
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I quit my job as a doctor to become my wife's PA. Quinn is a spicy content creator
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Quinn wears the pants in our relationship. I'm very bossy and I have very strong personality
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It's the Quinn Show. When we met I was a dancer and Alex was a doctor
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People thought of me as a gold digger. It will never work
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She's used to people throwing money at her. One of the hardest reactions that we've ever dealt with was Alex's mum
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It's a lot of work into becoming a doctor, so... For you to kick it to the curb, I didn't see this as your future
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What I met her actually was the stuff of heart attacks. Alex does all sorts of things for me
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I see him as, like, my personal problem solver. Like, any time I have a problem, I tell him my problem
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and he just sorts it out. Quinn wears the pants in our relationship at the end of the day
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But sometimes Alex does make more decisions than me. I think I make a lot of decisions with what you want in mind
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We first met when Quinn was working as a dancer in a club in Melbourne
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And Alex was a customer. I met so many people through work and to be honest, looking back on it
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I realised that I was kind of subconsciously looking for someone that I would eventually marry
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He was really tall and attractive. We've been together for seven years, married for five
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We do get a lot of judgement for our relationship. When we met, Alex was a doctor and a lot of people thought of me as a gold digger
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Imagine how many laps she went through before finding her soulmate lap
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It will never work. She's used to people throwing money at her
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I never really felt jealous about other men seeing her when she was at work
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I knew she was mine. Lost all his hair from the excitement
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I did lose my hair about a year into our relationship so Why serve society as a doctor We can make bank in a spicy content industry That one really says it all One of the hardest reactions that we ever dealt with was actually from Alex mum
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She definitely didn't want us to get married. Her opinion and belief was based on, you know, me working in the adult industry
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and I can't take that back and I wouldn't want to. I'm actually really proud of my work in this industry and proud of what I've achieved
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Those opinions were already made before she even met you. Yeah, exactly. That's the really hard thing
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There was nothing that could be done to change that. At the end of the day, I'm going to side with her
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We're going to call my mum today to have a chat with her about our relationship. I'm nervous about speaking to Alex's mum today
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Hey, mum. Hey, how are you guys? Good to see you. Good to see you too, mum. How are you
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I like your hair. Is this a new colour? Yeah, it's a new colour. It's my natural colour. Thank you
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Alex has gone back to nature. I've got my only option. I think I was born with more hair than this, wasn't I
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When you first met Quinn, what were your thoughts and what you were worried about? Well, when I met her actually was the best thing
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Because before I met her was the stuff of heart attacks. But she speaks well, presents well
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She's intelligent. These were my concerns, really. I have a PhD, by the way. Just want to get that out there
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I actually am also a doctor. I have a PhD in medical research, which, you know, is pretty significant, but everybody likes to overlook that and just call me a dancer
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PhD salaries are so terribly low that she generally couldn't afford to live
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So she started doing that and then found she actually preferred it to working in a lab and transitioned fully into that career once she finished her PhD
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I didn't see this as your future. I didn see a business and success and then you giving up work and becoming an assistant So how did you feel when I told you that I stopped working as a doctor altogether
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I mean you're an intelligent guy, you're super smart and you wouldn't have taken that decision
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lively so it's fine I mean that's your path that's what you chose to do
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It's a lot of work into becoming a doctor, so. Yeah. Well, you're both doctors, so it's basically..
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She's more a doctor than me. She's more a doctor than me, yeah. I decided to quit my job as a doctor because at a certain point it just didn't make sense anymore
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I was going to work and working for a wage and it just wasn't enough to justify the time that I could have been spending helping Quinn
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I was basically wasting time and money by going to work as a doctor
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So for about three years, Alex and I have been running Blue Rose Talent Together
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which is a management agency that helps spicy content creators. People hear that Alex works for me and they assume that I'm like controlling or that I mistreat him or, you know, I've kind of forced him into this
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So Quinn bought me this car for my birthday this year, actually. Top of the line
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It's probably the best birthday present I've ever gotten She definitely spoils me quite often
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Before that I was the primary breadwinner And suddenly she was like
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Oh okay, I've actually got to do this It's all on me now It was a lot more pressure
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You put a lot of work in that And for you to kick it to the curb
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I'm sure you thought about it a lot I did So how do you feel about us as a couple now
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All these years later I think you're strong together I think you compliment each other
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I think Queen needs to tolerate a lot, because you know the easiest and simplest guy It seems to work for you guys I mean this is the business you do together Yeah Live together work together I couldn do that
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Like it's a lot. It is a lot. All right. Thanks, mom
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Thanks. Thanks so much for the call. If you're in any way associated with the adult industry
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people are always going to have things to say. No one ever takes us seriously when we say
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oh yeah, we have a business. They're like, oh yeah, you're in the spicy content industry
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it doesn't count. As Quinn's PA you never really know what I'm going to be doing on a given day
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Some days I'm editing content, some days I'm organizing schedules, chasing things up
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chasing her up to get to work and make content, which is a large part of my job
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We train every day. I am definitely Quinn's personal trainer as well as her PA
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He's living the dream. That is the dream, honestly. What's your dream? It's definitely my dream. It's everyone's dream
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Quinn has changed my life for the better in every way. Like, I can't point to one part of my life that she hasn't made better
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I just feel like my life's complete now. He makes me so happy
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You know, I know that he's always there for me. And I never really have to worry about anything
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We're a team and everything we do, we do together. He's such a sweetie and he's a really good dad to our dogs
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What I love the most. I genuinely can't point to one thing
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I love everything about her, even the things that are really annoying
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I love everything about Alex. He's just my other half. To all the haters out there, we really don't care
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We're happy. We're in love. So how about mind your own business
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If we're happy with each other, then who cares about the rest
