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We're twin sisters and this is our man
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We share a man. I'm Petunia. I'm Pedaye. This is Timba. We all sleep in the same bed
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We share everything. People judge us because I'm in a relationship with identical twins
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They hate our relationship. Every time we go outside, people stare at us
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Find people calling other people to come stare at us. They throw you out of their shorts
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Sometimes he doesn't notice who's who. If I feel like he has been giving my twin sister more attention than me
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then I actually sit him down and then tell him that you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention
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so you need to give me attention also. It feels like having the best of both worlds
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because they are not the same person. They are different. It's like sugar and salt
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I won't say who's sugar and who's salt. No, no, no. I'm just saying they balance out each other in a way
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Even your typical polygamy relationships don't contain sisters. But we're sexually sisters and it's identical twins
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I knew there was going to be a lot of backlash. Some people are actually offended
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Even then, maybe we post a simple pic of us on social media
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The backlash, you hear people saying all kinds of things. A lot of people are saying on social media
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They hate our relationship. They will be saying, we just want money
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We're just young to be in a relationship with a man that is old
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They'll say, how old are the kids? And how old is the father
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This one will kill each other. There's no such a thing. This guy can't obviously be in a relationship with things
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Obviously, he must be having some money. Obviously maybe these things are coming from a poor background Our man is making dinner for us It our birthday celebration Birthday month celebration yeah
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So he's gonna actually make something. He said he's gonna make something special
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And we're going to wear his favorite outfit. Oh, here we go
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Baby, we're coming. We love dressing the same. We gotta pick the outfit
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I have the outfit. Okay. Oh, yeah, you would love these. It will look good on us
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My babies, your coffee's ready. We like dressing the same because it looks good on us
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and it's like, it makes us more and more and more identical
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People can tell that I'm with twins without even asking. Okay. Makes me feel like a king being kissed by two women in public
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You look stunning. Okay. We look amazing. I've never dated twins before in my life
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It took some time to adjust to. The bed is not big enough for three people to start dating
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We have dated the same man before. We tried dating separately but then it didn't work
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Got to a point it didn't work out. As twins we've been raised in a different way
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Eating on the same plate, doing everything together. We just started liking the same men
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So that's how it started. to do like, okay, the first she was dating the guy
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but then she just dated the guy maybe for two days. And then I'm like, ooh, I really like this guy too
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And she's like, really? Okay, maybe we like the same thing. So let's just go for it
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And then that's how we started doing it. Every time we go outside, people stare at us
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The first surprise, are those twins? Oh, they are twins. Are those twins actually dating the same guy
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Oh, they just both kiss them. And you get to the store and you find people calling other people to come stay at us Like they seen an animal they never seen before Now you have to answer all these questions Do you ever walk up to couples and say why are you guys both together Because they ask such questions
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What happens in the bedroom? Do you give them money? I think it kind of becomes too much sometimes
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We are people who are marching to PDA. So we'll be kissing and hugging and all that
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So some people, they throw you out of their shops. You will literally throw down of a shop
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Even when we go to public areas like your public pools, this one time they actually even came to us
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the manager of the establishment, and told us, no, kids can't be looking at you, hugging and kissing
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We're like, what? To tell the truth, I was never really worried about what people might think
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When we first saw Tamba, it was actually love at first sight
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We were on a vacation while he was just passing by with the bags like, ooh, look at that guy
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Somehow, somehow we exchanged numbers and from there we started talking. I think a year down the line, that's when we went out on a date
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After our first official date, it was clear, it was clear, this was it
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I think we were monogamous from then on. Sat down and discussed how good this work
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Sat down a few grand rules. Every day was just me waking up, like, when you bought a new car
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Is this really happening? It's like I had stumbled upon a treasure
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So the rules, the compliments have to be there. Words of affirmation
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You don't go to bed angry. We fight, we fix, and we continue
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So that's the rule that kept us going. Even if we don't want to talk, we have to talk because then it's like breaking the rules
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We always go on dates together No one is left behind He can even go out with his friends for a long time because he be like I missing my babies We do give each other space
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When you feel like you need your space, you can go to another room, listen
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to your music and all that. If I feel like he has been
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giving my twin sister more attention than me, then I actually sit him down and then tell him that
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you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention so you need to give me attention also
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Whatever he does on the left side, on the right hand side
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Sometimes I feel left out. I think sometimes they forget me. When they start gossiping and they have their side chats
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You have gossip. Yeah, you're gossiping about me, I know. No, we just talk, we have gossip
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We just need our time and talk. Even if everyone comes and goes, she's still here
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So I think that's how important it is. Dating two girls can be financially expensive, but I can handle it
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Every girl dreams of having a white wedding with a white dress. So it's every boy's little dream that if one day I can have two
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My dream has become the loves of my life. What's on the horizon for us, I just see a lot of kids
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This is a legacy that we are starting out here. We came upon this and we are loving it
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Every step of the way, we are not doing it to prove anything to anyone
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To the people who judge us, I would like to say, just focus on your life, never focus on others
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This is our life and you have to actually mind your own business
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This is love. This is real. Yeah