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WHEN Krys moved in with his mom as a teen, he had no idea it would lead to him finding love with Tookie, who was his mom's stepdaughter. Tookie confessed to Love Don't Judge: "I realised I was attracted to him when he walked in the house." Soon enough the couple got together, but it wasn't revealed to their family straight away. Krys explained: "It stayed a secret until she got pregnant." When the baby news came out, the couple were worried about how their family would react. "I was scared to death. I hadn't spoken to my mom in years. Just to come back and have a baby right away, I thought it was the end." In this episode of Love Don't Judge, the pair will be sitting down with Krys' mom, Jamie, to find out what she thought when she discovered they were dating. Jamie explained, "I expected Tookie and Krys to behave towards each other like brother and sister."
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I'm Tukey
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I'm Chris. And we met as step-siblings. It stayed a secret until she got pregnant
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They tell me a lot that I'm not good enough for her. I'm not a black king
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I pray that worthless A-word baby y'all have chokes on its own vomit
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Today, my mom's gonna be coming over. I expected Tukey and Christian to behave
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towards each other like brother and sister. What'd you think whenever me and Tukey first
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told y'all that we were together? I was hurt. Y'all were being raised as siblings
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I'm sorry. Not too much. Damn, boy. I'm Tukey
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This is my soulmate, Chris, and we met as step-siblings. So we met because I had moved in with my stepdad and his wife
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When she told us she had a son coming, I'm thinking he about to be weird. Do you want a kiss
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I'm just looking. When I first seen her, I thought she was way too good for me
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I didn't want to talk to her because I was too nervous. Because look at her and look at me
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It don't add up. Look at me and look at you. You look good. I realized I was attracted to him when he walked in the house
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He's tall. I don't know. He had a hat on. And he just looks so nerdy
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You know, I like boys with glasses. And when he spoke, I was like, what's your name
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I'm Chris. I'm like, damn. You know, I had to give me something
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He was so sexy. When we met, I was 17 and he was 15
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But don't think I'm a Cougar. He's 06 and I'm 05. Now, I want to hear from you how we ended up sleeping together
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I'm sitting there playing the game. It's late as hell. Everybody's asleep. I was right here pretending to be asleep
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Put your head right there. Yep. Just like I said, booty was pointed towards me
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I kind of like got up and I was like, I'm tired, bro
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I said you come like by me. Uh-huh. And then that when you opened your legs and you was like you could come like lay right here And like I lay like this Just like this And I looked up at you She looked at me She looked at me
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That's initiation. And then one thing led to another, and we made a baby
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Yeah. I love you. I love you too, baby. It stayed a secret until she got pregnant
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Today, my mom's going to be coming over. We're going to ask her some questions about how she feels about our relationship
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I know Tukey's got some questions she's been wanting to ask her. See me, I talk with my mom all the time
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and I still don't ask her questions about our relationship. So I'm kind of nervous about this, if I'm being honest
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Christian is my son, and Tukey is my daughter-in-law. I found out they were dating when Tukey's mom called me
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and told me Tukey was pregnant. I expected Tukey and Christian to behave towards each other
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like brother and sister. His mom kind of knew we had something going on
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but she didn't want to say nothing because she wasn't really sure. She would give us this look anytime we was together
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That's why I didn't really want to be in the same presence as him
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when we was in front of the parents because they always thought I was on to Chris
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I was scared to death. I hadn't talked to my mom in years. Just to come back and have a baby right away
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I thought that was the end. What did you think whenever me and Tuki first told y'all that we were together
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I was hurt. I wish y'all had came to me and told me. We were scared
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I was scared especially. I didn't really want y'all to think any less of me
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My mama called me. I was like, hello? And she said, son, you got two kids pregnant
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I didn't respond. I just sat there in silence. It was so weird for everybody
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My stepdad barely knew me. I barely knew my mama for real because she only knew me when I was little
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She did not talk to me. Nobody talked to me until I was a week away from giving birth
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But I understand why you was hurt because that is your son. And I felt like we was coming to the point where you was really thinking of me as a daughter, you know
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I still do think of you as a daughter It never changed I was just hurt at the time I appreciate everything you do for my semblance but I just feel like for some reason I just couldn come close to you
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How I wanted to, you know? And I really wanted to be close to you
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especially being the fact we got blue. But I feel like us not being as close
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it stopped that, you know? It ain't stopped nothing, Tuki. Okay? I love you
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I love you like you're my own, okay? I'm sorry. I'm sorry
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It's okay baby Was your anger directed towards me specifically? No No
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Was it directed at me and Chris? No it wasn't directed at y'all at all
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I mean I was hurt by what y'all did But I wasn't angry at you guys
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You was disappointed? I was disappointed yeah You might have not knew at that time
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That you could talk to me Christian But, Tukey, I told y'all multiple times, you and them girls, your sisters, that no matter what, y'all can come to me
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I want that type of relationship, okay? I don't want us to be disconnected, because we have Blue in common
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And that's your only grandchild. And I love Blue to death. I know
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Boy, it is what it is. I don't care what other people think. I mean, y'all were being raised as siblings, but y'all..
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We had only met, like, a month prior. Yeah, so I'm just ready to move past all that
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I appreciate you for telling me, for letting me know how you feel
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I appreciate y'all telling me how y'all feel. Now you gotta have rhythm, because you know how you are. Okay. Rhythm
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The judgment we get online is mostly about our race, about our age, about our ring
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Bae, you gotta roll. I am, bae, what you mean? When we posted a video about how we met
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and about our sibling relationship, they had some people telling other people
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who were ignorant in the comments, like they not related He white she black It just don make sense They tell me a lot that I not good enough for her I not a black king like they say
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And white people tell me I'm a bad witch. So this one says, I know for a fact moms and dad don't approve
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but this they daughter, so they tolerate. You ain't nothing but his fetish
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You my fetish and my soulmate. You're a worthless blank, blank, blank, blank B word
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I pray that worthless A-word baby Y'all have chokes on its own vomit
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Now that's crazy work Doesn't really bother me You can't tell them nothing about blue
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If somebody comments something like that about a baby They got personal issues they need to deal with
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Enjoy your time with your white boyfriend Y'all won't be together long
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I wonder if you'll hate white men next I hate when people say that
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They say that all the time like in our comments Give them two to three years
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You're way too pretty to be dating on your race like it don't even look right
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So fix it, no hard feelings. I don't believe in race loyalty
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I believe God put us on this planet for a reason and it's not to be just dating
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Yeah. We try to ignore it the best we can and troll back and just let them do how they do, being idiots
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I argue with them. I hate the fact we share siblings. Yeah, it is kind of awkward
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We share family through marriage. This is our daughter, Blue, the one we've been talking about the whole time
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She's 20 months. Say hi. Hi. I love the way he is
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You're a good father. When I was going through postpartum, he did everything
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I didn't even have to lift a finger. She's like a mother, and I love that about her
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She's always trying to tell me what to do. Anybody who sits around and studies somebody
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just to have a negative opinion is miserable. That's my opinion. If you're still judging, then honestly..
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You're miserable. Yeah, I was about to say, you don't got nothing better to do in life