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SOFI and Cedric have been together for just over two years. The couple met on a shoot, where Sofi was performing and Cedric was the camera operator and director. Sofi was very upfront with Cedric and asked him to join her after the scene. Since then they have been inseparable and now live together in Berlin. Sofi and Cedric describe their relationship as "mostly open for business". They are open to being intimate with other people, so they explore polyamory individually and together. Most of their sexual partners are friends who accompany them professionally and privately, joining them in making spicy content. Sofi says she is pansexual and Cedric says he is 80% straight and 20% gay, however, the couple has been with multiple partners, including men and women, simultaneously. They merge their profession with their passion for sex, but the couple is adamant that the emotional connection they have with each other is untouchable.
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I'm 20% gay for the guys we get with
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We are in an open relationship, mostly open for business at this point
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It's just a BS relationship that can't last, I'll give them two months, tops
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Is it cheating if I fantasize about being with other guys? I'm Cedric and this is my wonderful partner, Sophie
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My boyfriend is 20% gay. I love exploring my queer side in our content
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We met about three years ago now, and we met through a mutual friend of ours at a photo shoot
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And I was the photographer, and you were one of the models. We vibed immediately
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Shortly after we met, we started making content with each other. Obviously, you first filmed me, and then we filmed together
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So, what are we going to shoot today? I actually more refer myself as pansexual
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as to me, it doesn't really matter what gender the other person is. I'm more attracted to the person itself
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I struggle with labeling my sexuality because I don't feel straight, but I also don't feel queer enough
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for labels like bisexual or pansexual. I'd say I'm like 80% straight
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Can you actually pass me the tape? The tape? The tape. Yes
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I think we both were always kind of fascinated by the whole world of spicy content
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And for us, it just made sense to also explore it together
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We decided to take medicine to our own hands. Change the system of the internet. Change the system, yeah
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The way we shoot usually is that we shoot from two fixed angles
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Sometimes we will just zoom in. That also works. And usually we shoot position by position
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So I have made sexual experiences with men, Mostly while Sophie is present
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Mostly for our content. Yeah, it looks really nice. Both of us have been in polyamorous relationships before
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And I do think you have way more experience So I think we got that one And now we like to start We make spicy content most of the time
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but for social media we make couples content. People in our Instagram comments are really mean sometimes
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Would it be cheating if I posted someone else on my story
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You do that all the time. They judge that we are non-monogamous
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They love to emasculate me. They talk a lot about how I'm not a real man
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and how I look like a woman. Lots of cheating accusations. It's just a BS relationship that can't last
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I'll give them two months tops. Lots of people just saying for us to swap our phones
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because we're cheating on each other. Being bi automatically means that you're not loyal
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The fact you think your relationship is going to work is sad. sharing your partner is not true love
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Some common misconceptions about open or poly couples is that you have people just kind of do their own thing
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and pretend to be single, which definitely isn't what is going on
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So you've got to be really stable and secure in order for that to work. But it takes so much communication
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so much security, so much also self-reflection. Is it cheating if I fantasize about being with other guys
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no it definitely is not cheating if you fantasize about being with other guys
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you could even be with other guys as long as you communicate with me it still wouldn't be cheating
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would you like to watch i'd love to watch we are in an open relationship mostly open for business
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at this point yeah we're definitely not monogamous no just the two of us and everyone
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we meet along the way. I haven't had a monogamous relationship basically since my very first
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relationship at like 17. But since then everything has been open or mostly actually polyamorous
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Had three partners at one point so there was a lot to handle. Right now we are
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looking for someone to shoot Sophie has some people she likes Yeah And it would be with their partner They send us a message of we can see what their partner actually looks like
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We do get a handful of messages here and there from like just normal people if I'd say
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Horny guys. Horny guys. Who want to like work with us and do a shoot but we don't work with people who aren't in the industry
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For us, it's mostly about open communication when it comes to being intimate with other people
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I think we both always communicate very openly to others that we're in a relationship. And then we just discuss it with one another and just see how the other one feels
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Some of your friends have been a bit skeptical in the beginning because you were ranting to everyone about how you didn't want to date
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And then you started dating me. So they were a bit like, hmm
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Our friend Mika is coming over. Today I'm visiting Cedric and Sophie
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and we haven't checked in in a while so I'm really curious how it's going. Mika wants to talk about
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how to balance spicy work in a relationship and how we do it
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I'm also a spicy content creator. I will also ask them for dating advice
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since it's also like my dream to find a partner I can shoot spicy content with
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so I wonder what tips they might have for me. Soon marks the three years of where we all had our first photoshoot and you introduced
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us to each other. It was so funny. Thank you for that. Yeah
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You're welcome. Did you have any concerns when we started dating? No, why would I
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I was like really excited that I could connect you. So we've been getting a lot of comments on Instagram and people are hating on us a lot because... Really
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So much? I thought you have a huge fan base. There's quite a bunch of people who are really hateful
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They hate a lot on non-monogamous relationships and how we both are just with each other because we couldn't find anyone else
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Once you have a reel that gets like a million views or something, you can just bet on people getting really angry in the comments
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Do you sometimes also make like rage bait reels Like when you get some like stupid comments like that or how do you deal with it imagine you having like a really really bad day and you just open instagram and the
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first thing you read is like i'm manifesting many car accidents for you too it's like
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cool did you really get a call like that oh my god yeah so since you already know me quite well
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and what my type is. Do you have any recommendations or tips
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on how to date in the industry? Yeah, it's not a given that everybody would be so supportive of that
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especially in a relationship where you also have to deal with jealousy and that regard
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I think you have to get really lucky to find someone who you vibe with on a romantic level
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but also vibe with on a content level. You can also have a happy relationship with someone
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who is not at all in the industry, but is accepting of you being in the industry, right
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You are really good at communicating your needs and trying to be there for each other and be very supportive
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And yeah, I see very like pure and innocent love between you and that's really sweet to witness
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Oh, so cute. Thank you. Thank you. Bye. Bye. What I love most about you is how much love you have to give and how loving you are as a person
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and how appreciative you are as a person. I think you're a very, very rational person
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You're very good at reminding me to get grounded again, and I love that
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And we have very clear boundaries between our relationship and our work, which I think makes it very easy to deal with the fact that we are partners
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business partners, and sell our intimacy online. And I think we all should judge each other less
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and just focus on what we have in common. People are so hateful, just everybody needs a hug