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Rose say I married a fine American man for a visa
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We met online. After five days, I said, okay, we can try to be in a relationship
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We get a lot of hate comments. She wants to take advantage of me
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Future security. Gold digger. They are saying that my husband is abnormal
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Where is family? He for sure struggles with disability. This is disgusting
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The jeans don't look too good there. All right. Maybe that one
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Which one? This one. Okay. Yeah, I like that one. I'm Lynn
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I'm Brett. People call me an AFAM, a fat American man. They say she only married me for a visa
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I'm 24. I'm currently waiting for my work because I just applied
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I am 25 and I am an engineer. We met online on a dating app called OKCupid
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Way back to the pandemic, 2022, when I first saw him in the dating app
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I was thinking that he is cute because he messaged me first and I gave him my WhatsApp
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And after five days, I said, OK, we can try to be in a relationship
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We first met after two years, longest in a relationship. I realized that he is a very good man because how he worked hard for our future that time
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I know that he's the right man for me. The first time I saw her in person, I was walking down a ramp with a bunch of people
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and I saw her in the crowd. We're finally together and had a great night
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We're getting ready to make a TikTok online. We get a lot of hate comments, but we're still filming
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I love to do content so it's my idea. So we look for something trending usually For a couple Yeah I think mostly we got a lot of judgment and tech talk And it was a lot like she with him for the green card
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And the only reason she's there is because I'm an American. And just she wants to take advantage of me
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She's just using me. I think it really just started when we got that first viral video at the airport
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The worst reaction that we deal is they are saying that my husband is abnormal
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I accept whatever he is and I love him whatever he is. That's why I'm here with him
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For his family, he for sure struggles with disability. I don't really have any disabilities at all and I'm fully functioning
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My only disability is worrying about comments like that. Are jeans an extra chromosome? I mean, I don't think so
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I have the exact 22 you need and nothing more. Nothing else to do in life, so I wanna just comment
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Hell, this is so funny. Get those jeans, Queen. Yeah, I will get all the jeans he had because he belongs to me and I am happy with him
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The jeans is good for me. As long as he's a good man, he's a hard-working man
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This is disgusting by the way. No, this is not disgusting. This is love
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We feel that we are for each other. Another a found victim
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I don't think I'm quite a victim or anything, but I feel like that
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Green card, no. Future security. Gold digger. Oh. It's really hard for me if I was just after green card to leave my family in the Philippines
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It's not really easy. After the money. I'm not after money, right
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I'm after love and after jeans. If she was after money, she'd go after
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when someone lay richer. Stepping stone No No Run for the long haul Sorry to break it to you So we went to a beach near Sorce Garden City and that where we proposed
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And, yeah, obviously she said yes in history. When he proposed that time, I know that I will leave my family in the Philippines
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that I need to be with him in the USA. It's kind of hard for me to leave my family in the Philippines
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So there's a lot of adjustment. But because I love him, I want to be with him
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I will do that for him. We have a beautiful love story
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They are different and unique. To seem like he wants to learn your culture, that's love
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This is a beautiful love story. Why is everyone so mean? You look happy, that's all the mother
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Yeah, I don't care. Yeah. Right? We don't care. So today we're going to cook some chicken or lumpia, which is like a traditional Filipino dish
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It's her favorite food from the Philippines. Lumpia wrapper on their lips
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And this is cabbage, onion and carrots. This is ground pork. We can face adversity together and we're stronger together against all the donors
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Our relationship works because he's very patient to me because even if it's a long-distance
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relationship he don't give up. My family is very supportive to our relationship
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They are proud because I'm with him now and he proved that he will bring me in the U.S
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I think generally people saw our relationship as a good thing. Some people thought maybe she was like after me for money but I think they realized over
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time that she wasn't. But now seeing what it is that she's a gender in person and long distance relationships
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are an actual viable relationship. I always cook I love cooking and I love baking I don think judgment has really affected me ever because I don really take it too seriously I just realized that instead of being hateful or angry or whatever
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you should just be hopeful to them that they can kind of find a better light in their life and find a better focus
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Kindness is free, so yeah, we are very positive as a cop. I will be able to work here because I already have my green card
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I already applied. I've been here like five months in the USA and kind of hard for me because it's very cold, you know
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I need to adjust everything here because I need to speak English all the time
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It's really hard, but as long as I'm with my husband and supporting me for everything
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we will be happy and contented in life. We both are working. She's about to be working
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We kind of both help each other clean and help her prepare food sometimes and help her do laundry and stuff
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We're kind of going to balance that 50-50, split it down the middle, bills are 50-50 and everything like that and rent and stuff
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I think our future holds mostly just Lynn studying in school for her nursing career
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and just trying to make the best out of her life. Being able to be independent in the USA
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and let her experience her freedom here. What I love most about Brad is he loves my family
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the way he loves me and he's very supportive for all the time
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He's just a really kind woman and really sweet and really hardworking
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I think just overall a great person. I don't see any flaws in her and I think she was perfect
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So I think her just match made in heaven
