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People think this is my homeboy, but we're really lovers
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The age gap in our relationship is 19 years. People say all kinds of things
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He's too young for me. He's using me. He's definitely robbing you of your you
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Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Why even post this garbage
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Three men don't kiss each other. You both should d*** me. Today my cousin will be here
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He's extremely opinionated. He want me to be with a woman. You better try to care for me
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I was like, who is this little boy? Go Dicker. Man, you wanna have fun on ATV
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Let's do it, let's go. Alright, you know we'll beat you there. How about yours
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I'm Janelle, and this is Giles, and we are gym bros by day and hubbies by night
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People think this my dog, but this really my lover. I'm 43, and I own three companies
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I'm 24, and I'm a benefit consultant. I don't fit the criteria of what the average gay male looks like
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And of course my hubby doesn't either. People are definitely surprised to know that we're a couple
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Let's go, baby. Let's go. So we first met years ago. It was 2018. He slid into my DMs
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I was already with somebody and he was too young. The reason I slid into his DMs is because where I'm from in Belize
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you can't just go out there and find somebody gay like how you are so I feel like most of the stuff
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that I did was online and then in 2022 I got my visa came to America I slid into his dms I felt
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like now I'm in a place where I could actually see him and you know meet up with him that oh I'm here
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let's link up finally man I'm ready are you ready yeah I'm ready not like that hold on let me go
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We got married February, 2024. The age gap in our relationship is 19 years He Gen Z I millennial People say all kinds of things such as he too young for me
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I need to be with somebody in my own age, he's using me
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We're gonna log into one of our accounts and read some of the, you know, the negative comments y'all be putting online
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Your brain ain't even fully developed yet. Yikes, he's definitely robbing you of your you
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The trips look nice, though. The trips are nice. I know that's why you're hating
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The trips are nice. What's this nonsense man to man, just nonsense
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Okay, that's your opinion. Girls are beautiful outside here. What is this
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Yeah, we know. We know girls are beautiful. We never said they weren't
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You both should . That's a little dark. That is dark. That energy is horrible. Okay
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I'm real happy and you sad. The miserable broke pit. His legs twisted and broke as F
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Like they pockets. Well I was born like that though. Bow-legged, they always want to have a reason
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to say something negative. Whose sons are these? Mama, where y'all at
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We need to put a stop to this. Mama, I'm okay with me. Y'all need to worry about y'all moms
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What y'all moms doing? He said, who called them men? These are boys
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Real men don't kiss each other. Real men, grown men. Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve
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Why even post this garbage? Here we go with the Bible talk
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Everybody's a pastor now. Right, when it fits them, when it comes to gays
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Y'all only know the Bible when it comes to gays. We get comments online, I get more love than hate
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We got one that says, let's start normalizing these type of gay relationships
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Y'all one of the cutest couples in the world to me. And y'all still inspire me and show me that true love does exist in this cruel world
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Love y'all with a whole bunch of hearts. I really like him for you Y match well together I from the Caribbean and as you know Caribbean folks don play that thing you know that batiman thing and all of that stuff
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So I recently came out, well, I was forced out of the closet in 2023
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when I posted him and my close friends and somebody screenshotted it
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When they posted it on Facebook, it just went crazy. People calling me slurs, unfriending me, unfollowing me
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It was real bad. So my friends and family reacted as shocked, surprised, because it was just on the simple fact that they didn't know him
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He was a foreigner and they don't know if he's using or if he's trying to come up with green card citizenship
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He don't even know what I do for a living. He slid in my DMs years ago, living in Belize, so he didn't know anything
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So when they say something like that, I'm like, they don't know what they're talking about. So my cousin and Tari, we've been close since almost birth
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My cousin was unsure. He want me to be with a woman. Back in the day, didn't your cousin try to force them girls on you
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Yeah, he did force them. When we first became a couple, my cousin kind of hated a little bit on it
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telling me stuff like, you know that's not right, won't you try to woman
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So today my cousin will be here, and he's extremely opinionated. He's not going to hold back on anything about how he felt
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You better try carefully. Remember back in college, even, no, it started in high school
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You used to peer pressure me to have a lot of girls. I actually lost my virginity because of you
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You remember that? True story. I remember that night. I said, ooh, it was violent then because, I mean, I wanted the sister
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When I found out that he was into guys, I couldn't understand
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Like, a lot of women that he talked to and a lot of women that wanted to talk to him
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they were beautiful women. And I just couldn't see somebody passing up on that
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to go towards a man. That was crazy but do you remember how the family was acting when I said I gonna get married to a 22 year old Yeah they didn believe it They was like why is he marrying this little young boy
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What you have to offer him? When he first introduced me to Giles
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I was still like, who is this little boy? It was because, like I said, the age difference
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Yes, go dick. Basically, I thought that he was trying to use
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my cousin for his money. I think we didn't came around each other a few times then
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So we was good, like I said, I accepted everything. But they don't be around y'all like I am
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So they don't see everything that I see. The actual love stuff
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I think the only biggest thing that everybody had towards you is your age
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My age. But you wrong. I'm a grown man. Legal. Legal. Fully legal
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No, the lifestyle you live didn't change the way I look on things
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People are quick to judge just like I did. And I judge by things from the past
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things that I was raised on and I was taught. So now my mind is open
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I have no issues. I understand them. What I love most about my partner is
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his outgoing spirit, his energy. What I love most about my partner
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he loves to make money, always busy, no time for idleness, you know
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And also, he's bowled. Oh yeah, he love my bowled eggs. See, they hated on me online, but he liked it
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I'm between the bowled eggs. What I would say to people that's hating
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please keep hating because we get so much love when they read the hate comments
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So, love always outweighs the hate. So, I like it. I welcome it
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Keep hating. Stay tuned. You doing good? Give me a kiss. Come on
