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A lady I asked to be my woman rejected me for her personal reasons but prefers to extort money from me. I ended the relationship. #nekenwatv #vlog #relationship
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but to be honest with you in some
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situations people are very funny people
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are very very funny how can you reject
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me I asked you to be my woman to be my
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girlfriend you said no you said no but
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you are interested in in my money how of
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course I don't need a woman who is who
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is financially minded as long as
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relationship is
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concerned as long as you have agreed to
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be my woman I'm not interested in women
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who are financially minded you know this
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set of people that that believe that
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relationship is is an employment that
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when they get into a relationship they
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are employed those are not the kind of
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people that I want in my life I don't
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want them at all ladies and gentlemen
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let me tell us what happened do you know
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that there was this very beautiful lady
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that I met a few months ago I asked her
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out she she said no I asked her to be my
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girlfriend she said no then I was
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thinking that it's just their initial
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way of initi L's initial way of let me
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just give him some time to see if I will
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like him you know so we start we became
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friends from there weeks in weeks out I
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kept on asking her like trying to remind
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her that I still have feelings for her
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you know and to be to be to be honest
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with you I liked her and I I I would
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have appreciated it both of us started
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having things to together but her
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response remained negative she kept on
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telling me no no no in all my attempts
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to make her understand that I'm deeply
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in love with her she was still telling
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me know that she would prefer us to be
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just friends okay and she wouldn't want
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anything extraordinary anything relating
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to anything much more than the normal
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friends that we are I said okay that is
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the
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case then as time went on this lady
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called me on the phone sometime and told
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me that she needed an urgent uh $100 you
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know I said
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$100 okay at least I can provide that
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even though it was even though it was
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very expensive for me at that moment but
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since this person is my friend I I need
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to support her you know so I sent her
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the
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money between it wasn't up to 2 days
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after this lady s request for
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$1k she said requesting for 1K like
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$1,000 and I with my head I was like
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$1,000 how do you think where on do you
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think I can I can get such kind of
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amount of money from if she just woke up
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one morning and started thinking that
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this young man who sent out $100 a few
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days ago is likely going to be a rich
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dude and he will have a lot of money in
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his account so he
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should are you kidding me a woman
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that is not interested in me she doesn't
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want me to be in fact even as friends
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that we have we don't have a very deer
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conversation but she wants me to be to
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send her
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$1,000 who does that I tried to make her
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understand that hey I don't have such
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amount of money she was like so you
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can't even have a
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friend just a common $1,000 I became mad
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I I became
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infuriated I said I I are you
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okayy you are calling $1,000 an ordinary
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amount of money who does
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that that I was able to send you $100
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does do you think we I PL money
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fromes do you think that money grow grow
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on maybe I have a backyard where I went
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and planted money and on the regular
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day it is ying
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fruit try to make her understand that
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hey you are getting everything all wrong
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what's wrong with you
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one we are not dating even though we are
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dating I can't even be giving you $1,000
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I can't give you
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$1,000 you only call me when you think
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you are in need a friend who calls
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herself a friend you only call me when
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you think you are in need of anything
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and I noticed it the only time she calls
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me is either she's requesting for money
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or she's requesting for an address or
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she wants to find out about something
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that's the only time she reaches out but
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anything outside that even our
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conversation on WhatsApp and every other
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platform is cold like frozen we don't
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always communicate but the only time she
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thinks is necessary for she to call me
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is when she thinks she's deadly in need
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of something so I try to make her
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understand that oh my dear it doesn't
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work that way yes we are friends but
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that does not mean that that we have
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become friends does not mean that I you
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are now
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employed that I should be paying you for
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doing nothing for me are you are you are
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you
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okay even though you were my girlfriend
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it is pretty obvious that if you were my
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girlfriend you have this mentality of
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okay since I have aced his proposal it
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means that I'm now automatically
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employed he'll be taking care of all my
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bills and what are you are you mentally
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is your is your mental health
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okay at all you need to take your time
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and ask yourself those questions it's
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very very important take your time and
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ask yourself that question don't just
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wake up one morning and begin to think
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that things should be falling in place
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the way
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wanted try to make her understand hey my
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de it's not done that way I don't have
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$1,000 to give to you and even though I
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had I can't give them to you because I
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can't give it to you because it is
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pretty obvious you don't know what you
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want to use this money for or you think
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that I am a money making machine you can
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come to me seek for money and you get it
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as soon as possible are you are you are
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you
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okay so that is what happened I told her
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I can't give her anything because I do
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not have it even though I had it I can't
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give to
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her do I did I make any mistake did I
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make any mistake what people have seen
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today in relationships it like it's
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tiring it's
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tiring ladies of this generation in fact
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people of this generation they just have
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this mindset of if I get myself in a
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relationship and young man is not
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supporting me financially I'm getting my
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ass out of that
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relationship that is what many of our
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young ladies of this generation thinks
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they believe that every relationship you
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get into must be
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financially
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uh in fact must be financially induced
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that is that relationship everything
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that has to do with that relationship
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must be financially oriented if Finance
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is not involved stop talking about it
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that is what most of our ladies
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thinks it's very unfortunate it's very
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very unfortunate that all these things
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are happening
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so if you're a young man who is still in
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need of a friend if you think you have
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the financial capabilities to start
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spending on women in app trust me it's
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not a way of managing your finances is
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never a way of managing your finances
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but if you think you you're going to
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disregard my advice to you it's your own
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cup of tea my simple advice is if you
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find out that the lady you are you are
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you are dating is is the type that is
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always money oriented she's in need of
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money all the time she's asking for
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money I would advise you put that
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relationship because that lady is not
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helping you to manage your finances well
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any woman who is not helping you to
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manage your finances well can never be
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the right one for you I'm being honest
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with you it's not about me now not
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succeeding as long as it's it's concerns
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me and the lady in terms of relationship
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this is not me talking about that one no
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what I'm saying is the fact and it the
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fact if the lady in your life is not
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supporting you or helping you to manage
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your finances well either by advising
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you
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or by giving you tips on how you can
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manage that person instead of helping
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you manage it what she's doing is trying
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to help you spend it the more my dear
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that relationship is not for you or you
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are free to discard me or please don't
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discard my message
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it's very clear if woman in your life is
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not helping you manage your finances
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well that relationship doesn't work it
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