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Transgender woman, cisgender woman in a relationship
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Society's like, no thank you. I love when people call us gay, because it's like
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OK, but we're straight. Some other things people have said is like
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we're just a freak show, we're a circus. It's not supposed to happen
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We're the bottom feeders of the planet. My initial reservation was probably just like
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are you kidding me? Like, what? Where's the punchline? So Vicky, I know you've always fun with guys for the most part
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So is this phase with the trans girls just a phase or is it real
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My name is E. My name is Victoria. And I'm trans. We're a straight lesbian couple
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People judge their relationships because I'm a fin lesbian. It was like three years ago we met
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We were being friends, getting to know each other. I was kind of skeptical because all my life, you know, being trans
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I've never, like, would have thought in a million years I would be with a woman, you know? I met at her club
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I went to a club. We both walked up to each other at the end. She was like, you're beautiful
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I was like, you're hot. And we literally just, like, from there
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Which one do you like the best? These are cute. Do you remember that post that I posted last night
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of us together? Yeah. Look what this person said. This makes no sense
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Why would you change yourself to a girl to be with a girl? This generation is screwed
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What the f***? Who cares? Just let us be. You know, people are just miserable and sad, honestly
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It's true. They can't see too bad f***ing. Why are they even looking at our stuff if you don't want to see that kind of content
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When it happens, I kind of just ignore all the strangers. Like, I don't really care for their opinions
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Oh, you look so pretty. Oh, thank you. Now, come to breakfast. Okay
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She takes the longest to get ready. Like, the longest. Yeah, okay
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Yeah, for sure. Okay. 100%. Do you see this? No, it's definitely me
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The most glamorous one, definitely me. Like, babe, I love you. You're perfect, but definitely me
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I love fillers. I want my boobs even bigger. I definitely wear the pants in this relationship
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Whatever she says I scared of her I call the shots but like I never ever led you in the wrong direction When have I ever had bad intentions You never had any She younger so I show her
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I tell her the way. She's a little grandma. I knew she was trans when I first met her because I walked into a transgender club, so yes
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When people find out that we're a couple, they think the whole thing is like a scam. Like there's no way
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I love when people call us gay because it's like, okay, but we're straight
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I transitioned at the age of 18. People judge me for being trans
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Why was the point of you doing this if you're gonna just be with a woman? The worst reaction we have ever gotten
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when we were out was when we were at a restaurant. We gave each other a kiss and this lady looks at me
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I guess she clocked me, she realized I was trans. And she was just like
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that's disgusting, like why are you guys doing that? And I just grab her and kiss her
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I'm like, I love her, I don't care. Before Eve, no, I was not with anybody trans before
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This was my first. I don't like to believe that. I don't believe it
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It's okay, man. I'm kidding. Before Victoria, I only dated, like, masculine men
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I just wanted to feel that masculinist of the male to make me feel feminine
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I realized that, who cares? If I'm happy, I'm happy. It is what it is
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So this is my dancer closet, and I have all of my dancer clothes
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So these are some of my favorites. These. I love that one
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Yeah, I know you look pink. Oh, I used to love this one when I was blonde
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I'm a natural blonde. I used to wear the Barbie outfit. These are my money bags because at work
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people like to throw a lot of money on me. We work out often a lot on the pole
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because we like to teach each other tricks and things like that. We connect in our profession like 100%
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I think that's honestly one of our biggest bonds too. Yeah. We understand each other because of it. Yeah. 100%
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My mom's scared I'm going to get pregnant. Oh, well. That's what my mom's scared of
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She worries about it, but we told her a million times, my sperm count's dead because of estrogen. Yeah
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When we started a relationship, the most thing was just kind of like honestly about me being trans That was like the biggest thing that people come for Transgender woman cisgender woman in a relationship That like society like no thank you What are you doing
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Some other things people have said is like, we're just a freak show, we're a circus
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It's not supposed to happen. Yeah, we're the scums, we're the bottom. We're the bottom feeders
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of the planet when in reality they're the ones hating. Like, I'm sorry. I like what I like
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And it is what it is. Overcoming judgment has definitely made us strong. People judging us
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again for like being dancers and that stuff. I feel like our bond is stronger
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because we don't give a . Our friend Jetty's coming over today
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and she's gonna talk to us about how she feels about a relationship
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Jetty has strong opinions and will not hold back. She likes Rumble
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Do you feel like anything that Jetty would say would like change her mind about us? I'm definitely gonna take her opinion into consideration
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because you know, she only has the best things to say. I originally started just being friends with Eve
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Actually, Eve pulled me in to see if Victoria was a good match for her, and we all clicked
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My initial reservations was probably just like, are you kidding me? Like, what? Where's the punchline
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I just always saw Eve and I with the same type of guys, and I always saw Victoria with her type
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So for me, as their friend, I'm like, is this just some funny spell they're under, or do they actually like each other
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Whatever works for them, you know, different strokes for different folks. So, like, I know it's kind of hard
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Obviously, our jobs can get a little bit, like, jealous with people
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So how do you feel, like, together, both dancing? Personally, because we both work in the club, like, I understand completely
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Like, I am not jealous. We just kind of see, like, it's work. Jetty, what concerns did you initially have of our relationship
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It was just more a fling and I didn't want you guys to ruin your friendship
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So it's always something up in the air, always something to kind of argue about because you
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guys were leading your own lives and now you're like actually together
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So there's obviously less questioning. So Vicky I know you always fun with guys for the most part So is this phase with the trans girls just a phase or is it real It better not be a phase It not a phase
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Like, yes, Eve is definitely my first trans woman I've ever been with. But I have been with guys, girls
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every ethnicity, every race. I've literally done everything. So are you guys happy together
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Yeah, we're really happy. We're like actually together. No more fling. No more confusion
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So is this like a long-term thing or is it just... Yeah, no, we definitely have plans
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We want to do stuff. We've been saving money. So we're not just like playing it by ear
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No, we're together. Yeah, we're together. We already have plans and stuff
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I love you guys. And you look absolutely beautiful by the way. Yeah, you look so good
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Cheers. Cheers. So, babe, how did you feel about Jaddy coming over
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I feel like she said what she said, and she gave us nothing but love. She was so supportive
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She was your best friend first. She was my best friend, and now she's back in her life
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And she's over here with nothing but love, so I'm really happy. Oh, babe, this is perfect
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Do you want to take a picture here? Yeah, I'll take a couple photos. Okay. Your smile looks so pretty
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Thank you. What do you see in her future? I hide your hormones, and you get me pregnant
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I love that. Okay. I see us really taking the next step forward
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I mean, it's like a couple months coming up and moving in. I'm really excited about it
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Yeah, I know. Me too. Victoria has changed my life for the better in so many ways
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Like, she just makes me confident, happy. I genuinely adore you. We have communication
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We're very honest. I love that about us more than anything. Yeah
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I think this relationship is because like, we both get it. She's girly
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We do things. It's fun. Like, I feel like we don't fight over dumb things
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Like, when guys just... You know what, babe? F*** the haters. We love each other
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We love each other. And love doesn't judge, babe. Love doesn't judge
