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So this would be my wedding dress that I'll be wearing at the prison. I still don't even know if
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I can wear it because I don't know if there's no shoulders allowed. Hi, I'm Bronwyn and I am
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marrying a man serving life. This is his ring that he designed and there's an engravement on
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the inside that says forever yours. I'm having my honeymoon behind bars. We need a good lawyer
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Some comments that I get are pretty hateful. He's in prison. If he's not loyal, then he's playing on
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the other team. Embarrassing. Seek help. I've always felt that they should wait to get married
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He could stay in for the rest of his life. There's no set date for his release
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The worst thing about it is that we're not free. We're in a jail. It's just a dark and gloomy place to have a celebration
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You're limited to what you can do in a maximum penitentiary. We have flowers and my wedding dress
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I've probably spent around $5,000 to $6,000 on our wedding. So I bought this car for my husband because I want him to be mobile when he comes home
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I'm hoping that Justin can get out as soon as possible to drive it, hopefully within two to three, max four years
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I can't wait till we roll up to functions together in our his and hers Benzes
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If anybody thinks this is a waste of money, I'm not trying to be rude, but it's my money, not yours
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I met Justin through a mutual friend in 2003. I was asked by my best friend to accompany her to visit one of her, like her boyfriends back in the day in jail
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and I said I don't want to have anything to do with that. She did some convincing. I agreed and
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then I went there and the rest was history. He was always very polite. He was trying to get my
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number and I was saying no. I was refusing all of his advances. In his mind he says that this was
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the girl I want to marry. I think I just turned 18. I didn't have any interest to be dating someone
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that was you know charged with a criminal offense. So when we left the visit I was kind of like happy
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that we left. I was like, oh, thank God that's over with. He kept calling and calling and calling
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And then one day I just gave in and I'm like, all right, like this is annoying
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I'll talk to you. And then he started to ask if he could write me letters
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And I agreed. So it took him about six months to actually win my heart And then like I almost immediately fell in love with him We stayed together for a few years however we didn get to see each other a lot and we just eventually lost contact Years
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later I was like well I wonder what Justin's doing because this this relationship kind of sucks that
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I'm in and I'm like that guy was really nice to me. I wonder where he is. Twelve and a half years
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we had no contact. It's very hard to find somebody in prison especially when you don't know where
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they are. And I started talking to this inmate to try to find out where my husband was. One day he
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called me and he's like, oh, I know where your ex is. And he's like, and he's single. I'm like
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I'll call you back. Click. Wrote him a letter right away. So two months went by. I opened the
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mailbox and I was so shocked, but there was a letter from him. I called him right away and boom
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we got engaged two weeks later. We have a wedding registry on our Instagram and our TikTok. We've
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started to receive some gifts, some of the silly little things I asked for, like some lashes
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We need these clear bottles when I take stuff into the prison, like shampoo and things like that
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Unfortunately, we can't play music. We can't have any banners or any crazy fireworks or anything
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like that. So today I'm going to be doing a TikTok live and I'm going to read some of the comments
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to you guys. How do you get married in prison? It's a big process, but basically you have to get
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approved by the warden and several other people from the institution. I almost went to jail for
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evading millions in taxes, but my amazing lawyers got my charges dropped. That's amazing. Can you
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drop his name in the comments? Because we need a good lawyer. You're amazing. Let's go strong like
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this. I love all you guys. You guys, again, are my strength. Some of these comments that I get from
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people on TikTok or Instagram, social media are pretty hateful. So one in particular, he's in
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prison. If he's not loyal, then he's playing on the other team. I think it's trauma. It's a fantasy
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not reality but if that works for you then hey. Oh you poor thing I hope you didn't regret the time
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you've invested in this relationship. I've responded to a lot of these on my TikTok. I really want to
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tell them my genuine answer and see if they can see it from my side. Sometimes I do turn their
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opinions around. Your whole Instagram personality is someone proud for dating a jailbird that can't
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even support his family because he behind walls Embarrassing You need a real man I always get There comments saying what can he do for you what wrong with you Seek help There a lot of people that ask me to hook them up with prisoners They not all built the same
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On the other hand, I feel like the love that me and Justin has is a very healthy, real, non-toxic
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love that does deserve to be shared because that kind of love doesn't exist anymore. I don't want
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young girls to go and be with men in prison just because they think everybody's like Justin
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Everybody's not like Justin. I promise you that. I've been there. So babe, how are you feeling? I know our wedding's coming up
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I'm a little overwhelmed because I am doing this all on my own, but this is a dream come true
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I feel like I'm in a fairy tale and I just can't wait. You know, you're smart and you're funny and you just are the person that I know I was meant to be with
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And I never let go of that. We're so corny. I know I love you because you love me so much, you know
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I think the judgment that would be most unfair is like, what can a guy in my position have to offer you
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I think people unfairly judge me for that because it's not all about material, right
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Right. And it's so hard to explain that to people who've never really been in love because your love is worth your weight in gold
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You know what I mean? I would still be with you over somebody with money that doesn't treat me properly
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How long we've known each other. We've never spent the night alone together
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Nope. It's so much, man. Like, it's crazy. It is. It really is
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It shows the strength of our relationship, right? Facts. They just told me again right now, so I got to go right now
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All right. I love you. Okay. I'll talk to you later. Yeah, see, that's what sucks is that a call could just end just like that abruptly
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So that's some of the consequences of being in a relationship in prison. So I'm only allowed to have two guests at my wedding, and one of them is going to be TJ
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She's coming over really soon, and I'm going to ask her to be my bridesmaid. I kind of always felt that they should wait to get married until you know Justin comes home and they can have you know the proper wedding that they both deserve you know your wedding day is supposed to be the most beautiful day of your life and i just feel that it being in jail for both of them is just very
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limited so can i expect an open bar you know are we gonna have dancing how is this supposed to look
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oh my god i would picture for me i would be the first person to have the open bar at the wedding
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but we can't have any alcohol. We can't have, I mean, we can dance if we want to
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but I don't know if there's going to be music. Maybe the guard will be nice and put on his cell phone for us
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I don't know, but it's going to kind of be like, you know, just a very, you know, just close few people together eating some cake
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and just, you know, giving each other hugs and making some laughs
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What the honeymoon is going to look like? What do you guys have planned? Well, we get our own house, which is good
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It's connected to like there's other inmates staying. I'm going to just get to see him behind the scenes instead of guards behind him and instead of kids screaming in a visiting room
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So we're just going to enjoy every single day as much as we can
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So I want to thank you for changing my brother's life. You have sparked that motivation and drive to come home
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And he's going to have a good home to come home to. Thank you, TJ
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I'm so glad I get to be a part of your guys' family. You have no idea. So TJ, I don't know how this is going to work because it's a prison wedding
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but Justin wanted me to ask you we've been wanting to ask you for a long time
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if you will be my maid of honor yes I would love that
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I would love to do that for you absolutely thank you so much
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thank you I think this relationship works because we have a history
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we trust each other we both have this deep understanding for each other
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it's just all love it's literally what you see in movies if you think that's fake
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it's not, it's out there. I know for sure that this is what real love is