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My name is Danger. I am 55 years old. I am a professional magician
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My girlfriend, Leah, is 31 years younger than me. I do have nieces older than her
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I realized we were attracted to each other on our first date. It was his magic show. It really blew my mind
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People tend to say really horrible things. That he's my sugar daddy. We should date our race
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My ancestors are not proud of me for dating him. My ancestors would be very proud
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My sister is coming over and she has some reservations about our relationship
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It took me by surprise because of the age difference. This is definitely the biggest age that my sister has dated
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So Daria, what did you think of me the first time we met? Which one do you think I should wear
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Hi, I'm Leah and I am 25 years old. I am a content creator
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This is my boyfriend, Danger, who's 31 years older than me. I'm 55 and I am a professional magician
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We're often judged because I have a 31-year age gap, but we really don't care
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We met on a dating app in October 2023. I realized I was attracted to her as soon as I saw her profile on the dating app
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That's why I swiped right. Yeah. I mean, I don't typically swipe right on the ugly ones
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We went on our first date. During our first date, the chemistry was really good
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I liked a lot of stuff that he do with his magic and his photography
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We had a lot of fun. A lot of things in common, too. It was just like a match made in heaven
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And we've been together ever since. I really like this one on you. I think that is super cute
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So I like this one because it has the top it, which is the little pocket inside
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I can put that in my waistband. and then when I move forwards it opens the pocket and I can make things disappear just
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by flicking them inside That nice Now when I performing I always wear my top hat It a very important part of my act and my style in general
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I love that people immediately know that I'm a magician. And I like..
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...the way I look. Wow
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Oh, that was cool. All his tricks are really mind-blowing. Our first date was his magic show
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It was one of the card tricks that really just blew my mind. All of the card tricks are my favorite because they all basically catch my attention and startle me
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Cool. You like that? Yes, I love it. First thing we're going to do is I want you to write your name on this card
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Write it big, write it proud, write it like it's a neon sign. It's opening night and you're the star of the show
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All right, we have the Leia card. There's only one card like it in all the world
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We're going to take the Leia card and we're going to fold it. We're going to give it another little fold
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Then we're going to give it a little tear. Then we're going to give it another little tear
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Did you happen to bring a blowtorch? No. I may have something I can work with here
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There you are, Leah. Almost good as new. Wow. I definitely have asked him a lot, like, how do you do that
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Would I be able to do that? I have always preferred older men because I am very mature for my age
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Men my age, like, you know, sometimes they don't meet the standards that I need
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When I was younger, I actually dated older women. And as I've aged, that has shifted
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and I now found that I am more comfortable and more attracted to younger women My family doesn like me dating younger women or another race Leah is younger than many of the kids in our family
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I do have nieces older than her. Today my sister is coming over to give us her opinion on our relationship
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because in the beginning she wasn't really that supportive. Leah is my younger sister, it's just me and her
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My first time in my danger, like last year, it took me by surprise because of the age difference
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This is definitely the biggest age that my sister has dated that I know of
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So Daria, what did you think of me the first time we met? First I was a little concerned because, you know, you are the age difference
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So once I got past the age difference, I was like, okay, yeah, he's cool
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Y'all work together, like, in a good way. once you get over the age difference yeah everything's perfect and then whatever makes her happy makes me happy too so that was a big plus
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what type of stereotypes do you guys have to deal with basically like our age difference like he's too old for me or i'm too young for him or like you know
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we should date our race we have been into places where literally like we'll walk in and it gets silent
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The most extreme reactions that we get are always on social media
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People tend to like say really horrible things. Because of how young I am and how old he is, we get that a lot
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Like it's not right for us. We should date in our age range
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We get a lot of interracial comments. Like, you know, people saying that we should date our race
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A lot of people have told me like, you know, my ancestors are not proud of me for dating him and stuff like that
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My ancestors would be very proud. And it beats my sugar daddy or if I'm using it or not
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I don't mind being used a little bit. How do you guys deal with judgment
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I just ignore it. Some of the comments made online it bothered me a lot And then I tell him about it He like telling me like you know don worry about it sometimes it is kind of humorous and the more they say the more humorous it is so now since being around us what have you thought
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about our relationship great team though seriously he pushes you to do stuff that
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you wouldn't usually do we get along on a very fundamental level and we enjoy
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each other's company. I love to be taught things. He definitely has taught me a lot of things. I
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enjoy mentoring. Because I am younger, my attitude sometimes is like too much for him
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but I'm working on it. Working on being to his, like, you know, his attitude and nonchalant
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to how he is. Yeah, she does have a fiery personality. We like to shoot spicy content
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that we do. We like to exercise together. We like to cook together. You're such a liar
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You don't like to do anything with me. Yeah, we do enjoy the creativity. We enjoy shooting
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together. I enjoy the photography. She's a really good model. She's come a long way
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We both like photography. That's what really brought us together. Well, it was a fun shoot
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I think we got some good material. The thing I love the most about him is he listens to what I'm saying
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and he can help me stay calm. I'll let her smile. It just melts my heart every time
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I don't really worry about the future. I live in the moment. The next big thing in the future that I see for us is growing our business more
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winning an award for it. Yeah, I'm excited about how the magic has grown
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I think we'll continue to grow our businesses, stay focused as a team, and move you forward together
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What would I say to people that judge our relationship? Eat my shorts