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I'm 33 and I'm pregnant by a 21 year old
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I lied to my family about my boyfriend's age. He faced more judgment than I did
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My people was like, what the hell? Oh, you shouldn't be with her. She's older, she has kids, she's gonna ruin your life
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I have four baby daddies. Damn! Five baby daddies. I'm gonna tell my cousin Stephanie, Jalen's age
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and that we're expecting a baby. I wanna tell you something. I'm nervous, I'm like sweating
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My ass is wild. I'm Sharika. I'm 33. I have four children, and I'm inspecting one with my boyfriend who's 21
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We met at work. He just knew he wanted me. I was like, damn, like, who's that? I wanted to crack him, too
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But after we talked and we realized it was more than a crack, you know what I'm saying
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when he was flirting with me, I was like, how old are you? And then he immediately did, like, one of these, like, ah
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And he's like, yeah, I'm such and such. And I was like, wow
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It's a little young. But when I seen the way he was treating me, I was like, oh, he treats me very well
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So I just let the age thing fly. How did you get to the point where you're like, okay, cool, I'm doing this
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He sent me an explicit photo. It's the truth. You guys want to know the truth
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It's true. He was talking nasty. So I was like, well, let me see if you can back it up
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He backed it up. That was that guy. That was fire
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You like it? That was hot. You really mean it? Yeah, duh. Okay
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Jaylen like supports me, you know? You give me good energy. That's why my song is called Energy
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Financially, he takes care of us. He's the breadwinner. He lets me be creative
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And I like cook, clean. But he don eat anything but chicken strips so it kind of easy What judgment did you face from others when you started your relationship He faced more judgment than I did Yeah because she was like more older than me
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They'll be like, oh, she got all these kids running around. Don't talk to that lady. I've had a lot of kids
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Trust. I have four children and one on the way. I have four baby daddies
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Hey! Yeah. Hey. Five baby daddies. I have a 16-year-old, a 13-year-old, an 11-year-old, and a 2-year-old
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The hood kids, they fun. Fun to be around. Especially 11-year-old. That's my dog
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For real. I had my kids when I was his age. You know, so they're like older
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They don't really bother us. You think you can put up with that
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No, like, yeah. You ain't putting up with it. I am. We run the narrative in our relationship
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We're not letting other people dictate what we can and cannot do. This is my first child
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My boy, an old girl. Were you surprised when you found out you were pregnant
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Yes, because I was taking day after pills. Like Skittles. Hey man, for ones out there, just pull out
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What? That doesn't work. Pull out? Yes it do. That's where we're at
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You leave a hot dog in the microwave for too long, what happened? That's disgusting
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I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I didn't say I'm sorry. I'm happy. I'm happy to be a part of her first time
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I'm happy to have a little one. Do you think your age gap will impact how you parent? Definitely. Yes
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It do. I'm the fun one. Yup, and I don't play. She's the one that's just doing old people stuff
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My people was like, what the hell? Like, she's older than you
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I was like, yeah. I was like, okay. You know what I'm saying
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Just watch out. He does get like, she's older, she has kids, she's going to ruin your life
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But it's his life, and it's my life. It's nobody else's life, it's our life
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I haven't told my family Jaylen's real age because they're judgmental. You should not throw stones in glass houses
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That was deep. That was nasty. Okay. That was nasty, that was nasty
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My dad a pastor like you know it more like conservative over there So they do love him they just don know how old he is And my dad told Jalen he like you a fool He like if I were you I would not date my daughter
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because she has a lot of kids. And here you are coming in
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We're about to go meet my cousin Stephanie, and I'm about to tell her Jalen's age
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and that we're expecting a baby. I think she's going to be more shocked
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that I'm pregnant again. So you know what I brought you here
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Okay. This is my new boo. Okay. My man. It's lit over there, ain't it
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Yeah, stay a while, stay a while. We trying to get this one to stay forever. Okay. Forever
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You locked in? Oh, yes, ma'am. I love that. Yes, ma'am. Is it giving auntie
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He's giving younger. Okay, how young? 21. 21? That's wild. That's real young
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That's real young. But he has great qualities. It's the man for me
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We're not that far apart in age. How you feel about like, Sherika already having kids
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Ain't nothing wrong with it. Ain't nothing wrong with it? I love that. You feel like you can handle the responsibilities
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and stuff like that? Yeah, my bad. OK. Hmm. I got an uncle or something
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I'm just kidding. What do you feel about our age gap? It's crazy
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I would never. Freaking crazy. I can eat chicken tenders. You know he's 21
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It's crazy. We got to, we got to, we got to advance your palate
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to grown man. Some steaks or something. You gotta feel like a man
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You at the restaurant, some chicken strips. That's for the kids. I want to tell you something
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Take a drink. Take a sip of your drink. It might choke you a little bit
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I'm nervous. I'm like sweating. I'm pregnant. Y move fast But you know we been together for a year That crazy We already got we need a Sprinter van We need a Mercedes Sprinter van at this point
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We'll get one. With an eight passenger, 10 passenger. He just bought a big car
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My only fear would be that, you know, with her already having kids, I wouldn't want to see it where you have the baby
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and then there's a separation, like there's no family structure. If y'all like it, I love it
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I don't pay y'all bills. And you see Sharika, she's fun size
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She don't even seem like she's our age. That's why you don't tell her, yes ma'am
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she seem like our age, for real. That age gap is crazy, though
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Age gap is crazy. It is. I'd have been like, um, y'all man, please
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I was like that at first. No, I was. I was like, I was like, I don't know
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I got a text, ding, boop. I was like, oh, let me take it for a whirl
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I love his face. I love his chocolate skin. I love that he loves me
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And he's all about me. And he'll hurt a girl feelings for me. As will I
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I'm ready to go to Vietnam right now. Any minute. Any minute about him
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Like my thighs. Like how thick she is. I know everything about her
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That is not everything. That's me being thick. It's my baby. I'm crashing down about her
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Are you going to Vietnam about me? Don't crash it out. Okay, yeah, we're going to Vietnam
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What would you say to people who judge your relationship? Mind your own business
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Don't worry about this. Don't worry about my old lady. What does the future hold for the two of you? Millionaires
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I'm Spunk Bob, chefing it up. Mr. Crab. What about baby? Oh yeah, she's dead too. Yeah
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Kids are good. The kids are good, you know what I'm saying? What we're focused on is building a legacy
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generational wealth. We're focused on having something bigger than ourselves. This is real black love right here