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because this is something that I see in
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nearly every single divorce situation
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and co-parenting situation where I find
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the parents even when they're trying
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pretty hard they will mistakenly put
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their kids in the middle so what are
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some of the ways that you see kids being
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put in the middle during this process
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it's hard I'm I still guilty of doing it
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myself because my my youngest is now 17
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and how much easier is it to say hey can
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you tell your dad this rather than me
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taking the time to call her dad or send
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him a text so it's just just sometimes
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as parents we don't think you know so
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it's keeping in mind that even just
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innocuous things like that hey tell tell
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your dad or your mom this now your kids
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are like even if it's subconscious yeah
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it's like well what if I get it wrong I
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mean what what what if I tell them the
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wrong thing what if I don't do it right
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it's like that's not their job right you
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know so you just have to really be
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mindful of you know keeping in mind that
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your child's only job is to be a child
