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in just two minutes I'll show you how to
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stop fighting over small things for good
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one pause before reacting when something
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bothers you take a deep breath ask
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yourself is this worth a fight or can I
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let it go most small issues don't need a
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big reaction two focus on the bigger
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picture remember you're on the same team
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a small argument shouldn't overshadow
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the love and Trust you've built together
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think will this matter in a week a year
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three communicate your feelings not your
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anger instead of snapping say how you
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feel for example don't say you never
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listen say I feel unheard and I need
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your attention right now clear words
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misunderstandings four choose your
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battles wisely not every annoyance
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deserves a fight some things like
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toothpaste Caps or forgotten chores just
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save your energy for the big stuff five
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appreciation when was the last time you
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said Thank you to your partner instead
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of focusing on what they didn't do
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notice the good things they do every day
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appreciation shifts the focus from
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gratitude six use humor to diffuse
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tension laughter is a
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GameChanger if the argument feels silly
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crack a joke or laugh it off together
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it's hard to stay upset when when you're
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smiling seven set a time for big
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conversations if the issue keeps coming
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up don't argue in the moment say let's
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talk about this when we're both calm
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this keeps small problems from spiraling
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into big fights small arguments happen
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but they don't have to Define your
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relationship focus on kindness patience
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and the bigger picture remember love is
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more important than being right which
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tip will you try first let me know in
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