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WHEN Zee and Karie met on Tinder, sparks flew, and it wasn't long before they made things official. Zee told Love Don't Judge, "The relationship progressed so naturally and then all the trust that was built with the relationship brought us to our poly lifestyle." Talking about the arrangement, Karie added, "We want to deal with women who choose to deal with us, because we are together and a married couple." The couple's relationship choices means that their love is often subjected to harsh criticism. "We get judged for being poly, being lesbian, being black women," Zee explained. In this episode of Love Don't Judge, they'll be going on a date with Dro to explore the possibility of her joining the couple in a more permanent relationship. Zee explained, "We've had intimate vibes before, however, they just didn't make the cut." How will the trio get on this time around?
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We date other women together, but that doesn't mean we don't love each other
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We get judged for being poly, being lesbian, being black women. They think we are so selfish
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A lot of people do think that we are abominations and disappointments to the male race
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Why would two beautiful women do such a thing? Today we're going to be going on a date with someone from our past
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We've had intimate vibes before, however, it just didn't make the cut
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How will you bring security to this dynamic? Hi, I'm Z. This is my partner, Kari
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People think we're crazy for wanting more than one woman. We met in 2020
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On Tinder. We met on Tinder. I was not in the headspace nor thinking that I was ready to be in a relationship with anyone
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And I just come across this profile. My beautiful, lovely wife. She knew she wanted me when she seen me
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She's a little delusional in that era, but that's okay. I'm married, we are married, it's been five years
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I couldn't be that delusional. The relationship really progressed like so naturally
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And then all the trust that ended up coming with that building of the relationship
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brought us to our poly lifestyle. Being polyamorous is not easy. It's not something that you're going to jump into
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and know how to do overnight. It's something that takes time to build and perfect
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So it was just like a sit down and just being honest with saying, hey, this is where I am
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This is what I want to do. are you there with me and we both were in the same space and that's literally as simple as creating
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our dating profile and talking to other women together and that's how we go about our relationship
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as well with picking women we only want to deal with women who chooses to deal with us because we
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are together and we have women want us because we are a married couple have you found the perfect
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qr code below of course we get judged for being poly being lesbian being black women like the
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goes on and on but with all of that combined of course a lot of people think that we are crazy
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they think that we selfish we got comments they think that we're selfish they think we are so
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selfish for having our cake and eating everybody else's too. Yeah they think it was super selfish
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It's funny that a lot of people do think that we are abominations and disappointments to the male
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race for choosing to be with a woman and choosing to pursue additional women at that. They think
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we're taking all the women and just turning them out and it's like don't hate the player hate the
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game. They love it here. They love it here and we love them here. We're gonna read out some comments
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about what the people have to say about us online. This is AI
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People really think we are AI Again All we do is post videos and people will be like oh no this ain real Like this look too good to be true so it must not be real content Why would two beautiful women do such a thing
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Please tell me. What is the inquiring thing? Like, I don't understand
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Which one is it? Being gay? Being married? Being polyamorous? I don't know, being fly
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Jesus is coming soon. And when he return... We're gonna be right there to hug him
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You're gonna make your face. Like, I don't know. Worry about what happens on your judgment day
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Not mine. Abomination. What's the world turning into? Rubbish. Disgusting
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Hoodwrap. Nothing on our page is like that. We are not hoodwrap
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We're really far from it. I do come from the hood, though. Don't get it misconstrued
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Y'all should die together. I mean, I would hope so. This is my wife
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I mean, you know, any love story, you would want to die with your partner
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They're just projecting the most craziest stuff. We bond over this, laugh over it, and we move forward
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because it's not something that really affects us where we're crying at home about it
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Yeah, it doesn't limit our growth, but it reinforces our strength to growth
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It makes me feel like society is just so dense sometimes. Like, they are so stuck to the matrix and their own, like, societal, like, constructs
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that they really don't see anything else outside of that. Both me and my wife are Leos, so that is a really big thing to us
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We're both dominant women. You can always catch me in front of the camera
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Chana, sexy. People pay us to dominate them, and we love it
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I do, I really do love it. We love to give that tantalizing feel to our content
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We usually are wearing a lot of black, lots of leathers, chains, minimal jewelry
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Our platform loves to see the power in our dynamics. When it comes to women, we love to provide for women, spoil women, be there for them physically
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financially, emotionally. But when it comes to men, we're financially dominating a man
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We're lesbians, so it's not really much we have to contribute to a man's life
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But we do believe in love and light for everyone on this earth. So our contribution to the male part of our society is to tell them what to do, tell them what not to do, grace them with our spiritual knowledge
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Last month in total, combined with dominating people's uncles and also doing our online job, I think the revenue in an estimate was about $1,500
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$100 so in retrospect you can pay your rent just by not even depending but demanding
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Reparations as the black woman that you are. All right. Good job. Good job. All right. All right. Thank you Pimp
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Thank you So today we going to be going on a date with someone From our past a little bit of an interest early on She pretty cool I excited to see what that date is going to look like
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We are excited. We've had intimate vibes before. However, it just didn't make the cut
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But today we'll give it a chance. Are you excited? Yes, I'm excited to see where things go
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I'm going with the flow. All right, baby. We can rock and roll, we're on the same page, ain't we
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We need to bundle up. Like, this is the time to go on dates and find a cuddle partner, not freeze
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Hey! Oh, it's good! I'm like, girl! What's up, y'all? I'm Dro, and I'm here to see what this poly life is about
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I'm hella excited because it's been a minute since I seen, you know, Zee and Kari
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and they definitely opened up my mind to the poly experience. So now I'm interested to see
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if we can move forward with it together. I personally have always thought about being polyamorous
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but that was when I was in a relationship with people I think that really weren't about that
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So now that I'm single, I thought I might, you know, try my hand in it now
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because it's been something that's always been on top of my mind. And come on with the black, look
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great minds think alike, right? We only pursue women together. We only talk to the same women together
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We try to keep our interests mutual to just save the overall security of the poly dynamic
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One rule that we have for certain is we do not give out our numbers for individual conversations
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because you're not just looking to date Zeke or looking to date Kari or just build a connection
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with us individually. So we like to show up as the package that we are
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So what made y'all open up your relationship? Like why y'all decided to, you know, go on a date with me
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I mean we have the capacity to show up and have another person in our relationship
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This is what we want, both me and my wife. We need that. Like, it's our brand
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So, in summary, you fit the demographic. I have to agree. You do
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I think so. I think, you know, we'll make a good little triangle
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So, what did that consist of, though? And then, like, you don't have a chore list
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We don't ask for much. Like, the stuff that we ask for is literally the bare minimum of what you should be able
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to provide in a relationship. Communication. Honest. Honesty. Respect. Loyalty. Yeah. Okay
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Like, you could be in a position where you have two women, and already wives
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Like, you really shouldn't have anything, like, stopping that from being a very obedient
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lifestyle for you. I'm wondering what's the catch? There's no catch. A catch
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What do you think the catch is? I'm pretty sure. I mean, y'all fine, clearly. So what you gonna get caught with
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Like, I just wonder, like... Cheating? No, no, because I feel like I got everything I need, for sure
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I got two baddies. Like, y'all creative. that's what I'm saying I had to get the list
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because I don't know what you worried about how will you bring security to this dynamic because the ladies love you just as much as they love us They do You ain got time for that I don know
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They be going crazy. I have had my fair share in the streets
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but I think I'm ready to settle down. And like I said, I've always wanted to experiment with poly
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And now y'all have opened up my mind to it. And I feel like y'all give me everything
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I would look for outside of relationships. Say, you know, some people might cheat
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and try to go look for, you know, X, Y, and Z. But if you already got two beautiful women
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that's literally pouring into your cup and you gotta make sure you're feeling theirs
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I think it all works out. Like, as long as y'all feeling each other's cup. Mm-hmm
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Well, you know we don't miss each other's cup, so. It's just an overflow, it's gonna go into it
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It's gonna overflow, it's continuously overflow. And I'm gonna make sure y'all feel secure
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and provide a flow as well. So, you go on another date with us? Oh, for sure
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That was an easy day, bro. I feel cool about the date. Like, I feel like it's cool, it's casual now
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I will only have to see if like, you actually show up. Like, I don't know, like I'm gonna hold you to it
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but I'm not gonna have my hopes up high. Okay, come on
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I respect it. I respect it, but I got y'all, man. I'm not playing with y'all in second time
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Like, come on. Yes, I am definitely ready for a serious relationship
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with these beautiful wives, if they'll have me. Okay. Yes. We thinking about it
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We think about it, and we gonna see what we hold you to. I miss y'all, man. I miss y'all, it's not the last time
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I'm definitely maturing. I feel like I will be able to take care of both of the ladies
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You feel me? And also show y'all a side that y'all have never seen
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Okay, that y'all might need to see. I like what I'm hearing
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I like it. Out of any person that I've ever encountered, dated, or had any love interest with
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She has been the only person to truly protect me and to also allow me to have the space to be myself, find myself, and love myself
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She's so sensitive, soft, and divine, and caring, but still got that mm, that little mm to her
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She got a little bite to her, and I love a woman with a bite confidence. What would you say to people who judge your relationship
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I think they need to figure out why it bothers them so much. Our future looks like a house full of our lovely women
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Like we want to live in a home full of our women. We don't care necessarily what that number would be
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whether it is triad or whether we are in a quad. And we just want to build like a village
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And I think that's all Polly people's like, you know, end goal
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Our love village will be completely established and we're going to have our damn feet kicked up
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