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Yes, we booked the flights with British Airways
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We rang them before we went. We explained exactly everything we could possibly say
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We explained that there's a very strong chance that he probably would say the word bomb, plane crash
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everything that you could think of that was linked to an airport. There's a high chance he's going to say it
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And they were fine. They told us, no problem, don't worry, you go to the accessibility lane
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We got the land guard for him, so it clearly said, I have Tourette or whatever it said on it
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we had the diagnosis letters with us um we went through security seamlessly uh no problem went
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right through the assess the accessibility um lane brilliant uh and then when we went to board the
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plane we literally got to the door of the plane the um the duty the british airways duty um
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duty manager was there and she said can we can we speak to you in private um and i we kind of knew
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at that point what was going to happen uh so we just said well actually you can do it in front of
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whoever passed you if you're gonna tell us we can't get on this flight because my son has a disability you can say it in front of another 200 people um so uh yeah that that was basically it
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and then she said that um she waited made us wait for 45 minutes and uh the captain wanted to speak
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to us he didn't talk to us we didn't even meet him um waited there for 40 minutes uh you know at
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this time the kids are getting very agitated, stressed out, especially Mason and in turn
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his tics were getting a lot worse. And then the duty manager of the same lady come out
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I completely believe you and I understand why you're upset, but we have to, have to take
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these allegations seriously. Basically said you're due, I think the words were exactly due to being a safety threat to
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the passengers and a bomb threat. So we are refusing your son and your son's troubles simply based off of safety
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The fact that you are understanding it has lots of respect. Yes, and I've said that. That's why I've been so busy visiting
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Can I ask, is that because he had said bomb at some point? Yeah, but this is for us
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We just really trying to understand the situation. We can't get heads around
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Mason said bomb throughout the whole process of the airport. When we were checking in when we went through security when we in the airport He said it at a gate and he said it at the plane but he said it continuously throughout the day It wasn just bomb There was lots of other things that were said as well
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but bomb was one of the ones that he'd frequently used. He said it throughout the airport, so we just can't get heads around
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Why was it we pulled aside a lot earlier? I was told from the very beginning, actually
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you're probably not going to get on a plane if he does use this word. And then we could have seeked advice before we went
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but they waited until we got to the very, very door of the plane before they turned us away
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Which, for me, that probably isn't even the worst part. The worst part after that is obviously Mason's then laying on the floor
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He's crying his eyes out, ticking a lot, apologising to people. And he said to one of the other party, which we only found out yesterday
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what's the point in my life if I can't do anything? Which, you know, it's heartbreaking as a parent to hear that sort of thing
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And their response to that and the way Mason was, which they could clearly see, was to escort us out with three armed officers
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There was no assistance, no help. We just got, I mean, it's intimidating as an adult with a policeman with a gun behind you, let alone a distressed child
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So all the way through the airport, he'd become worse, more vocal, stressed
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I'm listening to your story for the first time. Anyone listening to this for the first time
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you had given them advance notice of what might happen yeah and the reason for it it did happen
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so they should have understood the reason for it what i don't understand and i wonder whether
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you've asked this question why didn't they think to just let the entire plane know that there was a
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young lad with this kind of brings me on so so eventually this is the ironic thing we've actually
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flew over we're over here now and we managed to fly over a company called i believe it as pronounced
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fueling yeah um ironically it's a sister company of british airways um so it's technically owned
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by the same people um we went on with them and i cannot praise him enough the captain boarded us
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first the duty manager met us before we even went to the gate he chatted to us the captain come out
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give my wife a big cuddle went on to the plane he put us at the back of the plane blocked out the
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front row of seats in front of us. And then once we were on the plane
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he then went into the waiting room and made an announcement to all the other passengers of the situation
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And then every passenger then were absolutely brilliant There was no and then with that happening Mason ticks were a lot calmer because he felt relaxed so you know there was a few ticks on the plane and it might have been the you know
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maybe in the two and a half hour flight he must have been once but no one had an idea have you
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told ba this we haven't heard from ba at all um on the saturday morning when we're just sorry the
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sunday morning when we were ejected flights on the saturday night um i rang them and they basically
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just said we can compensate the three flights um and obviously i explained the biggest situation
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and he said well you're a bomb threat you know uh but this is a bit above me and he was going to
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pass it on and um i personally haven't heard anything from ba uh albeit i didn't make the
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bookend our friend made the bookend uh he has written a formal complaint but as of yet he's
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not received anything back um so we've not heard anything we've asked all the questions we've asked
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everything we can the contrast between the two flights you know armed police officers escorting
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your son and his parents away um and you have a one-year-old daughter don't you and an older
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child as well yeah so this was our second part of the argument because obviously we have we have an
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older an older child who's 16 a friend was of us as well um and even my friends we booked as a party
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of 10 and if like i say the reason the reason we were refused to fly it was being a bomb threat
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if that was true why would they let my daughter back on a plane when we have mixed luggage
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underneath the plane she had our items in her suitcases if it was that much of a bomb threat
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how can they then let six other passengers back on the plane to me from this terrorist cell
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yeah yeah exactly you know we've literally been marched out they feel it feeling that way take me
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to that moment with the armed officers particularly from the impact that had on mason so the three
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three officers were uh they actually come down to the bridge uh and they stood there so we kind of
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knew what was going to happen straight away because they sent the passengers up they brought the three armed officers down uh they didn't really say a lot they just stood there um the gentleman that
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took us out when he escorted us out so once we come off the bridge the other two left and he he
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took us the rest of the way through the airport. To be fair, he was okay
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He wasn't too bad. But the fact that he was escorting us out
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and you get the other passengers all staring I think he was I did think he sympathised with us a little bit but obviously he doing his job he got to stay in partial and i completely understand that and you mentioned there that there might be compensation for the extra flight that
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you had to buy no no no no did i misunderstand that sorry yeah no sorry they offered refunds
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for the original flight for the free for the three of us that come up with the But not for the subsequent ones, yeah
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Yeah, so it's just the British Airways slides. What lessons do you want them to take away from this
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and anyone listening to take away from this? I just think if one airline can do it, then every airline can do it
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You know, it wasn't difficult. It wasn't the plane set off on time
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There was no disruptions. So if that's the standards that one airline can set
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then the rest of them, I think, should be on par with that. it's just you know this is what we're trying to do now is create awareness that
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it isn't behavior he doesn't choose to do it it is involuntary it's completely not only
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involuntary you know he's the last person that wants to be she he doesn't want to be shouting
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these things he just can't help it and the way the what sorry the way he he described it it's
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almost like a a sneeze that you that you're trying to hold in so it's the way he you know
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he described that as me because obviously i don't even understand really uh you know i'm only going
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But there's a wider lesson in it, isn't there, for people with disabilities and about the rest of us when we meet people with disabilities, not deal with them
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You did your bit. You played your part ahead of the flight and you were greeted the way you were, you know, in that first flight with BA
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do people typically do you think not just Tourette's but do you think we are still far too
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nervous of people with disabilities of all kinds yes I think yeah I definitely do think that
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I was actually I must admit I was absolutely shocked because the awareness especially around
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Tourette's at the moment with the film and and and the charity Tourette's action what they've been
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doing is really relevant at the moment. There's so much awareness about it
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So this one especially is a little bit harder to sort of take because there is so much about it
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especially with the BAFTAs, you know, a little while ago. It's so sort of recent at the moment
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I'm struggling to understand why they ain't, they ain't, they're not following sort of any sort of training or anything