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what if I told you that the biggest
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obstacle standing between you and your
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dreams it's just a set of thoughts hey
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my beautiful people welcome to scius a
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channel where we we we burn and we turn
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this chaos into Clarity today we are
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diving deep into to how to overcome
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those pesky insecurities that sometimes
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come to hold us back so please trust me
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you're not alone on this journey it's
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it's it's so many people going through
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the same thing so let's chat about it
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get comfy whatever that you have to do
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to get comfortable and listen to this
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whole message just do that now getting
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to it you know insecurities insecurities
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insecurities in insecurities they can
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feel like heavy chains weighing down on
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us keeping us from truly living Our
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Lives they keep us in this box where we
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we often feel sorry for ourself we feel
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so sad and the sadness is so Dee rooted
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and it seems like no one is there to
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save you they creep in where we least
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expected Whispering doubts and fears
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into our ears maybe it's that feeling of
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inadequacy when scrolling through social
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media and seeing everyone's highlighted
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DRS or perhaps it's that anxiety that
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kicks in right before the big
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presentation whatever that is we've all
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been there and it's completely normal to
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feel insecure at times you know but the
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good news is that we have the power to
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change that narrative you can change
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that and control it however you want it
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to be and not for it to control you you
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and have you consumed in it but let's
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start by recognizing those triggers
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think about the situations that make
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your heart raise and your palms too
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sweat is it when you walk into a room
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crowded with so many people and you feel
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like everyone is just judging you or
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maybe it's during a job interview and
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you suddenly doubt your
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qualifications awareness is the first
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step when we shine light on those
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moments we can we can begin to
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understand that they don't Define us
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they are part of our experience but they
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are not who we are so if you you you can
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be aware of that that's the first step
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to to making a change in this now here's
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where the magic happens challenging
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those negative thoughts now imagine you
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are you are getting ready for a very
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important event and that nagging voice
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in your head says you're going to mess
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it up again just like you did the last
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time but instead of letting that thought
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to to take the reins just flip the
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script tell yourself hey you thought I'm
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not going to listen to you who do you
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think you are to come and speak down on
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me I've learned from my past and I'm
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better prepared now you see this kind of
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cogn of restructuring isn't just a tip
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it's a it's a Lifeline it may feel
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uncomfortable at first but trust me the
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more you practice it's the more you
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believe it and do not worry it's a
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process no one becomes a master
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overnight just take it easy be patient
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with yourself and you'll get there no
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matter how silly it it seems do it if
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it's for your good and speaking of
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process and of compassions um this is so
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important because we can often be the
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harshest critiques to
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ourselves we we tend to to to over
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criticize ourself more than anyone has
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ever criticized us think about it if a
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friend came to you sharing their
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insecurities would you tear them down
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would you tear them down or laugh at
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them and just or just do something
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that's gonna take down their energy
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levels of course not you're not going to
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do that you would uplift them reminding
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them of their strengths and worth you
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know so why not extend the same kindness
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to yourself positive affirmations can be
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very powerful here and each morning just
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look yourself in a mirror and say
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hey call call yourself by your name if
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your name is um Bernice just say hey
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am beautiful I am enough Bernice you are
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beautiful Bernice you are
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enough and I have so much to offer and
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yes bernise you have so much to offer
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speak to you in that way it might feel
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very silly at first but it can create a
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ripple effect of positiv ity in your
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life so just just do it for yourself
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speak to yourself speak good things to
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yourself Speak Good Will Good Fortune to
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yourself and let's be real we could do
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we could all just do with a little more
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kindness into this world I mean oh my
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God people have experienced so many
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things be it in relationships or at the
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families or workplace or School wherever
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so if you have a chance to be kind to
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yourself use that chance and when is
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that chance that chance is that chance
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is every day every moment be good to
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yourself be good to yourself now let's
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get practical taking action is so
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essential I know I know that stepping
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out of your comfort zone can be
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terrifying you know trying to do
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something you've never done before and
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now if you are a perfectionist you tend
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to overthink so many things what if I
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fail and sometimes you don't even do
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what you've got to do because you are
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afraid of failure but stepping out of
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that comfort zone that's where growth
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begins that's where it happens just
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remember to start small start small and
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set a mini goal for yourself like
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striking up a conversation with someone
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new or signing up for a class you've
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you've been eyeing that online course
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whatever that's going to help you to to
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to get to where you want to be each step
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you take it it truly takes you and
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builds your confidence and helps you
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break free from the chains of insecurity
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so be practical with with yourself and
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celebrate those small victories
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celebrate them they matter so so much
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and speaking of Breaking Free let's not
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forget about the company we
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keep surrounding yourself with positive
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uplifting people is vital when you have
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a supportive Network it makes it so much
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easier for you to face your
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insecurities and most people they don't
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even know that they are they are
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triggers are from the the company they
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keep sometimes you you'd be with people
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and you don't even know what your
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triggers are but you just find that
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after interacting with certain people in
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your life they feel you they leave you
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feeling so drained so down so filled
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with anxiety you need to be very aware
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of such things and how do you become
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aware of such things you need to tap
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into yourself you need to start
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journaling you need to start speaking to
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yourself you need to start checking up
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on yourself check what happened to you
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yesterday who did you interact with why
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did you watch why did you listen how did
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it make you feel what happened today why
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does do that for yourself that's how you
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track what's going on with you so seek
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Out friends who encourages you you know
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who inspire you and remind you of your
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worth remember you don't need negativity
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in your life it's all about those
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Positive Vibes it's it's like they
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saying you are the average of the five
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people you spend the most time with so
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Choose Wisely Choose Wisely my beautiful
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people all right fam and as I wrap this
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up I want you to remember that
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overcoming insecurities is a journey not
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destination it's a journey it's going to
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take time and also take your time you
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know it takes time it takes patience and
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a lot of self love so be kind be kind to
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yourself as you navigate this process
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you are already doing amazing just by
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being here and wanting to gr do not take
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these little things so so for granted up
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to now you've watched this video up to
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now in this video it's not even about
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it's not even talking about somebody
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else it's about how you can improve
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yourself so you've made it this far this
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this is a sign of determination this is
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is a sign of someone who truly wants to
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make a change in their lives and just
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know that you are amazing you are
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amazing you are a go-getter every little
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thing every little Victory celebrated it
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notice it and embrace yourself with that
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and remember the only way to truly shine
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is to embrace every part of who you
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are so my beautiful people thank you
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thank you thank you so much that's it
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for today's video I hope you feel more
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empowered and a step closer to mastering
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your mind and please share share your
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thoughts or on your on the comment
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section tell us if you are even free or
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you are okay with telling us of some of
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your insecurities share with us and I
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myself I will reply back I I will talk
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to I will do that so just just drop a
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comment man drop a comment and we'll see
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what we what we do and stay blessed
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people stay sancious your sanity is your
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super power and till the next time bye