We're Obsessed With How Good Looking We Are | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

RACHEL and Benjor have been together for seven years and married for six. They met in church while both following a strict Mormon faith, Benjor is originally from Brazil but he went to the USA on a missionary project, where Rachel is from. The pair saw 'non-hetero' characteristics about each other, but both kept their bisexualities a secret for years, due to their religion. "We were both very conservative growing up, and even though we were both bisexual, we hid that from everybody. We thought it was a secret that we were going to go to the grave with because it was such a bad thing," Benjor said. "However, I'm happy to look very loud now." Due to Benjor's metrosexual interests and traits, Rachel admitted that when he came out as bisexual to her in 2021 "I wasn't 100% surprised." Benjor joked: "She definitely did because I didn't wear socks with my shoes, so I guess that's a 'gay thing'." He added that he "grew up in a hair salon, and so was very used to seeing my mom and my sister being girly, liking beauty things. And that's what got me interested when I was young already in beauty and procedures." The pair are now accepting of their sexualities now but Rachel said that her preconceived expectations of a partner made her suspicious of Benjor to begin with. "I was really scared because I thought he's probably telling me this because he's going to leave me. For the first few months after he told me, I was on high alert, going through his phone. But because he's been so transparent I know I have nothing to worry about." Benjor said: "I've never had the desire to do other things outside my marriage. I'm fully satisfied." Three years after their marriage Benjor started his own business which meant he had to do a lot of online calls, he realised he wasn't happy with his appearance when he’d look at himself on the camera and decided to get a nose job. From there, the couple have been inspired to get a large amount of cosmetic procedures, with a total cost of $35,000. Rachel explained: "Benjor was actually the one who inspired me in the beginning to be okay with getting plastic surgery. I've had jaw implants, my chin shaved down, a buccal fat pad reduction, botox everywhere." They have spent $35,000 They have been open about their procedures and sexualities online, but their candour has been met with hate by commenters saying: "Seek therapy", "You look uncanny and overdone" and "he's cheating on you."