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CARRIE and Randy appeared on Love Don’t judge last year, and Carrie received a lot of backlash because of her initial intentions for meeting Randy... Although it started off transactional, Carrie ended up falling in love. Randy promised Carrie that he would change her life and he did just that. Carrie has her side hustles, but Randy also helps her financially. She says she doesn’t really have an allowance, she just spends as she pleases each month. At the beginning of the relationship, Randy made it clear that marriage isn’t something that he is interested in. After going through a 20-year marriage and divorce, Randy wanted no parts. Until recently, Randy proposed to Carrie and she couldn’t be more excited! She is finally marrying her sugar daddy... Carrie has said that if it wasn’t for Randy being in her life, she doesn’t know where she would be. Carrie now has her own podcast and is also an advocate for women with mental health struggles.
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My name is Randy. I'm 64 years old
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My name is Carrie. I'm 31 years old. I am finally marrying my sugar daddy
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I graduated from boys to this. When people do think that Randy's my dad, I'm like, hell yeah, he is my daddy
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Gold digger. And I said, get your bag, baby. I often do spend money on Randy when holidays, birthdays, I'll get him a pack of gum at the store
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What I love about Carrie is she's sweet, she's kind, and she keeps me active, if you know what I mean
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Today I am going wedding dress shopping with a great friend of mine, and I am excited to try on some dresses
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So I don't necessarily have a budget. Okay, here we are! Do you like a bagel for breakfast
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Yeah, that sounds good. My name is Randy. My name is Carrie. I'm 64 years old
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I'm 31 years old. Randy started off as my sugar daddy, and now we're in love
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I am finally marrying my sugar daddy. Randy loves his bagels toasted, cinnamon raisin
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and a little bit of butter spread on top. Randy and I met about five years ago on Tinder
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when I was looking for some financial help. My first intention was to milk him dry
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I knew she was going to try to take advantage of me, and I was like, we'll see who comes out on top
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I realized I was attracted to Carrie as soon as she walked through the door
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Randy was my first and last sugar daddy. I think that I wear the pants in the relationship
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because Randy gives in a lot to my emotional needs, my physical needs, and everything else
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I like to let her think she wears the pants, but I wear the pants in the relationship because..
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Because he controls the money. I fell in love with Carrie in about six months
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because, one, she was gorgeous, and two, she was really honest because multiple times
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I left credit cards on the counter that she could have taken and she never did
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Give me a kiss, baby. That's so cute. Okay, let's do it. Yeah
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We receive a lot of judgment in our relationship because people tell me he's gonna drop dead
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The worst reaction that I normally get in public is when we out and about eating and people tend to think that he my dad
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I'm like, hell yeah, he is my daddy. The judgment I get is a little different
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It's like, everybody gives me a thumbs up and like, you know, does she have a sister
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When I post photos and videos of Randy and I, there's a lot of backlash, a lot of hate
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and sometimes it can be very brutal. People say that I'm just using Randy for his money
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and I think we all have come to the conclusion after five years that that's not the case
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This one says this couple won't last long, not just because of the age difference
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She's a user and taking advantage of him. Gold digger. And I said, get your bag, baby
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I was previously married for 25 years, and I have four kids
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And after that relationship, I said I would never get married again
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What changed my mind was that I found Carrie honest, family-oriented, and she was gorgeous, so I wanted to lock it up
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Regarding the prenup, she said she was totally fine signing one. She knows what she's going to get. She's already in my will
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We don't mind that people out there are concerned or bothered by our relationship
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We're having a blast. I'm just looking at my closet. I have so much black in here. I love it
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I like the way Carrie dresses because when we walk into the room, every head turns
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And I like that attention. When Skims collabed with Dolce & Gabbana, I got the entire set
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I was obsessed. The most expensive thing I've bought for Carrie is the engagement ring
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What I love about Randy is that he's a man. I graduated from boys to this
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What I love about Carrie is she's sweet, she's kind, and she keeps me active
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If you know what I mean. Randy definitely spoils me. If there's anything I want, I ask
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I've calmed down a lot over the years. I often do spend money on Randy when, you know, holidays, birthdays
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I'll get him a pack of gum at the store. After five years of Randy telling me that he'd never get married again
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I didn't expect a proposal. But when it happened, I was thrilled, and I was excited, and I cried
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I decided to propose to Carrie in Las Vegas because our relationship is about adventure and it exciting When he proposed he knew that I wanted to elope so he thought that we were going to do it then and there
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However, I'm being the girl that I am, I said, no, I want a little bit of time to prepare
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That looks awesome. Yeah, that really does. The safaris, that's what I want
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I would love to get married in Africa on a safari. Why I like it is because it's dangerous and adventurous, like she is
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I plan for it to be big and lavish. It's going to all depend on what he tells me I'm allowed to do
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Do we have a budget for the wedding? I haven't even thought about it. Today, I am going wedding dress shopping
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with a great friend of mine, and I am excited to try on some dresses
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I can't wait to see her in that dress walking down the aisle. It's going to be the best day of my life
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Hey, girl! How are you? I have not seen you so long
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Thank you so much for meeting me here. Yes, we're going to go. We're going to have a blast. You ready
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I'm as ready as I'm about to be, yes. My girl, we're here today trying to find her a dress
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I gotta make sure she looks good walking down that aisle, because, yeah, that's how we do it
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Hello. Welcome. I'm Tanya. I'm Carrie. I'll be working with you today
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Awesome. Congratulations. Thank you so much. So what we're going to do today is we're going to shop for your dream dress
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I usually start off with about five to six dresses, because you don't want to get overwhelmed with too many dresses
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So fitting and sexy. Of course. Low cut. Love that. Not sure if I want to train, but I do want it to be skimpy but classy
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What about budget? So, I don't necessarily have a budget. Oh, ting, ting, ting, ting, ting. Right
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I can ring the bell on that. Don't tell Randy. Realize that. I want Tanya. So, remind me, when is the wedding date again
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We have not picked a date yet. However, I'm trying to push him towards booking that Africa trip soon
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Okay, so you already told the lady you don't have no budget. So, that means Randy, he's slurging, he doing whatever, he going with whatever you say
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I haven't told him that yet. Okay. But, you know, he does spoil me, so at this point, I don't believe I do have a budget
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so let's get started and pick the most expensive one. What were your first thoughts when you found out that I was dating Randi
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You want the honest truth? Yes. All right, well, I was okay
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I was a little skeptical. When I first met Randi when Carrie told me that she met him on Tinder I was like ooh girl is this a catfish Like what is going on for real I had her give me the location so I could keep an eye on her And you know as time went on he turned out to be a really nice guy
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Supportive. And I think he's just the right thing to keep her in line
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Because, you know, she can be a little wild sometimes. He's cute for his age. I like how, like, how you carry yourself when you with him
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Like, you're giving, like, that growing woman vibe. The settle down vibes. I'm trying now, yes
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I'm ready to settle down. What concerns did you initially have about our relationship
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I was like, oh, is he going to keep up? He does. You know? Okay. Okay
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Which is good. As long as he can keep up with you or try. He does. We get the fast pass
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Not the fast pass. Did you ever think I would marry my sugar daddy
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I had high hopes. You know what I mean? But... We both did, girl
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Yeah. You actually made good, so you want, you know... I got it. You packed off of us, so..
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I got the needle in the haystack. Yeah, you did. Like, we need to duplicate that needle
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Yeah, we sure do. Does anybody have a brother? Right. Is this the one
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It's the one. Are you saying yes to the group? Yes! I think Carrie did a good job
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My girl looks good. She looked beautiful in everything, but she said yes to this one
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To the dress! I think Randy is going to drop his jaw
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Like, he's gonna be ready to tear her down like, ASAP. Cause he's gonna be ripping this thing off, so
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He better cry or we're gonna rewind. Randy has changed my life for the better
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in several different ways. A month after I met him, he said, give me a year and I'll change your life
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And he has done that for the last five years. I love that Randy is fun
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He is sexy and he loves to have a good time regardless of his age
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What man my age wouldn't like to have a hot young girl like this
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So, I love it
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