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She Wanted a Divorce… Until He Played His Final Card | TRUE STORY
Darlene wanted out — she thought a 90-day separation would be the gateway to freedom. Influenced by her manipulative friend Miranda and a romanticized view of divorce, she expected empowerment. What she didn’t expect… was that Jeff would play by her rules — and beat her at her own game.
This is a story of quiet strategy, brutal emotional honesty, and one man’s refusal to beg for love.
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The music stopped. The house, usually a
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symphony of family chaos, fell into a
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suffocating silence.
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"Jeff," Darlene began, her voice
0:09
brittle. "I'm not happy. I want a
0:12
divorce."
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Jeff was taken aback, but not entirely
0:16
caught off guard. They had been married
0:18
for nearly 20 years, a steady,
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predictable partnership built on routine
0:23
and mutual respect. But for months, a
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new variable had entered their equation.
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Miranda
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Darlene's friend, the self-proclaimed
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marriage expert, whose expertise stemmed
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from three failed attempts at matrimony.
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Miranda's advice, Jeff surmised, was a
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siren song, luring Darlene toward a
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rocky, unfamiliar shore. He set his book
0:46
down on the nightstand, the gesture slow
0:48
and deliberate.
0:50
Jeff, are you listening? I want a
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divorce. Yes, Darlene, I heard you.
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He chose his words carefully. Each one a
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stone laid on a path he hadn't wanted to
1:01
walk.
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But this is a serious matter, and I
1:04
don't want to rush my response.
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He looked at her, truly looked at her,
1:09
searching for a clue.
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I believe I've been a loving and
1:13
dedicated husband and a good father. You
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haven't mentioned any issues in our bed
1:18
life, so I'm in the dark about what's
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gone wrong. He paused, letting the
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silence hang.
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However, after hearing your words, my
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stance is that I can't bear the thought
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of your happiness being compromised by
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our marriage. Though it hurts, I'll
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stand by you in this divorce.
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But I need to know, is this a recent
1:40
issue, or has it been brewing for a
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while? Yes, gradually, Darlene
1:46
responded, her resolve wavering under
1:48
his calm intensity.
1:50
I need some space, some time to explore
1:53
other opportunities, meet new people.
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She shifted uncomfortably, then recited
1:58
the script Miranda had no doubt fed her.
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As far as I know, the court mandates
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that we be legally separated within 90
2:05
days of signing the papers. Maybe down
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the line, I might change my mind and
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want to remain married. We might not
2:12
need to go through with a divorce.
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Jeff's mind, always a few steps ahead,
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latched onto her words.
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That's similar to what I've heard from
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others. He said during the 90-day
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separation period, we're both free to
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date other people without it being
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considered cheating,
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but ultimately we both need to agree to
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halt the divorce.
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However, either of us can proceed with
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the divorce without the others consent.
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He saw the flicker of surprise in her
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eyes.
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Darlene, in her haste, hadn't considered
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that he had the same freedom she did. I
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thought that if I filed the paperwork
2:48
first, it would be up to me whether to
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continue the marriage or proceed with
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the divorce, she stuttered. I don't
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think that's fair, Jeff objected, his
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voice still steady. But just to be
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clear, I'll also file so that we're on
3:02
equal footing. Does that sound
3:04
reasonable? Um, I suppose, she
3:07
stammered. Are you suggesting that you
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want a divorce?
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It seems I mistakenly believed I was
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fulfilling the role of a suitable
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husband, father, and partner, he said. A
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subtle sting in the words.
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No, I'm not seeking a divorce, but I
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won't obstruct your future, Darlene.
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I never implied you were inadequate, she
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rushed to assure him, sensing she was
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losing control of the narrative. You've
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been a remarkable husband, father, and
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partner. I simply desire new experiences
3:39
to spend time with others. It might
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bring me some fulfillment. I just need
3:44
some space. Legal separation will grant
3:46
me that freedom. Darlene, the fact that
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you require more than I can provide
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highlights my shortcomings, he said. A
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lie so perfectly crafted. It sounded
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like the truth. He fell silent briefly
3:59
before continuing.
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Have you already consulted a lawyer and
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completed the paperwork? No, I haven't
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obtained the documents yet, she said,
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brushing off his comment about feeling
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inadequate. I intend to hire Junior
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Lewis. He handled Miranda's divorces.
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The confirmation of Miranda's influence
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hung in the air. Well, I'll likely
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enlist my cousin Sally to handle my side
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of the divorce, Jeff replied. You're not
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fond of Sally, I know, but she's
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genuinely kind-hearted.
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Her tough reputation comes from her
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profession. She fiercely advocates for
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her clients.
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Interestingly, after the last family
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gathering, probably due to a few too
4:41
many drinks, Sally offered to represent
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me for free if I ever needed a divorce
4:46
lawyer. "Wow," Darlene breathed. "Sally
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was a nightmare in the courtroom, a
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whirlwind of legal aggression. The
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thought of being on the opposing side
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made her stomach churn."
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We need to discuss something else, Jeff
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continued, his voice shifting into the
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familiar problem-solving tone of a
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project manager.
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I suggest you use the next two weeks to
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prepare for your divorce. That way, we
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can start our separation on the first of
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the month. Okay,
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that works. But I'm not sure why we need
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to do anything before the separation
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period ends.
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Well, I suppose the purpose of the
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separation is to experience what life
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might be like after divorce, to help us
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decide if it's what we truly want, Jeff
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clarified.
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So, this separation period should serve
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as a sort of trial for post-deorce life.
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Otherwise, we might not gain any clarity
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until the divorce itself, which could be
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messy. Does that make sense to you?
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Maybe, Darlene said, her resolve
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beginning to waver. I hadn't really
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thought about it. How about this? Let's
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head to the kitchen, grab a notepad, and
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start outlining everything we need to
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do. I'll brew some coffee. With those
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words, Jeff left the bed and headed to
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the kitchen, leaving Darlene to ponder
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the sudden, jarring reality of her
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request.
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When Darlene arrived in the kitchen, the
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coffee was already boiling, and Jeff was
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jotting down notes on a pad.
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"All right," he resumed. There's so much
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to consider, it's hard to know where to
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begin. I think we should start with
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discussing the children. What do you
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mean? Well, we'll need to explain the
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situation to them, ensuring we both
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communicate the same message and
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reassure them that our divorce isn't
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their fault, Jeff explained.
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He anticipated her objections, the same
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ones Miranda would have suggested.
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We need a plan for addressing their
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inevitable questions. I propose that
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Darlene continue living in the house
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during the separation allowing us to
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maintain a semblance of normaly for the
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children while still spending time
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together occasionally.
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He outlined the complexities
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synchronizing social lives, the risk of
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resentment and the need for
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authenticity.
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Darlene, however, remained unconvinced.
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Clinging to the idealized version of a
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trial separation she had in her head,
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they moved on to the financial
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implications. Jeff explained they would
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each need to manage their own expenses
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from car payments to groceries. He
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mentioned the standard practice of
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dividing joint assets and setting up
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child support arrangements.
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Understood, Darlene said, her voice
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small. There's so much to address before
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the first day arrives.
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She sat in shock, the scope of the
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change finally sinking in. Jeff
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continued, relentless in his
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practicality.
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I'll look into renting an apartment
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closer to my workplace so the girls will
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have a bed when they stay over. The
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standard visitation schedule in most
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divorces allows the non-resident parent
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to see the children every weekend and
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every other major holiday unless
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otherwise agreed upon. He mentioned the
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logistical challenges managing
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belongings in two locations,
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transportation issues, and the need for
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Darlene to take on the responsibilities
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he currently handled from school runs to
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maintenance. This wasn't unfolding as
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Miranda had assured. Darlene's divorce
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was supposed to be a graceful,
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empowering pivot, not a logistical
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nightmare.
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"He's just trying to manipulate you."
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Miranda's voice echoed in her head.
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"He's bluffing." The thought was a
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comfort, a lifeline to cling to. As the
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ground beneath her feet crumbled,
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Darlene rose from the table. "I'm
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stunned. I need to get some rest. We'll
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reconvene tomorrow. You continue. Jeff,
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of course, continued. When Darlene woke
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up, he wasn't in bed. She found him
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asleep in the guest room, a small sad
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suitcase tucked in the corner. On the
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kitchen table, the notepad lay open.
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Jeff had created a list of liabilities
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to change, mortgage, homeowner's
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insurance, utilities, Amazon Prime, car
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payments.
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Below that, a projected budget for his
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apartment and a breakdown of her future
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expenses with a shortfall of several
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hundred a month. It was a cold, hard
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dose of reality, one that shattered
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Miranda's romanticized version of
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divorce. Darlene's eyes landed on a new
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list. Possible women for dating. It was
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a short, brutal inventory. In one column
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were women who had already expressed
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interest. In another, women he would
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like to know if they were interested.
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One name in the first column made her
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blood run cold. Her sister Erica,
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Darlene dialed her sister, her hands
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trembling.
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"How dare you attempt to steal my
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husband?" she demanded. "Hey, slow down,
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girl. What's this about?" Erica replied.
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"I'm not sure about the list, but I once
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mentioned to him after I had a bit too
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much to drink. That if he ever wisen up
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and leaves your foolish, unappreciative
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self, I'd be interested in taking your
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place." Erica's voice was a knife
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twisting in Darlene's gut. You're
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looking for something on the side. Who
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is it? Erica accused. Jeff's a good man,
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a great provider, husband, father, and
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lover. You're a fool. The call ended,
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leaving Darlene feeling isolated and
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betrayed. She confronted Jeff later that
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day. You found a replacement for me,
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huh? My own sister of all people. How
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could you? I was merely catching up with
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your progress in finding a boyfriend,
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Jeff replied calmly. I don't have a
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boyfriend. I just want to explore new
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relationships.
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What about Robert Turner? Jeff inquired,
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his voice a low hum. I know about him. I
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asked Sylvia, your boss's secretary. I
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asked her what was going on, considering
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our company's strict policy against
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office fraternization.
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Sylvia told me Robert is an old college
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friend and that you two have lunch
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together everyday.
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I explained that Robert is an old
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college friend of mine, too, and that we
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often hang out together.
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That's why Sylvia thinks Robert might be
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one of the men you were considering
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during our separation.
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I know he's a friend, but I think he is
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not what you think he is, Jeff
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elaborated.
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Darlene, cornered, recalled the stolen
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kisses in the office elevator. He's just
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a friend, she stammered. Anything more,
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Jeff pressed. Darlene's silence was her
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answer. Did you do anything that his
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wife wouldn't like? Wife? He's not
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married, Darlene exclaimed. He is, Jeff
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said simply. I found his Facebook page.
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It says he's married to Cynthia and has
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two sons. The website was updated 3 days
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ago. Darlene was cornered.
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I would never do anything to break up a
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marriage. she insisted. "Seems like
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you're okay with breaking up our own
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marriage, though," Jeff retorted. There
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was a heavy silence. Darlene, desperate
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for a new angle, changed the subject. "I
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just remembered something crucial. If we
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decide to stay married, we need to
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exchange medical reports to ensure we're
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both free of carnally transmitted
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diseases." "It's just a precaution," she
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said when he gave her a cold look. "I'm
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sure you'd want to feel safe, too."
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She thought she was being clever, but
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Jeff saw right through it. He gave her a
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final update on the divorce
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preparations.
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I've booked two tickets for a 10-day
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Hawaii vacation. I kept it as a surprise
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for our 20th anniversary.
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Darlene's demeanor shifted. Hawaii?
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Oh, Jeff, you know how much I've always
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wanted to go there. This is amazing. We
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could postpone the separation. I'm
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considering calling off the whole thing.
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We won't be going to Hawaii," Jeff said,
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his expression grim. "When you mentioned
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divorce, I realized we might not make it
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to our 20th anniversary. When I tried to
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cancel and get a refund, they said it
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was too late, so I asked them to change
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the tickets for you and a guest to be
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named later. It could be a great start
13:06
to your new relationship."
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Darlene was devastated. She ran to her
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phone and called Miranda.
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He's more cunning than I gave him credit
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for. Miranda said he fabricated that
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tale just to coersse you into feeling
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guilty and halting the divorce
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proceedings. When Jeff came downstairs
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with a suitcase, Darlene felt a sudden
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surge of strength. "You and Lois
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conspired to fabricate this Hawaii trip
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story before I even mentioned divorce,"
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she said, proudly recalling Miranda's
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theory. "I've caught on. I still want a
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divorce and can't wait to finalize it."
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Jeff let out a heavy sigh. "You should
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talk to your parents," he said. "What do
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my parents have to do with this?" "Who
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do you think will look after the girls
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while we're away?" He dialed their
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number. When Darlene's mother answered,
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Jeff put her on speakerphone. Harold,
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"It's Jeff and Darlene. Pick up."
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Darlene's parents, confused, began
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asking about the Hawaii trip and why
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they wouldn't be babysitting the girls.
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Mom, this is Jeff, he said calmly. We're
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on speakerphone.
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Darlene, sensing the trap, tried to
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interrupt.
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We decided we needed some space, some
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time apart to recharge our marriage and
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then maybe reconcile. Dar, I'm not going
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to lie to your parents, Jeff
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interjected. Mom, Darlene began. What I
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meant was that the first step in the
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divorce process is a 90-day separation.
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I hope this time would help me find
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myself, explore new opportunities, and
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better myself so I can be a better wife
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and mother."
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"And that's coming from me, Mom," Harold
14:45
exclaimed. "I know liberal lies when I
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hear them." "Darlene, do you have a
14:50
boyfriend on the side?"
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Darlene denied it, but her father's
14:55
words were a final devastating blow. "I
14:58
can't believe you could do something
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like that. We raised you better. I'm so
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disappointed.
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Don't expect us to be polite to your new
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man, Darlene. We're so sorry, Jeff. At
15:10
least promise us you'll let us see our
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grandchildren after the divorce.
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Darlene, finally understanding the full
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extent of the house of card she had
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built, interrupted before Jeff could
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respond.
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Jeff has blown this whole thing out of
15:23
proportion.
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