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the neglect base of this cannot be quite
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so obvious. So like basic emotional or
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physical needs were not met. Uh no
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comfort when someone was distressed.
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Maybe they were often left uh in soiled
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diapers and not paid attention to and
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there was no consistent presence from
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the caregiver. And so the child then
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learns not just can I count on them but
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I might not be worth existing. And so
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it's really painful for someone with
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disorganized attachment uh to relate
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because it feels so scary in
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relationship. Often times there was
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exposure to domestic violence. Even if
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they weren't directly harmed, they saw w
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or witnessed violence between
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caregivers. um which creates fear or
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violence toward another sibling uh
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creates a lot of instability in the
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nervous

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