Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the powerful and transformative technique of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy and its application in pain management. EMDR is a psychotherapy approach originally designed to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memories. However, recent research has shown its effectiveness in treating chronic pain conditions, providing relief and improving the quality of life for many individuals. Whether you're dealing with chronic pain, emotional trauma, or simply curious about new therapeutic techniques, this video offers valuable insights and practical information.
I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the last 15 years I've learned that people are freaking amazing, resilient, and inspiring. Most importantly, we are hardwired for connection and for healing!
I hope to bring an authentic, compassionate, and unpolished approach while we explore a variety of topics such as parenting, marriage, relationships, dating, trauma, attachment, adoption, depression, addiction, anxiety, and love! There's a why for all behaviors and an explanation that makes perfect sense as emotion is at the root of it all.
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hi everyone I'm Kelly ooro and this is
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adaptable Behavior explained hi
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everybody thank you so much for tuning
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in today to adaptable I'm Kelly ooro and
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I'm glad to have you here today we're
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going to talk about a topic that is so
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fascinating to me and I if I had all the
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time in the world I would uh become a a
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doctorate in pain management and how are
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Body Works uh related to the way our
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brain fires and wires data and how our
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body receives that data when it comes to
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pain and the reason I say that is
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because I've been so fortunate to see
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some of the most beautiful healing in
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people when it comes to physical illness
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as an EMDR therapist so today we're
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going to dig in a little bit more deeply
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to EMDR and Pain Management which a lot
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of people including EMDR therapists are
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not super familiar with how it works and
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how to use it
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I've been really fortunate to be able to
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attend a lot of advanced trainings that
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dig into this topic in such a more
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robust way and although I don't fully
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understand how everything works I'm
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going to do my best to give it some
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justice and and share with you uh as
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best as I can but I also have a lot of
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personal experiences with clients where
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they have become free from physical pain
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and physical symptoms related to their
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pain whether it was emotional pain that
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stored in the body which happens because
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trauma is stored at a cellular cellular
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level but also pain that's related to
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physical injury I've had several uh
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physical therapists or people from pain
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doctors uh send us clients here at
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infinite healing and wellness and we've
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been able to alleviate certain um
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certain pain experiences in people now
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the initial learning about EMDR and pain
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started with Phantom limb pain um and so
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there's a lot of research related to
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the um pain that exists like for example
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in your hand if you've lost your arm and
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people who have lost an arm have said
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that's like the worst pain they've ever
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experienced and the the hand is gone
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they've said that that's the worst pain
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they've ever experienced and you know
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well the while the hand is gone due to
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amputation or an injury uh they still
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experience excruciating pain in the hand
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so in the absence of something even
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existing the brain is firing like
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there's something bad going on there
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I've seen huge improvements in people
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who have had migraines uh chronic back
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pain and neck pain and so uh hopefully
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if any of this resonates or even uh
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ongoing pain for example if you have had
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an injury happen and uh the doctors have
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said you know there's nothing further we
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can do but you are still experiencing
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pain we're going to dig in a little bit
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more deeply as to why that happens and
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how EMDR can really help um so it's kind
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of a perplexing phenomenon
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uh but this I'm going to dig in first to
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the Phantom limpan part because that's
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where the initial research started so um
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researchers and therapists alike tend to
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be puzzled by this but when you think
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about EMDR was originally developed for
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trauma Related Disorders and um it's
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really emerged as such a promising
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treatment for Phantom limb pain
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especially but in many many other
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physical issues that I previously
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discussed as well as much much more that
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can't even touch in this episode so
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we're going to talk about theoretical
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foundations we're going to talk about
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clinical evidence and then of course
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practical implications of using EMDR to
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alleviate uh various types of pain so
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one theory that really um fascinates me
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that we're going to explore is how EMDR
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or I movement desensitization and
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reprocessing can influence the way pain
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Gates function so there's something
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called a pain gate theory that was
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proposed by uh
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melac and wall and it was in
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1965 and this Theory suggests that pain
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perception is modulated by a gate uh or
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a mechanism in the spinal cord and this
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gate can either allow or block pain
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signals from reaching the brain so when
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the gates open pain signals flood
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through intensifying a perception of
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pain now I use the word perception
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because once that uh changes we have a
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different relationship with pain so
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conversely when the gates Clos closed
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there's fewer pain signals that reach
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the brain which leads to a reduced pain
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perception so how does this work so
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during EMDR sessions we use bilateral
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stimulation such as eye movements or
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tapping and this bilateral stimulation
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engages both the hemispheres of our
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brain simultaneously and it's believed
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that this process can impact the pain
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gateways in several several ways so one
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is distraction and reorient ation so the
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bilateral stimulation diverts our
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attention away from Pain Sensations and
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by focusing on the eye movements or the
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tapping the brain reorients its
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processing which reduces the intensity
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of pain signals the other piece of it is
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neuroplasticity and memory reprocessing
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so EMDR aims to reprocess traumatic
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memories and Associated emotions that
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are all stored cellularly and as the
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memories are reprocessed neural circuits
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adapt and change so when you look at
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brain scans um in fact we just had a
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client send us pre- and post uh brain
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scans from the Amen Clinic which is
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honestly such a gift if you can get
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brain scans from the Amen Clinic I
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highly recommend especially if you can
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get them early on in EMDR treatment
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because you could see pre- EMDR what
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your brain looks like and post EMDR what
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your brain looks like and it's just so
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fascinating and so validating that we
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really do help to change the way the
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brain looks um and that that plasticity
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can potentially alter pain Pathways
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which affects how pain signals are
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transmitted and also perceived by uh by
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the brain and so when someone says you
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can't heal my pain I don't argue I say
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you know what you're right I can't first
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of all I can't heal you your body your
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brain that's what's beautiful that's
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what's doing all the work I just get to
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be the the lucky person ride alongside
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you while this is going on but we can
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change your relationship with the pain
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we can change how your brain perceives
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the pain and ultimately decreasing the
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intensity of those signals EMDR
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bilateral stimulation also is a in uh it
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induces a a reduction in stress or
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relaxation response so it promotes
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relaxation it reduces stress and lower
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stress levels May indirectly influence
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pain gateways which allows for better
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pain management so while the exact
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mechanisms are still being studied
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emdr's impact on pain perception likely
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involves a combination of distraction
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neuroplasticity stress reduction and of
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course as research continues we get a
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deeper in uh understanding and insight
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into how exactly EMDR interacts with our
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pain processing but it's really
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fascinating so I'm going to dig in a
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little more deeply to understanding
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specifically like Phantom limb pain and
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and this is like I said before this is
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um a good example to describe what we
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think is going on so Phantom limb pain
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happens due to neural reorganization
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after limb loss so like I said before if
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um if I uh lost my arm due to a car
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accident uh there's neural
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reorganization and the brain is changing
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the way the data is firing based on its
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understanding and relationship to the
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arm and the Hand of course it's tied
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together with the accident the emotional
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experience how were you treated at the
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doctor's office what was the recovery
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like what was the removal of the limb
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surgery like how did that hit you from a
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place of what am I no longer going to be
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able to do as a person who's now
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disabled due to the loss of an arm all
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of those emotional components of limb
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loss are part of how memory stores the
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information so the brain's
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representation of this missing limb
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remains active and it leads to
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sensations of pain tingling discomfort
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and what we recognize is that EMDR effec
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effectively targets these maladaptive
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neurop patterns and reorganizes the way
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the maladaptively stored information
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lives in our body and so even though we
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can't obviously make your hand come back
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what we know is we can change the way
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the brain is firing that data so that
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you no longer have to have pain
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associated with that loss uh of course
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there's the the emotional experience of
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having to relearn how to do things
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without the arm and all of that of
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course is very traumatic but we can
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change the way the physical sensation
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based on the way the brain fires data so
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just a little bit of background on EMDR
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therapy it's the AIP model that uh EMDR
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is based from uh Dr Francine Shapiro uh
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came up with this it's the Adaptive
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information processing model and it
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posits that trauma memories are stored
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in a dysfunctional Manner and it
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prevents natural healing to occur we
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reprocess the way the memories are
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stored it allows adaptive resolution and
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thus symptom uction and whatever it is
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that's going on so I want to talk to you
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a little bit about a case study that was
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done on EMDR in Phantom Lim limpan uh by
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Schneider at all uh for a 38-year-old
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man who had severe Phantom limb pain he
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received EMDR treatment and despite
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prior Rehabilitation opiate medication
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his pain persisted and after just N9
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EMDR sessions his Phantom limb pain
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vanished completely and he no longer
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even needed the medication and those
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effects were sustained at an 18-month
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followup so it's not even in question
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whether or not this works personally
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I've gotten to see it in so many
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experiences as well with my own clients
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so I want to talk so not everybody loses
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a limb but they might have pain for many
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other reasons so now I'm going to dig
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into those topics so that it might be
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more applicable to you so if you have
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migraines chronic back pain neck pain um
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all kinds of things those are often
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associated with emotion experiences not
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always but sometimes and when we can
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address the experiences along with the
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way the brain is firing protective
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mechanisms in the body to our muscles we
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can alleviate a lot of pain so let's
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talk about
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migraines there's a lot of Promise in
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reducing migraine frequency and severity
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with EMDR therapy uh we target emotional
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distress related to the migraines we
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look at what happened during the time
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when you started getting migraines so uh
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thinking about a client where uh they
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said you know I get migraines but I've
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I've always had them since I was 16 when
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I started my period or let's say 14 16
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is pretty old to start a period but 14
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years old when I started my period and
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it's just the hormones so I'll get more
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Curious and I'll say what else was going
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on when you were 14 and you know they
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might say well you know that's also when
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my parents got divorced and my dad lost
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his job but you know it's the hormones
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and so when we go back to the time when
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the migraines origin ated and we
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reprocess the emotional experiences and
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reduce the presenting triggers around
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experiences of powerlessness and
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helplessness the body is not protecting
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it doesn't show up in a way that's like
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preemptive that says oh here we go again
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and so migraines reduce the tensing
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process reduces the um outcome of
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migraines reduces and what we see which
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is so beautiful um is we can now also
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address the what we call a secondary
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loss of having migraines which is all
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the things that I had to miss because I
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had a migraine um and uh and I have to
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learn new ways to try to get my needs
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met so we can address some of those
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pieces but something like that can
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really be reduced and it's so powerful
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and and beautiful because it takes away
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the triggers and the memories that are
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associated with the headaches which is
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so um pervasive with someone who
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suffered migraines now if you have a
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medical situation that is causing your
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migraines we of course want you to
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address that with medical doctors and
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and address the treatment of that but
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sometimes people have migraines and they
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don't have any physical or medical
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explanation for those and so this is a
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good experience to or a good reason to
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search for an EMDR therapist to work on
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migrain redu migraine reduction and even
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if you do have a medical reason we can
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also change the way the pain relates in
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your brain and your brain relates to
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that um data if you get my migraines and
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so you'll have better management overall
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when you um when you have migraines or
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you'll have reduction of migrain
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experiences so now let's talk about
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chronic back pain or any other kind of
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chronic pain there's really
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psychological components like stress
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anxiety and oftentimes unresolved trauma
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related to these experiences in our body
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our body is holding information uh
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related to Associated experiences so
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EMDR therapy can ease chronic pain
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symptoms and reframe the negative
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beliefs around those improves energy
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improves mood and ultimately improves
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the way we can live in the world with
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our physical experiences and so by
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addressing the emotional distress
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related to the back pain EMDR
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contributes to pain reduction and
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overall like I said improved quality of
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life same thing goes for neck pain like
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any other chronic condition it can be
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INF influenced by emotional factors you
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know think about it if you're someone
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who gets chronic neck pain and then you
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can't go on the boat ride with your kids
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or you can't um go play ball in the
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backyard like you usually do on a
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Tuesday afternoon it feels uh sad it
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feels disappointing we feel disa we feel
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um you know regret and all these things
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we might even feel guilt that you know
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our neck pain is affecting our
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relationship with one of our kids
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because we can't go and do things we
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would have otherwise normally done and
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so being able to reprocess the
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distressing memories associated with an
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experience
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uh especially namely related to like
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neck pain can um reduce the intensity so
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the bilateral stimulation used in EMDR
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again impacts the pain gateways which
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can lead to relief and many other kinds
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of pains can be dress addressed
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positively as well and affected
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positively I want to give you another
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example of someone I worked with that
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had physical pain there was a physical
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injury um that was associated with it
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and he believed that the the um the
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injury was just medical and that there
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was just too darn much damage done to
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his shoulder um and that it was never
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going to be better and so just giving
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you a little bit of background he's a
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little boy he breaks his um he breaks
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his collar bone there's some trauma
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associated with that related to how he
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was treated then he's a teenager and
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he's sent to um rehab due to some uh
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some drug use and uh distress uh
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intolerance in his family system and in
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rehab he's in a fight where he suffers
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another injury to his shoulder and then
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later he ends up having a motorcycle
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accident where his arm suffered some
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nerve damage and some issues due to the
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way he landed in the motorcycle accident
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and so through EMDR therapy um and and
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this is so fascinating because you know
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a a therapist who's not paying attention
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or doesn't want to zero in on what's
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Happening may miss this but you know
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he's moving around in the therapy
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session and you know a therapist says to
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him what's going on with your shoulder
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he says oh nothing shoulder always hurts
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like this I've had a lot of physical
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damage and injuries to it it's just kind
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of luck of the draw it's it's just kind
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of always hurts and therapist digs in
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and says hey let's talk a little bit
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about the shoulder and the story of the
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shoulder and what happened to the
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shoulder throughout your life and
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through those series of events and
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reprocessing with the MDR therapy the
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trauma associated with those events
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there's no more pain in the shoulder and
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even though there's physical injury and
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history of reasons for the shoulder to
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hurt when the brain can fire and wire
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you know what those events are over I
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don't need to tense up I don't need to
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tighten up anymore the distress is over
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I'm safe now my shoulder did a good job
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protecting me my body did a good job
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protecting me I don't have to experience
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the reminders of all of those physical
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injuries anymore in my shoulder
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and so I just want to plant those seeds
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that if you're dealing with certain
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kinds of pain um it's really fascinating
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to see the way the brain relates with
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pain response and um recognizing that
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EMDR therapy can really help you to
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change the way your um brain fires data
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related to pain of course we don't want
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to Omit uh Health Care Professionals
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medical doctors to help us figure out
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our um personal treatment plans but we
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want to make sure you know that there is
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hope that EMDR therapy can really change
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the way um we relate with our pain and
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um and although we can't heal injuries
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uh we can change the way our body
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responds and reacts to pain uh sensors
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there's so much more that we have to
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learn and research related to this topic
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but I personally have seen such good
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results in so many clients that uh I
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just have to share this with people so
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that you know there is hope and there is
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change I hope that you found this
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podcast helpful I wish you the very best
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in your journey of finding reduction in
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pain uh make sure you reach out in the
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comments below if you've experienced
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some resolution related to pain or if
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you'd like some support in finding a
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therapist in your area so until we meet
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again thank you so much for tuning in
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don't forget to lead with love it'll
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never steer you wrong
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