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This might trigger some people, but someone needs to say it… ♥️

Jun 11, 2025
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Dorcy Pruter

I've worked with countless parents who've been in therapy for 15, 20, even 30 years - still talking about the same childhood wounds, still triggered by the same patterns, still estranged from their children. Understanding your trauma isn't the same as healing it. You can analyze why your mother was critical, dissect your father's emotional unavailability, and explain every defense mechanism you developed - but if your nervous system is still holding that trauma, nothing changes. After 20 years of reuniting families, I've seen parents heal decades-old wounds in months using plant medicine and somatic work. Not because they talked about it more, but because they finally released it from their body. Your children can feel when you're still carrying unhealed trauma. They sense that heavy energy and it triggers their need to stay protected and distant. But when you heal at the root - when you actually metabolize and release the stored trauma instead of just understanding it - your children naturally feel safer to come home. The sacred return happens when you stop talking about healing and start actually doing it. Comment "CODE" for a voice activation to unlock your Evolution Code and start your sacred return ✨ #parentalalienation #estrangedchild #familyhealing #plantmedicine #psychedelichealing #healingtrauma #innerchildhealing #parentingstruggles #toxicparenting #familytrauma #generationalhealing #mentalhealth #healing #parentingtips #familytherapy