In households with narcissistic parents, sibling rivalry isn’t natural — it’s carefully orches

Narcissistic parents keep siblings in conflict to stay in control. What looks like “normal” sibling competition is really a setup — one that leaves everyone feeling isolated, confused, and desperate for approval. Here’s how they do it 👇 ✨ They create a Golden Child and a Scapegoat One can do no wrong. The other can do nothing right. This dynamic breeds resentment and jealousy, breaking bonds that could have been close and supportive. ✨ They compare and pit siblings against each other “Why can’t you be more like your sister?” “Your brother never gives me this kind of trouble.” They fuel competition instead of connection, teaching you that love must be earned. ✨ They share secrets and gossip They twist words, tell one sibling what the other “said,” and stir drama just to keep control. Trust becomes impossible. ✨ They play favorites publicly Praising one child while humiliating another — ensuring everyone knows who’s “in” and who’s “out.” ✨ They shift blame constantly Today’s Golden Child can become tomorrow’s Scapegoat. The message is clear: stay compliant, or you’ll be next.