
This might save your relationship with your child before it’s too late…
Sep 9, 2025
As someone who was once an alienated child myself and has spent nearly 20 years helping families reunite, I've learned that children don't have "behavior problems,” they have communication problems. They're trying to tell us something we're not hearing.
When a child acts out, they're usually saying:
- I don't feel safe
- I don't feel seen
- I don't feel heard
- Something is wrong in this family
- I need help, but don't know how to ask
Your "difficult" child isn't broken; they're awake. They're responding to dysfunction in the family system that everyone else is pretending doesn't exist. They're the canary in the coal mine, alerting you to toxic patterns.
I've seen this pattern thousands of times: The child who gets labeled as the "problem" is actually the family truth-teller. They're unconsciously trying to force the family to address what's being ignored.
The breakthrough comes when you stop trying to fix your child's behavior and start asking: "What is my child trying to tell me? What need isn't being met? What pain are they expressing?"
Your child doesn't need to be fixed. Your family system needs to be healed.
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