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1️⃣ You cannot force them to change their way of thinking, feeling or believing. You can't make them see what they don't want to see. Not everyone wants to heal and that will take you some getting use to. 2️⃣ You need to stop parenting them. You can't solve their problems or regulate their emotions for them. The more you try to rescue them, the less opportunity they have to learn how to face discomfort and take ownership for their own feelings. 3️⃣ They WILL cross your boundaries repeatedly out of habit, entitlement and discomfort with your growth, but every time they do, you get to decide if you reinforce your peace or abandon it. 4️⃣ You'll realize that protecting your energy sometimes looks like keeping conversations surface-level and that's okay. You don't need to go deep with people who can't meet you where you've met yourself. 5️⃣ You may always wonder what life would be like if you walked away completely, and you'll also feel guilty for entertaining the thought of it. Both choices come with their own pain. Whether you stay or leave, what matters most is honoring what feels right for you. If you don't know me yet, I'm Dorcy. I was alienated from my father for years, and eventually chose to reconnect with him. Since then, I've spent nearly 20 years helping families navigate the complex journey of healing while staying in contact with emotionally unavailable parents. And I'm sharing it all with you right here! 👉🏽 P.S. If the wounds from your childhood still haunt you, it's because your inner child is still waiting for you to heal them. 🔥 Comment "CODE" and I'll send you my voice activation that helps you heal while maintaining contact with emotionally unavailable parents. .