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I Gave Her Everything. She Gave Herself to Another Man | Wistaloom
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Jun 5, 2025
#redditrelationship #aita #redditstories I Gave Her Everything. She Gave Herself to Another Man | Wistaloom I thought I had it all. A loving marriage, a happy home, and a future built on trust. But all of that came crashing down the night I discovered the ultimate betrayal. What started with a fight about furniture turned into a night of deception, heartbreak, and a truth that shattered me to my core. This is not just a story about cheating. This is about the pain of watching someone you love turn into a stranger… and the strength it takes to finally let go. From hotel confrontations to public exposure, courtroom battles, and finally peace—I tell the raw, unfiltered truth of how I caught her, confronted her, and walked away with nothing but dignity. 🔥 Watch until the end—it’s not just about heartbreak. It’s about healing. 💬 Share your own story or thoughts in the comments. 🔔 Subscribe for more real-life stories every week. Tags: #CheatingStory #Betrayal #RevengeStory #Heartbreak
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i thought I had it all a marriage built
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on years of shared dreams on a
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foundation I believed was
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unshakable but then one night everything
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crumbled in its place pure devastation
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the overwhelming emotions that hit you
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when you realize your once solid and
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reliable marriage is now just a story
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it's something I'd read about but never
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truly understood until it consumed me
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when that emotional storm finally
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settled my marriage was
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unrecognizable every cornerstone had
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vanished the trust we built the respect
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we shared the admiration I felt the
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concern we had for each other even the
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love it had all disappeared all that
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remained was annoying devastation
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pushing me to my absolute breaking point
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it screamed at me to give up to walk
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away to end my marriage there was
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nothing left worth saving
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my wife Sarah had turned our life into a
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pile of garbage it started innocently
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enough as these things often do a bad
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fight about remodeling our living room
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sarah thought the furniture was old
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wanted to
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redecorate i tried to explain that it
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was only 2 years old still expensive and
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honestly not worth replacing but she
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insisted on something new perhaps I made
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a mistake then I suggested she was tired
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of me she snapped back a sarcastic bite
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in her voice saying she might just go to
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bed with someone else in that moment
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anger flared i shouted back telling her
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she should decide what she wanted but
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not to expect me to wait around for her
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that's when she mentioned him
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"Mark i should have married Mark instead
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of you." She said "My main rival the
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golden boy in our community he'd always
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had his eye on Sarah years ago she chose
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me then but the sting of his influence
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lingered we'd had a short separation
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once early in our relationship and he'd
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almost succeeded in winning her over
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mark's seemingly effortless prosperity
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always made me jealous despite my own
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hard work and
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success my upbringing emphasized values
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of honesty reliability and diligence i
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was taught never to harbor jealousy
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toward others
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success but a certain sensitivity always
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lingered within me especially concerning
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Sarah the memory of their first meeting
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the casual way he'd touched her arm it
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was etched in my mind hearing his name
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from her lips again I got furious i
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yelled that I never wanted to hear his
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name again and I refused to buy any new
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furniture the argument ended or at least
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I walked away from it i left for the
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club desperate to cool down around 9:00
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in the evening my home phone rang on my
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mobile i decided to let it go to
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voicemail the stress combined with a few
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too many beers fueled my decision i
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feared uttering unpleasant words that I
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might later regret upon listening to the
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voicemail the message conveyed an
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apology for our earlier exchange the
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caller one of Sarah's friends urged me
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to contact Sarah since I wouldn't be
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returning home soon the message hinted
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at Sarah going out alone concluding with
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a cryptic remark it wasn't enough as I
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began to recover from our earlier
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dispute anger resurfaced i poured
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another beer consuming it hastily before
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setting out to find her checking all the
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town's bar parking lots proved feudal
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her car was nowhere in sight suspecting
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she might be with someone familiar I
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headed to Lisa's Sarah's best friend's
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house to my dismay Sarah's car was
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parked there david Lisa's husband
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greeted me at the door mentioning the
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night out and their decision to go bar
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hopping when I inquired about Lisa's car
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he confirmed their presence at a
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bachelor party determined to locate them
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I visited the bachelor's place
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discovering Lisa's car in the parking
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lot I contemplated a direct
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confrontation with Sarah but decided
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against it instead I opted to sober up
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in the car before taking any action
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around 11:00 they emerged from the
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bachelor's place and departed in Lisa's
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car i followed at a discreet distance
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they made their way to a downhill bar
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just as David had suggested observing
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from the parking lot I anticipated their
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move to the next location at precisely
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11:30 p.m they arrived at what seemed to
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be their final stop a pub and a hotel
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concerned about Sarah's intentions I
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realized I needed to find out more
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attempting a makeshift disguise with a
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baseball cap and a plain t-shirt from
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the trunk I sneaked into the pub despite
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not being completely sober and my failed
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attempt at anonymity thanks to my name
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emlazed on the t-shirt I figured it was
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better than no disguise at all inside I
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spotted Sarah with Mark seated at the
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back of the bar engrossed in
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conversation seeking a discrete vantage
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point I noticed an empty booth behind
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Sarah silently moving there I overheard
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their entire conversation except for a
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few whispered moments I couldn't quite
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catch sarah thanked Mark for coming and
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he reciprocated the sentiment mark
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reminisced about their time together 7
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years ago and then a chilling detail
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twice since my marriage to Sarah their
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reunion tonight it seemed was driven by
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a desire for revenge after our earlier
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fight as I listened the painful truth
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unfolded sarah had betrayed me twice
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before and she planned to do so again
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tonight despite her professed love her
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actions revealed a selfish and
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indifferent nature her motive wasn't
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love it was revenge
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it shattered my perception of our
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relationship the conversation left me
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devastated and I realized I no longer
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loved her it was a profound loss and I
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nearly succumbed to tears accepting that
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it was over I waited contemplating how
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much time would elapse before they
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proceeded to the room the words
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exchanged between them hinted at Sarah's
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readiness and I could almost envision
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the smile on her face aware of her
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presence based on their conversation my
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anger simmered beneath the surface as
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they stood up and made their way to the
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elevators suppressing the urge to lash
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out physically I trailed them to the
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lobby uncertain of their exact floor I
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approached the receptionist and
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requested a call to Mark's room he
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angrily answered correcting my
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misconception that it was room 422 not
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312 threatening police involvement he
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forcefully hung up the phone taking the
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elevator to the fourth floor I
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approached room 422 eavesdropping until
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their actions became apparent i knocked
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assertively savoring the anticipation of
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disrupting their illicit
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rendevu stepping back from the door I
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forcefully slammed it causing the safety
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chain to break the shocking scene
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revealed Mark with nothing on Sarah on
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the bed her face turning pale as she
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screamed mark protested exclaiming "Oh
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my god no." As he recovered he demanded
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my departure threatening to summon
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security despite Sarah's please I
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sternly informed her not to return home
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surprisingly calm I sat in the car for a
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while to calm down further i waited to
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see if the police would show up or if
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Sarah would leave with Mark about 15
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minutes later Mark left the hotel and
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Sarah got into her car they didn't stay
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in the hotel room after I left but the
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damage had been done adding insult to
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injury or as they say pouring gasoline
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on the fire gave me an idea i went home
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and went to bed i'm not sure when the
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phone rang but it was Lisa calling she
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explained that Sarah was staying with
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David and her so I shouldn't worry i
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told Lisa that I wouldn't worry about
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Sarah anymore i didn't care lisa woke me
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up unnecessarily i asked about the time
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and she said it was 3 on a.m claiming I
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couldn't say I didn't care knowing I
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loved Sarah and she loved me lisa shared
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that Sarah was at their place crying
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about her mistakes tonight wanting
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forgiveness and asking to come back home
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i informed Lisa that Sarah couldn't
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return home and asked about her previous
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involvement with Mark lisa expressed
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relief for not having a serious hangover
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and being up since 8:0 a.m by 1000 a.m I
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was ready to face Sarah i called Lisa
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and told her Sarah could come back home
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if she wanted i stood at the entrance
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when Sarah arrived accompanied by David
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and Lisa probably to ensure no physical
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damage seeing a pile in the front yard
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Sarah asked what it was i explained it's
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everything reminding us of each other
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including gifts photos and old furniture
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i set our wedding photo on fire as a
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symbolic act signaling the end of our
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marriage flames quickly engulfed
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everything leaving only ashes and
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charred furniture frames i told Sarah
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she won and hoped it was worth it our
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marriage is over and she can take
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everything i don't want anything and
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hope not to remind her of me she'll get
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details from my lawyer shortly soon
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after sirens approached police arrived
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and firefighters extinguished the
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remaining embers i apologized for the
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trouble clarifying I burned the remnants
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of the marriage i was taken into custody
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as they led me away I saw Sarah crying i
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spent a couple of days in jail and a
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psychiatrist was called to assess my
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mental state they discovered that I was
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distressed and devastated but still
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mentally sound surprisingly they might
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have released me earlier but they wanted
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to observe me for a few days just to be
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certain i paid the bail and retrieved my
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car from the office parking lot where I
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had stored the things I wanted to keep
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mainly clothes and personal items then
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my trial began and I admitted guilt to
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all charges receiving a $5,000 fine plus
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court costs it was a small cost to end
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my shattered marriage sarah contested
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the divorce persistently leaving
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voicemails on my mobile pleading for
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forgiveness and reconciliation despite
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the $5,000 cost I never heard from her
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after leaving a message on her home
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phone expressing that while she claimed
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it meant nothing to her it meant
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everything to me the divorce was
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finalized and I gave her everything she
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desired just to put it behind me mark's
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wife discovered the situation divorced
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him leaving him in a difficult
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situation sarah wasn't the only wife he
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had comforted during marital
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troubles a couple of weeks after finding
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him with his wife in a hotel room I
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encountered Mark in a bar
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i suggested he might face a serious
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accident when his divorce was finalized
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and he started selling off his remaining
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possessions soon he left town and not
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many people seemed to miss him
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occasionally I bump into Sarah on the
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streets and she apologizes asking if
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I'll call her to talk i just nod and
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walk away to this day I haven't called
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her though she continues to ask maybe
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someday I'll decide to call her my wife
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Emily and I have been together for two
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decades we first met during our freshman
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year of high school and have been
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inseparable ever since we shared many
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milestones from losing our purity to
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each other to attending prom and even
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going to the same college after
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graduation after finishing college we
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got married and settled down to build
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our life together starting a family was
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always part of our plan and when we
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secured good jobs we decided to make
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that dream a reality fast forward 11
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years and we now have two kids own our
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home and are on a path to early
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retirement for travel and other
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experiences we've longed for everything
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seemed like a dream then tragedy struck
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my sister-in-law was diagnosed with lung
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cancer she was not just family but also
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my wife's best friend emily supported
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her throughout her fight against the
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disease but sadly she eventually passed
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away it was a devastating blow to our
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entire family my wife
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especially my sister-in-law was a beacon
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of light in our lives emily took it the
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hardest because they were incredibly
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close sharing everything from shopping
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trips to personal secrets i stood by my
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wife during her grief helping her
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navigate through the toughest period of
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her life after about 6 months she
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started to recover during her morning
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she read through her sister's journals
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and notebooks trying to understand the
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emotions and provide support what hit my
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wife deeply was the feeling that her
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sister hadn't accomplished enough in her
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life taken too soon reading the journal
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entries made my wife realize her
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sister's unfulfilled aspirations
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motivated by her sister's untimely
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departure my wife expressed a newfound
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determination to live life fully she
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wanted to travel experience skydiving
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and savor every moment i wholeheartedly
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supported this mindset aligning with the
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reason I had been working 60 hours a
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week since college to retire early in
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the coming weeks my wife embraced this
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philosophy taking pottery classes
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teaching herself rock climbing and even
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planning a bungee jumping adventure for
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her and our son it seemed like she was
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fully embracing this new adventurous
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lifestyle i didn't pay much attention to
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it i felt happy for her as she was
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recovering from the loss of her sister
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however one evening after she returned
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from the climbing gym her behavior
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seemed different before that she had
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been enthusiastic and positive about
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embracing a new chapter in her life
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after dinner when the kids were in their
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rooms she took me out to the patio we
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shared a couple of glasses of wine and
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gazed at the stars towards the end of
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our conversation she brought up the idea
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of both of us having a hall pass
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for those unfamiliar a hall pass in a
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committed monogous relationship is a
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one-time opportunity for both partners
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to have intimacy with someone outside
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the relationship i was completely
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takenback by her suggestion it seemed to
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come out of nowhere so I asked her why
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she was bringing it up she reassured me
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that she loved me but felt like she
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might be missing out on a part of life
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because she had only ever been with me
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she tried to phrase it in a way that
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wouldn't hurt me but it was impossible
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not to feel terrible when she said that
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i expressed my lack of support for the
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idea we had been married for 20 years
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and I couldn't understand why it
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suddenly became an issue i had no desire
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to be with anyone else and I wasn't
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comfortable with her being with someone
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else either we were about to go back
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inside but I paused and asked her if
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there was someone she was interested in
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she hesitated to tell me the truth but
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after a few moments she admitted that
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there was someone at the climbing gym
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she found attractive she mentioned he
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had been flirty and he recently invited
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her out for drinks although she assured
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me that she declined and made it clear
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she was married i went to bed that night
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feeling
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uneasy it took a few days for me to come
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to terms with what she had suggested i
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was deeply hurt but eventually I forgave
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her and we pretended the conversation
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never happened about a week later she
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told me about an outdoor climbing class
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offered by the gym and she wanted to
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sign up for it one Saturday she left
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early in the morning for the class or at
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least that's what I thought since our
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daughter had started lying about her
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whereabouts we asked her to leave her
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location on Snapchat Maps for
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verification that afternoon when our
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daughter claimed she was going to a
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friend's house I checked the maps
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everything seemed fine on our daughter's
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end but I noticed my wife's avatar was
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in the heart of the city i was a bit
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perplexed because I had been informed
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that she was heading to a park about 30
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minutes outside of the city checking the
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location I discovered she was at a bar i
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tried to make sense of it thinking she
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might be hanging out with people from
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the climbing gym after their climb
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however a sinking feeling in my gut
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couldn't be ignored recalling what she
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had mentioned about a guy from her
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climbing gym inviting her for drinks
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wondering if she was there with him
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wasn't too much of a stretch i was home
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alone and the bar happened to be about a
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15-minute walk from the house so I took
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the dog for a walk keeping an eye on the
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map upon reaching the bar I peered
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through the windows and saw my wife
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sitting at a table with a man leaning
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close and smiling as they chatted for 2
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minutes the man reached across the table
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holding my wife's hand and she allowed
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it while handholding isn't necessarily
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cheating it hinted at something more i
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went home before my wife spotted me
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there and waited for her return
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throughout the wait I was undecided on
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whether to confront her or investigate
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on my own when she came home and before
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saying anything to me went straight to
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the shower i tried to initiate a
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conversation but she dismissed me citing
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postclimbing sweat this confirmed in my
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mind that something had happened while
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she was with that man she had left her
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gym bag near our bed and I noticed her
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phone was still inside i pulled it out
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and searched for information about the
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man checking her text messages I found a
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chat with an unsaved number starting
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about a week before she asked me about
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the hall pass scanning through the
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messages for keywords indicating an
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affair I found a few exchanged pictures
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and explicit messages then I saw plans
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for them to meet at the bar even coming
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up with a lie to tell me and his partner
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i had no idea who the guy was but I
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discovered him by checking the climbing
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gym social media where he was clearly
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featured in some pictures he was tagged
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in everything and through some digging I
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learned he was married with a newborn
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baby i was disgusted by what I
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discovered hurt doesn't even begin to
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describe the pain I felt i had been with
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my wife for 20 years and she was willing
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to throw all of that away because she
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wanted to be with another man i was
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furious and utterly disgusted by the
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reprehensible actions of both of them at
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the end of their message chain there was
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the name of a restaurant along with a
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date and time a week had passed since I
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found out my wife was cheating on me and
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I devised a plan to catch her in the act
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while contemplating it I realized that
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the wife of her affair partner deserved
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to know as well on the day of the
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planned meeting I sent a dozen roses to
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the partner's wife including details
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about the restaurant on the card i hoped
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it would make her believe he had a
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surprise for her waiting outside the
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restaurant I observed her heading in i
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followed her inside and we both noticed
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our partners holding hands
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simultaneously she hurried over started
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yelling at him in front of everyone my
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wife was surprised to see me but she
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quickly got up insisting it wasn't what
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it seemed i asked her to explain the
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text messages and she fell silent i
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informed her that I was ending our
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relationship and that she could expect
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to see me in court we spent the next 8
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months in a divorce battle mainly over
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custody both of us wanted primary
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custody but we ended up with joint
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custody i kept the house and she
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received no spousal payments her affair
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partner also divorced had to pay child
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support and alimony to his ex my ex-wife
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and I recently finalized the divorce
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proceedings and we are finally done with
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each other i honestly don't know how to
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move forward having only been with one
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woman and feeling betrayed i'm unsure
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about the next steps my girlfriend Khloe
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and I were together for 3 years before
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everything fell apart i believed she was
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the one and planned to marry her but she
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cheated on me with my cousin Ben it all
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began when we met at a nightclub 3 years
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ago she was the hottest woman there and
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I didn't think I had a chance but I
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tried anyway surprisingly she was
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interested and we've been together since
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she moved into my apartment a year and a
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half into our relationship and I didn't
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question it because I was deeply in love
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then my cousin Ben who used to live down
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south got a job in New York i helped him
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get an apartment in my building excited
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to have family close by we were good
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friends often playing games online i
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thought it would be nice having family
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nearby once he settled in and we hung
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out quite often he never hid that he
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found my girlfriend attractive but I
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never thought he'd act on his feelings i
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never noticed anything going on between
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them while I was around they respected
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each other's space a few months after he
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moved in I was grabbing coffee with a
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friend and my cousin showed up with his
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new girlfriend who happened to be my
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girlfriend's work friend we tried to set
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them up at a party but it didn't seem to
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be going well they were keeping things
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lowprofile not wanting to pressure their
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relationship finding it amusing I wanted
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to surprise my girlfriend with the news
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i texted her to come to the cafe for a
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surprise but she replied that she
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couldn't because she was hanging out
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with her friend ironically the friend
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she claimed to be with was sitting
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across from me at the cafe she lied
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about her whereabouts and I in turn lied
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to my friends about her having a
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migraine when I got home she was nowhere
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to be seen however I noticed makeup on
20:22
the bed and she had clearly tried on a
20:24
couple of outfits i felt really nervous
20:27
thinking something was going on that I
20:28
didn't know about and I needed to talk
20:30
to someone i walked down the hall to
20:33
chat with my cousin despite loud music
20:35
playing in the background I knocked on
20:37
the door persistently until he heard me
20:39
after some shuffling he opened the door
20:42
trying to dismiss it by saying he had
20:43
company and would come over later
20:46
once again I had no reason to believe my
20:48
girlfriend was cheating on me with my
20:49
cousin so I didn't assume it was her in
20:52
there it only dawned on me when I saw a
20:55
shirt I bought her for her birthday on
20:56
the arm of the couch behind my cousin i
20:58
played it cool nodded my head and
21:00
returned to my apartment immediately
21:02
once there I searched for any other
21:04
signs of cheating eventually I went into
21:06
her laptop checking her Facebook
21:08
messages with my cousin doing that
21:10
completely shattered my heart in the
21:12
messages my cousin asked her what she
21:14
liked about me she mentioned finding me
21:17
funny with a good personality but he
21:19
insisted I wasn't her type claiming he
21:21
was my girlfriend didn't disagree they
21:25
were extremely flirty and at one point
21:27
she messaged him the classic "Just got
21:29
out of the shower"
21:30
message after that they exchanged
21:32
suggestive pictures with very explicit
21:34
messages earlier that day my cousin had
21:37
messaged her expressing his inability to
21:39
stop thinking about her and his need to
21:41
be with her he instructed her to come up
21:44
with an excuse to visit his apartment
21:46
and she did realizing it was over
21:48
between my girlfriend and me I decided
21:50
to cut my cousin off entirely from my
21:52
life leaving no trace for everyone I
21:55
knew i captured screenshots of
21:57
everything I saw sending them to myself
22:00
just in case my girlfriend attempted to
22:01
lie
22:03
fortunately my name was on the lease and
22:05
hers wasn't since she moved into my
22:07
apartment this meant I could at least
22:09
kick her out when she came home a few
22:12
hours later I immediately told her to
22:14
leave confused she asked why and I
22:17
revealed that I had discovered her
22:18
involvement with my cousin i insisted
22:21
she vacate the apartment or face legal
22:23
action i left for the night giving her a
22:26
48-hour notice to leave during my
22:29
absence both she and my cousin called me
22:31
numerous times but I ignored every call
22:33
meanwhile I gathered all my relatives in
22:36
a group chat and disclosed everything
22:37
about the situation everyone including
22:40
my cousin's parents expressed deep
22:42
disappointment and offered apologies
22:44
though they weren't directly involved I
22:46
received several messages from my cousin
22:48
calling me a coward and claiming family
22:50
members labeled him a pig i didn't care
22:53
he was indeed a pig since my girlfriend
22:57
and I shared many friends I created a
22:59
group chat and informed them of the
23:01
incident they were shocked and firmly
23:03
sided with me some girls in the chat
23:05
revealed that my girlfriend had tried to
23:07
call them seeking a place to stay
23:09
despite feeling bad they declined as
23:12
they didn't believe her actions were
23:13
justified returning 2 days later I found
23:16
my girlfriend had left the apartment
23:17
unsure of her whereabouts i discovered
23:20
that she stayed with my cousin however
23:23
their personalities clashed and he
23:25
kicked her out after a week after that I
23:28
lost track of where she went i guess I
23:30
learned that you really can't put your
23:32
trust in just anyone not even family i'm
23:35
Mark i had a 5-year relationship with my
23:37
ex-girlfriend Sophia we met at a unisex
23:40
salon where she worked as a hairdresser
23:42
and we hit it off from the start
23:45
although I liked her initially I never
23:47
expected our connection to grow into a
23:49
deep love after several visits to the
23:51
salon I gathered the courage to ask for
23:54
her number and she agreed since we were
23:56
already familiar with each other the
23:58
typical story unfolded we went out got
24:01
to know each other and eventually fell
24:02
in love our decision to not rush into
24:05
settling down early stemmed from my past
24:07
heartbreak with an ex-girlfriend i
24:09
wanted to take things slow with Sophia
24:11
after 5 years of dating I felt it was
24:13
time to make our commitment official
24:16
2 months before the wedding Sophia
24:18
surprised me with the news that she was
24:20
pregnant while it wasn't part of our
24:22
original plan I welcomed it as a
24:25
blessing initially Sophia and I had
24:27
agreed to wait 3 to 4 years after
24:29
marriage to have a child she had
24:32
experienced two miscarriages in the past
24:34
and I wanted to avoid that for her
24:36
despite the unexpected joy of impending
24:38
parenthood planning a wedding and
24:40
expecting a child simultaneously wasn't
24:42
easy sophia insisted on the grand
24:44
wedding she had always dreamed of with
24:46
an expensive venue gown and other costly
24:48
elements while she had saved money for
24:50
the wedding I thought it made more sense
24:52
to allocate our budget towards securing
24:54
a home for our growing family and
24:56
addressing other essential needs however
24:59
she believed in making our wedding a
25:00
once-in-a-lifetime event arguing that we
25:02
had many years ahead to focus on our
25:04
child after considering her perspective
25:07
we proceeded with the wedding she
25:08
envisioned we booked the venue paid for
25:11
the cake she desired and she covered
25:13
expenses like her gown hairdo and other
25:15
necessities with her
25:17
bridesmaids despite my internal
25:19
reservations I was genuinely excited
25:21
about the upcoming events i was about to
25:24
marry the woman I loved and I was
25:26
thrilled that in our 5 years of dating
25:28
she had never betrayed my trust i
25:31
thought she was a faithful partner who
25:33
would stay true to me as we aged
25:35
together unfortunately I was mistaken
25:38
i delved too deeply into the future
25:40
while my present was already a mess
25:42
unbeknownst to me as I smoothly planned
25:44
our wedding investing my savings to
25:46
create her dream ceremony Sophia was
25:49
cheating on me with someone close i
25:51
wouldn't have discovered this if her
25:52
jealous lover hadn't confessed the night
25:54
before our wedding that evening as I
25:56
returned home early to prepare for my
25:58
bachelor party my best man Alex called
26:01
requesting a meeting to share something
26:03
important we agreed to meet at a nearby
26:05
coffee shop when we sat down he looked
26:08
uneasy apologized in advance and said he
26:11
needed to get something off his chest i
26:13
feared he might cancel on me the night
26:15
before my wedding but what he revealed
26:17
was worse he disclosed his history with
26:20
Sophia claiming he loved her too much to
26:22
witness our marriage at first I thought
26:25
it was a prank searching for hidden
26:26
cameras or friends recording us however
26:29
he showed me a sensual picture of him
26:31
and Sophia and my heart sank he also
26:34
shared a text from Sophia about sneaking
26:36
into her hotel room later that night for
26:38
our wedding seeing that message
26:40
dispelled all my doubts and I tried to
26:42
contain my hurt as a man but tears
26:45
welled up the revelations continued he
26:48
admitted to being responsible for
26:49
Sophia's pregnancy they planned for her
26:51
to tell me it was mine avoiding
26:53
suspicion and preventing a breakup at
26:56
that moment my world seemed to come to a
26:59
standstill
27:00
countless thoughts raced through my mind
27:02
making it tough to accept that the woman
27:04
I loved and held high expectations for
27:06
in our relationship was carrying my best
27:08
man's child i was furious imagining if
27:11
my anger were visible Alex would have
27:13
seen smoke when I'd heard enough I
27:16
exploded in anger throwing the chair I
27:18
sat on and storming out trying to
27:21
control my rage I punched him when he
27:23
followed and grabbed my arm then I drove
27:25
off in my car i called the wedding venue
27:28
to cancel managing to get home without
27:30
crossing any limits once there I cried
27:32
intensely devastated by Sophia's
27:35
treacherous betrayal while still
27:36
mourning she called about cancing the
27:38
venue and from my voice she sensed my
27:41
distress i didn't sugarcoat it i told
27:44
her I knew everything officially calling
27:46
off the wedding
27:48
it took her a moment to grasp and as she
27:50
realized I was aware she cried and
27:52
begged over the phone all night despite
27:54
my insistence that I wanted nothing to
27:56
do with her she kept calling i avoided
27:59
sleeping at home expecting her attempts
28:01
to beg in person she even suggested we
28:04
still get married and sort things out
28:06
afterward fearing the shame of a
28:08
lastminute cancellation especially after
28:10
boasting to her friends "Our wedding
28:12
never happened and I can't forgive her
28:14
for what she did all my efforts and
28:16
sacrifices of 5 years vanished i yearn
28:19
for legal recourse for heartbreaks and
28:21
infidelity wishing to drag her to court
28:23
to make her pay for the wasted years and
28:25
pain she caused we haven't seen each
28:27
other and she lacked the courage to face
28:29
me after I called off the wedding i
28:32
moved into the house I rented for us as
28:33
a surprise healing and moving forward
28:36
daily surprisingly my former close
28:39
friend and best man tried to apologize
28:41
and explain their affair but I wasn't
28:43
interested i told him we could no longer
28:45
be friends and he had no place in my
28:47
life since then we haven't made contact
28:50
and I'll never speak to him again
28:52
considering it childish but I don't care
28:55
sophia didn't keep his child she aborted
28:57
it as payback and they are no longer
28:59
together i've learned my lesson and
29:01
won't love deeply again at times I wish
29:04
I had invested my resources and
29:05
sacrifices in my life a far better use
29:08
than wasting them on a promiscuous woman
29:11
but as they say where there is life
29:14
there is
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