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welcome back everyone to
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Wistloom I'm Mark Taylor but my friends
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call me Max Today I'm opening my heart
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to share a deeply personal gut-wrenching
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story Once I lived in a bubble of bliss
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completely content believing my marriage
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was a fortress of love and trust But
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that illusion came crashing down when I
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discovered my wife Lena had been
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unfaithful and deceptive in ways I never
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imagined This journey is raw intense and
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full of twists Deception heartbreak and
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a hard-fought path to redemption Stick
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with me grab a seat and let's dive into
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this wild ride Don't forget to subscribe
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to Wistaloom and join me as we unravel
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this tale Let me paint a picture of who
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I am I'm a tall guy standing at 63 and
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weighing 192 lb and I'm dedicated to
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training 5 days a week you'll find me at
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the gym sculpting my body and mind
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Self-care is my priority and I take
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pride in it Eight years ago I made a
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bold leap leaving the corporate world
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behind to start my own company It was a
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risk but it paid off My business thrives
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today In my spare time I've got a
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passion for brewing craft beer
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perfecting recipes like a refined
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English brown ale that's become a hit
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among my friends My life felt full
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grounded in hard work and creativity Now
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let's talk about Lena At 46 she's
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stunning 5'8" 118 lb and defies every
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stereotype of a mother of two She spent
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an impressive 24 years at a well-known
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company one of the 50 largest starting
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as an operations analyst just a month
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after our wedding About 5 years ago she
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shifted gears becoming a training unit
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instructor to keep pace with evolving
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technology Her job demands at least 20
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days of educational programs each year
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traveling to various cities to teach
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Every morning she's up at dawn joining
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six other women from our neighborhood
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for a challenging six-mile run She's
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disciplined radiant and always on the
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move We have two incredible kids who
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light up my world Our daughter Sophie is
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22 and a proud graduate of Florida State
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Following in Lena's footsteps she's a
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dedicated first grade teacher in Naples
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Running is a family affair Sophie joined
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her mom's running group at 14 and I love
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bond She even enjoys the beer I brew my
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favorite hobby and we attend a beer club
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in Naples together whenever I can make
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it Our son Ethan 21 recently graduated
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from the University of Florida He's
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passionate about learning and dreams of
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working in my business But I've told him
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he needs 5 years of corporate America
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experience first Real world grit builds
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character and I want him ready for
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anything Life seemed to hum along
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perfectly Lena and I had built a rhythm
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My brewing her running our kids
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thriving She's never been a fan of beer
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though and finds the aroma unpleasant so
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I'd strategically plan my brewing
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sessions for when she was away like her
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Dallas It gave me the perfect window to
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craft that English brown ale I'd been
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about Everything felt like it had peaked
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Our family our careers our shared
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history But little did I know a storm
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was brewing and significant changes were
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about to turn my world upside down It
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all started last Wednesday at 8:30 p.m I
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was at the airport picking up my beer
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club buddy Alex a loyal friend who
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While waiting at baggage claim I spotted
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three people I recognized colleagues of
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Lena's My heart skipped a beat Why
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wasn't she with them curiosity nawed at
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me I called her offic's service line an
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unusual move since I typically reach her
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phone The answering machine chimed in
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Lena would be out of the Dallas office
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until Wednesday teaching classes then
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unavailable until Monday
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but she'd told me she wouldn't be home
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Friday Confusion swirled in my mind
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Something wasn't adding up I approached
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Alex and explained my
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unease He suggested I talked to Ryan
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another beer club member and a detective
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police I needed answers and Ryan's
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experience could help I called Lena
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desperate to hear her voice and make
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She sounded warm saying she couldn't
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wait to hug me that her Friday flight
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would leave early and she looked forward
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to falling asleep in my loving arms I
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asked if she could come home sooner and
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she said yes but stressed her duties in
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Dallas couldn't be neglected It would be
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unfair to her team she explained
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reassuring me of her love and promising
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to see me Friday Her words felt genuine
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but a seed of doubt had been planted
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That night despite the late hour I met
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Ryan for a beer I poured out my
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suspicions Lena's story didn't match
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what I'd seen at the airport Ryan
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listened patiently his eyes kind but
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sharp and offered his help He suggested
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I reach out to James Carter a
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high-ranking contact with insight into
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world I thanked him my mind racing and
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planned to call James the next
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morning Sleep eluded me as questions
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swirled Was Lena hiding something had I
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been blind to signs all along as the sun
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rose James Carter surprised me by
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showing up at my door prompted by Ryan I
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recounted everything The airport
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sighting the voicemail Lena's
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conflicting story James paused then
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asked a question that stopped me cold
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Had I been happily married for over 24
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years and was I truly ready to uncover
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the truth he cautioned that in his
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experience most marriages facing these
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situations end in divorce His words hit
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hard but I needed clarity I told him
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"James I need to know every last detail
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when where with whom I don't care what
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it costs I have to understand the extent
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of this deception." James nodded and
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action He enlisted a reliable private
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detective from Dallas to dig into Lena's
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background One of his team members would
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review her training schedule He
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instructed me to contact the three
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colleagues I'd seen at the airport While
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waiting for their responses I searched
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our home desperate for
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clues I started with Lena's dresser
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Nothing unusual just familiar clothes
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and keepsakes The bathroom yielded
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nothing hidden In her closet I sifted
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through hanging clothes and shoe boxes
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my hands trembling as I hunted for
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anything suspicious I scoured the
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bedroom guest room study garage and
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attic Still no insight My mind spun
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unable to piece it together By 500 p.m
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James arrived moving swiftly He set up
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surveillance cameras in all bedrooms the
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office and the kitchen and installed a
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voice recorder for good measure We
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headed to the airport where we found
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Lena's car James planted a GPS in the
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trunk and a voice recorder under the
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front seat over a light ale at home He
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briefed me Lena's classes varied from 3
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to 5 days depending on the
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location In Dallas they ran Monday to
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Wednesday Her colleagues Tom Paul and
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Bev flew out Sunday and returned
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Wednesday evening Teaching materials
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arrived a week early handled by local
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staff I sat there trying to control my
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anger remembering my father's advice
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Keep your temper in check for clear
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thinking Frustration boiled over I
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stormed into the kitchen shouting to
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James that Lena had been lying all along
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There should be consequences I asked if
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he'd found anything He shook his head
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Nothing yet We devised a plan James
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would intercept Lena's bag at the
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airport and I'd disable the washing
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machine to delay her laundry hoping to
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preserve evidence Before leaving James
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said his Dallas contact was at Lena's
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hotel and would update me in the morning
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I couldn't sleep in our bed The weight
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of betrayal too heavy So I crashed in
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Ethan's room tossing and turning all
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night The next day I stuck to my routine
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heading to the office James arrived at 2
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p.m with a stack of documents A report
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from Dallas came via email with photos
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Six people three women three men sat in
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pairs at a restaurant table James asked
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anyone I studied the faces Lena was
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clear but one man seemed oddly familiar
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though I couldn't place him More photos
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showed them leaving the restaurant
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entering an elevator and splitting into
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rooms 707 and 709 on the 7th floor
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connected by an internal door Friday
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morning images captured two men leaving
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709 then the group checking out paying
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their own bills It looked professional
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not romantic but doubt noded deeper
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James turned to me his expression grave
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and asked if I was absolutely sure I
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details I nodded unwavering He handed me
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folder Agents had entered rooms 707 and
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709 with cleaners recording everything
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Sheets went to a lab for DNA analysis
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glasses for fingerprints garbage
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meticulously searched A strong scent of
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closeness lingered with stains and
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traces of use on all four
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beds We'd need lab results to confirm
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Lena's role participant or observer My
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heart pounded the reality of her
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in Our next move She'd be back tonight
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We disabled the washing machine
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unplugging a motor wire to buy time
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James suggested a DNA sample from me and
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Perplexed I asked why He replied "You
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wanted full transparency didn't you?"
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The thought that Sophie and Ethan might
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not be mine shook me I found a comb and
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we labeled my sample as number one
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Ethan's is two Sophie's is three and
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four James airport contact would delay
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her luggage for testing Then we tackled
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the hardest part How could I act normal
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hug Lena kiss her listen to her stories
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take her to dinner be
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close Could I stay calm for months while
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James' team gathered
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evidence i promised I'd do whatever it
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took to uncover the truth James asked if
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I could take a 3 or 4day business
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trip I suggested a longtime client in St
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Louis telling Lena I'd leave Monday and
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return Thursday Why james explained If
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Lena had hidden motives she might let
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her guard down while I was away Maybe
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mistake We wondered about tracking her
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her briefcase perhaps I suggested it and
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James left me a small bug to attach As
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he departed he advised checking Lena's
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underwear for stains I settled on the
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back terrace with a porter my mind
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racing preparing for the show Lena
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arrived home tired from travel upset
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about lost luggage two new pairs of
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trousers gone though her carry-on held
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essentials She hugged me expressing love
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and joy at being back saying she'd
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missed me I returned her embrace then
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discreetly attached the bug to her
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briefcase Sitting in front of the TV I
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recalled her warmth despite the fatigue
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I wanted to believe in her love but
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I climbed the stairs hoping to find
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solace in her arms pushing aside my
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suspicions for one night Saturday
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morning Lena overslept a rare lapse I
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checked her laundry basket feeling
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uneasy like I was invading her space I
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examined her underwear no expert but saw
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nothing odd After a shower I made coffee
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grabbed the newspaper and waited Lena
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entered the kitchen calm in her bathrobe
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smiling I greeted her cheerfully Good
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morning sleepy head You look ready to
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conquer the day I offered coffee and she
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grinned grateful I joked "Maybe I should
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mess up your luggage more often if it
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leads to such delightful vacations We
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shared breakfast Then I stepped outside
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to tend my tasks planning to transfer my
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English brown ale from primary to
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secondary At dinner at our favorite
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Italian restaurant we chatted lively
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about the week my brewing her travels I
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mentioned my St Louis trip and she said
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she was happy to be home hoping her
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luggage turned up by Wednesday or she'd
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replacements I grinned sharing details
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of my ale and we wrapped up Me boxing
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two cases of beer for the road The drive
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to St Louis over 8 hours gave me time to
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think Usually my mind's on business but
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now it was all Lena I called James
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updating him on the weekend He had no
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news but promised to stay in touch 4
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hours in I called again pressing for his
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feeling James paused then said he and
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his Dallas contact Joe believed Lena had
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been having affairs for years Hours of
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close meetings no signs of nervousness
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confidence in their actions It pointed
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to long-term deception
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They discussed classes families paid
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their own way and kept a friendly vibe
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But in rooms they threw wild parties I
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felt the weight of it My wife part of
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this James urged me to decide what to do
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with Lena and her group I called my
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lawyer Michael Bennett the best divorce
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attorney in the state I briefed him and
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he assured me his partner David Reed
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would follow up From my St Louis Hotel I
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called Lena to say I'd arrived then
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confirmed a golf game with a client Fred
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At 9:30 p.m James checked in I told him
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Michael would connect with David He
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laughed saying David's reputation could
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scare any lawyer Lena hired I was tired
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ready for this to end If they wanted
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games I'd play hard Tuesday I golfed
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with Fred Wednesday at 1 p.m James asked
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my schedule I was free until Thursday's
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drive home David Reed called at 2 and I
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laid out everything He praised James'
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team and asked my wishes If Lena was
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unfaithful I'd seek divorce but I needed
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the full scope of her betrayal We'd
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gather evidence during her next
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class David explained a no fault divorce
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in Georgia was quick 30 days split
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property but citing infidelity could be
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more profitable especially with adult
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kids I needed to think carefully
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Wednesday evening at 9 a knock startled
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me James and Ryan stood
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there James had tough news to share in
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person and Ryan was there for support I
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stay James revealed the lab results Lena
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actively participated with traces of all
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six people on one bed I was stunned time
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freezing as I processed this Then the
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unthinkable Two men were the biological
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fathers of Sophie and Ethan I wasn't
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their dad I leapt up shouting demanding
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answers How could my children not be
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mine lena had deceived me for over 24
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years I paced my world crumbling Shock
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turned to sadness loneliness anger rage
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determination James and Ryan watched
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their presence keeping me from impulsing
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We discussed my stance Divorce would
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humiliate Lena and the truth about
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Sophie and Ethan's paternity would
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A no fault divorce they argued was
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faster cheaper and still shamed her and
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her partners I needed to decide when to
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act In James conference room in Atlanta
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we James Ryan David and I dug in I asked
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if Lena did anything odd while I was in
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St Louis James said "No no shady calls
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or moves." We traced this gang of six
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over 5 years adjacent rooms usually all
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six present sometimes just four I
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slammed the table calling it cheating
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demanding James dig deeper Marital
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status kids paternity jobs homes all of
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it With Lena's schedule James planned
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cameras and bugs in hotel rooms Evidence
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unusable in court but key for a no fault
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divorce Lena had three classes before
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our 25th anniversary a Sunday Her last
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class in Orlando ended Friday I decided
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our anniversary would mark the end No
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celebration She'd face consequences for
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lies A week later in David's office we
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learned the gang of six Thomas G Clark
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from Richmond Virginia Samuel H Lee from
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Little Rock Arkansas Nathan K Pierce
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from Columbia South Carolina Julia D
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Harris from Miami Florida Rachel G
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Turner from Knoxville Tennessee and Lena
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met 24 years ago at a training program
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for their company Last week in
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Washington Lena and Samuel shared
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adjacent rooms the others
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scattered They spent days together
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dispersing after 1000 p.m except
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Thursday when all six stayed in adjacent
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rooms until 2:00 a.m They acted
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professional discussing meals games kids
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but in rooms it was chaos Agents posing
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as cleaners collected hair fingerprints
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and sheets DNA confirmed Thomas was
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Sophie's father Nathan was Ethan's
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Lena's reckless closeness with multiple
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partners muddied paternity Thomas
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married 24 years had two kids unaware of
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Sophie Samuel married 23 years had twin
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sons Nathan married 25 years had a son
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soon to learn of Ethan Julia in Miami
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had a son and daughter Rachel in
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Knoxville had two daughters and a son
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All married over 23 years seemingly
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happy except Nathan reeling from his
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wife's betrayal We wondered were Julia
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or Rachel's kids fathered by these men
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james aimed to find out In Orlando
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classes lasted 3 days with the group
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staying Thursday and Friday
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disrespecting me and our anniversary
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Samuel fathered Julia's daughter and
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Rachel's son Thomas and Nathan fathered
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Julia's son was her husband's It was a
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tangle I needed a map to track it My
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marriage was done but I played the
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loving husband secretly plotting to
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unravel Lena and her crew James' team
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repeated the plan in San Diego minus
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Orlando I couldn't wait to turn their
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lives upside down Lena neglected our
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anniversary for her group unaware I'd be
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their instructor Wednesday
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afternoon David's team prepped legal
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papers James' staff monitored
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closely I contacted the spouses pitching
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a surprise for Lena's 25th anniversary
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and 25 years at the company I booked
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their flights saying it had honor their
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history I told Sophie and Ethan the
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truth confessing I wasn't their
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biological dad but vowing my love We
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cried hugged and I asked them to join me
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in Orlando to confront Lena They
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promised not to tell her torn but
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considering it Ethan tearful asked if I
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could forgive Lena and see a
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therapist I took a deep breath guiding
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them through a story Imagine meeting
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your perfect match building a life
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raising kids cherishing every moment
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football cheerleading romantic trips You
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thank God daily for this joy Then
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picture your spouse in a hotel room
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drawing cards with five others grinning
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at an ace of spades They've made four
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films a year for 24 years a live one
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just a kilometer away I have 40 hours of
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video Your mom and her crew Imagine
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learning you're not your kid's dad or
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your spouse fathered another's child
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They leave early stay late for fun not
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you How much love do they have for you
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your kids ethan saw my point admitting
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he'd hate that from a wife He loved me
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unsure about tomorrow sorry for my pain
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Sophie thanked me as a dad said Lena put
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herself first and vowed to join me She
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and Ethan would be there The plan
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surprise the gang of six with their
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spouses believing it's a celebration
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Only my kids knew At 2 p.m we met at the
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Orlando Hotel spouses a lawyer from
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David's firm James's employee a
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videographer and a florist with 25 red
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roses Sophie admired them eyes fierce
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ready for battle I assured her I had
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this At 3:00 p.m I entered Lena's
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classroom with roses smiling She blushed
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and I teased "Your blush matches these
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roses." The class laughed Lena
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introduced me as Max her beloved husband
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I scanned the room Thomas Samuel Nathan
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Julia Rachel all there I said Today's
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your last class day Before you go help
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me make this unforgettable for Lena This
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Sunday we celebrate 25 years of marriage
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Sophie led the spouses in and the
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videographer caught Lena's priceless
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shock Her group panicked grinning I said
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"We're marking our 25th and next month
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Lena's 25 years at the company."
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Thomas Samuel Nathan Julia and Rachel
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joined around then so I invited their
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spouses John's recording say a few words
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I called the five forward applause
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ringing out With Sophie beside me I
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introduced Thomas Clark as her
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biological father Lena pald a ghost
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Thomas's wife gaped asking me to repeat
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I confirmed handing Thomas a paternity
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test petition a lawsuit for 21 years of
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alimony and emotional harm and a claim
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employer I gave his wife evidence copies
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Chaos erupted Spouses realized this
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wasn't a party Pride swelled as Ethan
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nodded strong beside me I led him to
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Nathan Pierce saying "Meet your
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biological father Nathan." Silence fell
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I handed Nathan the same documents
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giving copies to his wife Smiling I
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wouldn't let the others escape Lena
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sobbed and I announced "You thought this
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was a surprise get ready The fun's
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starting." For 5 months I've known
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Thomas Samuel Nathan Julia Rachel and
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Lena skipped duties for 20 years of
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games Sophie's 23 and the truth's out I
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broke it down Samuelathered Julia's
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daughter and Rachel's son Thomas and
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Nathan fathered Rachel's daughters
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Emily's mine But only one of seven kids
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from these women belongs to a
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spouse Chaos rained I handed Lena
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divorce papers saying "Don't contact me
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Don't come home." I was done Spouses got
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documents furious and I felt smug In my
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hotel room Sophie appeared hugging me
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loving me She'd take Lena home tomorrow
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giving her a week to pack Despite
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everything she loved her mom I was
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grateful for her strength Ethan hated
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Lena's ruin of our family asking to
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drive home with me I agreed thrilled
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Sophie stayed with Lena saying "Daddy I
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love you." Ethan and I shared beers
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bonding 5 years later the gang of six is
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shattered fired divorced broke alone
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Their past haunts them blocking
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jobs I won't claim credit Someone
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watches them They try rebuilding but
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it's slow Ex- spouses seek money Some
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kids reconnect I couldn't stay in our
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house Too many memories I stayed in a
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hotel then moved Ethan's in Dallas
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promoted four times single and eyeing my
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company He and Lena barely talk Sophie
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and Ethan chat daily Lena's actions hit
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hard especially for them Sophie's
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married to Trey in Atlanta Works for me
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and set clear rules Cheat and you're
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done We survivors met in Atlanta 8
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months later Bonding and head to
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soon Sophie and Ethan were named for
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Thomas's parents A lasting tie I loved
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Lena once but her deceit changed me Life
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offers two paths Give up or move on My
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kids needed me and I them Lena kept the
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house cherishing memories I couldn't I
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settled with Thomas and Nathan funding
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trusts for Sophie and Ethan Not for
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profit but justice 6 months post divorce
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I dated seeking love Loving and being
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loved is key I await grandkids to spoil
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Betrayal burns but karma hit Lena Public
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shame failed ties a job as a cook A
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frier accident burned her from the waist
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down 95% damage She's in a clinic in
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pain And I can't imagine it
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Thanks for joining me on
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Wistloom Deception doesn't win
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resilience does Share your thoughts
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ring the bell for more real stories I'm
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Max and I'll see you next