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#redditrelationship #aita #redditstories He Found Out I Cheated… Then Took His Life. Here’s the Whole Story | Wistaloom This is a painful story I never thought I’d share—but I need to. I was unfaithful to the man I loved, and days after confronting me, he took his own life. What happened next changed me forever. This isn’t for sympathy—it's a warning, a confession, and maybe, a lifeline to someone else. If you’re thinking about cheating, or if you’ve been cheated on, please listen. Let my pain be your caution. 📌 Trigger Warning: Mentions of suicide, infidelity, emotional trauma. Viewer discretion is advised. Share your thoughts, hate, support, or reflection in the comments. Just be real. Tags: #TrueStory #CheatingConfession #EmotionalStory #Infidelity #SuicideAwareness #Betrayal #RelationshipRegret #Marriage #MentalHealth #LifeLessons People Also Search For: cheating confession,true story betrayal,emotional story 2024,infidelity consequences,regret after cheating,suicide and cheating,true story about betrayal,wife cheated,husband suicide story,cheating regret story,lessons from infidelity,deep emotional stories,marriage betrayal,true confession story,real life drama 2024
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this is a story I'm telling knowing full
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well that many will dislike me for it my
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actions and the consequences of my
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betrayal are
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unforgivable reading my own words is
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disgusting because I know the depth of
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what I did i understand too well how
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needlessly tragic the events were my
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hope is simply that by sharing my story
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it might reach anyone in a relationship
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and maybe just maybe it prevents future
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betrayals
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specifically I hope someone who's
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cheating or even thinking about it might
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hear this and
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pause many might think my example of
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what can go wrong when you're unfaithful
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is a rare
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occurrence but people more knowledgeable
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than I am have told me my situation is
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sadly not
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unique i'm willing to take the hate I'll
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receive by sharing this if it prevents
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even one person from breaking a loved
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one's heart i'm a 28-year-old woman and
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I was married to a wonderful man I'll
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call Liam eight months ago he confronted
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me with undeniable proof that I'd been
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emotionally and physically
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unfaithful a few days later he committed
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suicide typing those words out even now
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causes people I don't even know to hate
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me i couldn't believe I had the capacity
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to do something so evil hurting someone
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I'd loved since childhood
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but I did it if you'd asked either me or
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Liam if either of us would ever be
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unfaithful we both would have
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laughed but to my shock I allowed myself
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to lose focus and stray i knew it would
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destroy him if he ever found
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out but I took the heart of the man I
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loved and crushed it so cruy he couldn't
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endure the pain of this life anymore to
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those thinking I don't deserve to be
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breathing I agree i've attempted suicide
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twice i'm convinced there's a reason I'm
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still here for now I've convinced myself
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that the longer I live the more I suffer
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and I don't deserve the mercy of
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self-destruction honestly Liam and I
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grew up together i can remember my early
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youth and I always knew Liam we were in
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the same Sunday school and public school
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classes our families were friends long
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before we came along he always made me
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laugh kids can be mean but Liam never
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was i realized I thought he was cute in
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sixth grade and it became an official
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crush in high
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school liam and I were each other's only
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loves from early high school through
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college we were best friends and
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cherished each other after graduation we
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took a year to get stable jobs near our
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families and decided to get married we
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took vacations together and were
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ravenous for each other
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the only time closeness was off the
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table was during that time of the month
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but we'd make love for
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hours beautiful moments of passion and I
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threw it all away for something to cheap
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and worthless we were planning to have
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children knew their names and were both
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pure he was my first everything and I
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was his part of me wishes I could say I
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had a drunken one night stand but
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no i got involved with a man inferior to
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my husband
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i didn't even consider the possibility
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that a friendship with another man could
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lead to an attachment forming my husband
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and I had a strong marriage as foolish
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as it sounds now we really
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did my husband was the epitome of
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strength and I was the weak one before
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this I considered myself a strong woman
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it's just that no one ever told me that
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while our relationship was strong no
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relationship is bulletproof
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there's not a day that goes by that I
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don't wish someone had shot me before
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anything I did became
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secretive it's an indisputable fact the
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world would be far better with my
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husband here instead of me i had many
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chances to stop it before anything
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happened and I had no reason to allow
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anything to
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happen after a brief and heated
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conversation he walked out and I never
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spoke to him again
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i tried to contact him in every way I
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could think of i tried so many times
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just to let him know I'm truly sorry and
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that I hate what I did my texts to him
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never showed anything but an unread
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status to me so I doubt he read any
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emails or heard any voicemails but
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everyone said I needed to give him space
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and time to think two nights after Liam
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confronted me at 3:17 a.m there was a
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loud knock at the front door i turned on
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the lights thinking it might be someone
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drunk wanting to curse me out or worse
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then there was another loud knock and I
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quickly put on a hoodie before going to
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the door when I opened it and saw two
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policemen I knew they could be there for
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many reasons but I instantly understood
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why they were
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there they told me my husband's body had
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been found due to an apparent suicide
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and it devastated me
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i dropped to my knees wailing tearing at
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my skin and hair as the police tried to
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calm me
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down when the EMTs arrived I was sitting
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on the steps rocking back and forth
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repeating
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apologies i couldn't make it to the
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funeral even if Liam's family had
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allowed my family to attend i was kept
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sedated for
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days the first thing I wanted to do when
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I got out was visit Liam's grave but
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nobody knew where his parents had him
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buried and that hurt
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deeply that night I attempted suicide
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for the first time i've now been
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hospitalized twice for attempted suicide
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i'm not asking for pity in fact I don't
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want it nothing can take away this
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heartache and nothing can numb it part
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of me wishes I had somehow forced him to
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see me just for a moment to tell him how
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sorry I am and that I knew our marriage
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was over
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no I didn't get that and I didn't
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deserve it i have to face the fact that
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what I did was so vile that making my
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husband see me might have forced him to
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take his life even
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sooner many people have said my actions
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led him to take his life and I don't
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doubt it until that horrible day we were
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incredibly happy no suicide note
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verified I caused his passing but we had
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been so happy loving nearly every moment
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together to go from that bliss to grief
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quickly ended him I ended him my words
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actions and thoughts betrayed us both
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regret doesn't damage you if it did I
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would have died before my husband ever
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confronted me when CO hit Liam and I
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quarantined together i taught at an
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exclusive private school and our salary
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was assured as long as isolation was
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needed liam worked from home making
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progress on a project despite the
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world's worries we enjoyed our time
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together getting
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closer i am truly sorry for those who
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lost a loved one to the horrible disease
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but my husband and I grew closer during
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those weeks we joked about others
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struggling with family time we simply
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couldn't get enough of each other
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after the first month we agreed to limit
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arguments to once a day for about a week
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our only argument during quarantine was
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about doing laundry just to put clean
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sheets on the bed again i cheated on
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that man leading him to end his life due
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to my actions i hate myself in many ways
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but knowing I had it all is the most
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difficult pill to swallow my affair with
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Mark the lacrosse coach started
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innocently during Zoom meetings
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no attraction was present when we met
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face to face there was zero attraction
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at least from me but I didn't sense any
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lustful attention from him toward me
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during that introduction i learned he
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was engaged and I told him I was happily
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married no closeness no tension nothing
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hinting it would ever be a possibility
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the school allowed half the staff and
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students to attend in person for a week
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while the other half used Zoom this was
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to help with social distancing and the
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students feelings of isolation while
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eating lunch one day before my next
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class I got an email from Mark asking me
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to edit toasts and jokes for his
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upcoming wedding i was used to editing
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so it was nothing I felt important
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enough to tell Liam and since it
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pertained to Mark's wedding I saw no
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reason to bore my husband with details
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about that day the email included a
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toast to Mark's parents and to the
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bride's parents i took what he said and
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added a few phrases to tug at the
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heartstrings of all who attended the
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jokes aimed at his brother who was the
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best man were really funny but a bit too
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crude for my taste at a wedding i
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mentioned this when I sent back his
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edited speeches he laughed it off saying
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I didn't understand his family's sense
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of humor which included teasing this
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email exchange marked several months of
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back and forth communication but
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surprisingly nothing inappropriate
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happened until the very end
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throughout our conversations there was
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never any flirting or escalation we did
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discuss taxes but our talks were purely
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scientific and psychological making even
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the biggest nyomaniac in history drier
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than the
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Sahara the discussions about race
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politics religion science and sports
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sometimes got heated i was called
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prudish for my tax opinions but I
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enjoyed the discussions confident there
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was no temptation on either end all of
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this occurred during work hours my
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husband and I had a landline for
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emergencies and once we were home our
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smartphones were turned off mark didn't
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even have my number to text until I
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emailed him with a witty remark late in
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the day he asked for my number to
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counter what I'd sent many co-workers
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had my email so I didn't think much of
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it i genuinely believe Mark had no
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interest in pursuing me as he was
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smitten with his fianceé at the time
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however about a month before their
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wedding Mark discovered his girlfriend
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had been having an affair with her high
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school boyfriend for over a year he was
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shocked and deeply hurt unintentionally
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I became the person he vented to i'm not
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sure when our conversations crossed a
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line but I started feeling genuinely
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sorry for Mark i despised his fianceé
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for what she did and I saw nothing wrong
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with that after a particularly tough
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night for him he looked frazzled at
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school and I could tell he'd been crying
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i gave him a hug and he asked if we
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could talk after school since I had a
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few hours before Liam got home I agreed
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in hindsight I realized what drew me
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into conversations with Mark was a
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different opinion liam and I had
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discussed almost every imaginable topic
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and I usually knew his
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response most of the time I craved
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surprise or verbal conflict it was
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foolish pathetic and weak but that led
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to the affair everything with Liam was
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perfect and we spent every available
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moment
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together i mentioned a coworker named
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Mark to Liam but as nothing was
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happening I didn't elaborate and he saw
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no reason to pry when Liam had to go out
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of town for 3 weeks we facetimed daily
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and I missed him intensely
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with sudden spare time I found myself
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texting Mark just to pass the time
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instead of occasional conversations Mark
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and I often had dinner and drinks before
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going
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home oddly enough what led to us
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becoming physical was me spraining my
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ankle and the school nurse being
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unavailable that week i hurt my ankle
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and went to Mark assuming he as a coach
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had numbing spray or an ace bandage
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while he was tending to my ankle I
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noticed he had an apparent
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hardness i was surprised until I
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realized he could see slightly up my
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skirt from his
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position for a moment I found it
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stimulating that I was turning him on i
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adjusted myself to see if a slightly
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better view would arouse him more he
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called me out on it and I laughed
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telling him to work out his frustrations
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with his girlfriend suddenly he kissed
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me and I pushed him away he kissed me
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again and this time I didn't
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resist we made out for a few minutes
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before I snapped out of it hurriedly
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left his classroom and sat in my own
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classroom in disbelief of what had just
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happened i didn't intend for it to
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happen and I'm sure Mark didn't either
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unsure whether to call Liam immediately
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or wait until he got home that night I
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spoke to Mark after classes he
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apologized advised me not to bring
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conflict into my marriage and suggested
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we stay friends with Liam out of town
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and focused on work I didn't want to add
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more
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stress after discussing it with Liam
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that night I decided to wait until he
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got home his company faced issues
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causing delays and extending Liam's stay
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by 2 weeks mark was there for me to
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discuss what had happened between us
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i couldn't confide in my female friends
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or family who all loved Liam if I had
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known maybe strangers on a site like
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Wistlum would have been the best option
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unfortunately I vented to the last
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person I should have one Friday after
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work Mark and I went to a new restaurant
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for dinner we sat at the bar had a few
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drinks and I explained my unease about
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telling my husband mark asked how I
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thought Liam would take the news and I
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suggested he might want to call in sick
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the next day
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i told Liam he asked if I thought he
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would fight Mark and I said no however I
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knew it would mean the end of Mark and I
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talking mark confessed he might not have
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made it through his breakup without me i
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assured him I was glad to help and
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didn't regret it as the realization that
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our friendship would end sank in we both
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felt a bit depressed we drank too much
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and I ended up at Mark's apartment doing
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more than kissing as soon as it was over
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guilt set in
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yes it should have set in earlier but I
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knew my marriage was over liam and I had
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both said "Society allows too many
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second chances for those who don't
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deserve them." While we believe cheaters
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deserve a second chance it could never
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be with the betrayed
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spouse things got complicated when Liam
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returned from Tulsa i was having my
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period so I knew there would be no
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closeness between us thankfully I
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wouldn't have subjected my husband to
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diseases
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despite wanting to make love to Liam one
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last time I couldn't allow that i wrote
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a long letter confessing what I'd done
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and planned to give it to Liam after a
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face-to-face
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confession to this day I don't know how
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Liam discovered what was going on he may
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have been monitoring my online
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conversation with Mark from day one i
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never got to ask him how he found out
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and the realization that he learned
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about my betrayal before I could tell
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him caused me to fall to my knees
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swearing I planned to
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confess liam didn't believe me and I
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wouldn't have
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either he had a stack of texts between
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Mark and me printed out though I didn't
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deny any of the accusations that honesty
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came far too late he packed a few things
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and left me on a Monday evening
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wednesday night he drove to a shopping
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center parked his car and took his own
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life knowing I had destroyed our
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relationship tortured my soul like never
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before realizing I robbed him of a
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chance to find someone else to be happy
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with broke me the understanding that I
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didn't just end my relationship with
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Liam but every relationship he had or
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would have filled me with more guilt
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than I could ever
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express i could discuss everything that
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has occurred since Liam's passing but
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many details might not interest most
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people simply put his family and mine
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hold strong negative feelings towards me
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my family remains disgusted by my
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actions and their disappointment and
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shame persist their love for me endures
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but the sense of disappointment and
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shame will never fade and rightly so the
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outcomes were not what I intended but
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when choices lead to pain and suffering
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we bear the guilt of causing that grief
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i see a therapist twice a week to work
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through things through my therapist I
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met someone genuinely helping me sort
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through my feelings years ago she
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intentionally set a small fire as a joke
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but it quickly spread causing multiple
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deaths we've discussed various aspects
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of her story and mine things can't be
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the way they once were nor should they
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to keep living I need a plan to make the
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remaining part of my life as meaningful
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as possible so that's essentially my
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story if anyone wants to post hate
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messages and call me a wretched person
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go right
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ahead if it helps you release your rage
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consider me your verbal punching
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bag for those who have been cheated on
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some of you may have been intentionally
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betrayed but those who had a partner
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just as perplexed about the cheating as
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you were listen to my story it doesn't
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justify anything I did quite the
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opposite but if it helps you understand
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that you bear little responsibility for
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the infidelity so be it to unrepentant
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cheaters I hope you listen to my
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cautionary tale and recognize your
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ability to destroy not just someone else
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but also your relationships and a
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significant part of
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yourself i know I can't preach or judge
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anyone but
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myself i just hope no one finds their
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Liam and loses them or sinks to the
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depths I did most importantly I want
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people in great relationships to cherish
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and never take them for
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granted humans aren't immune to being
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swayed under the wrong conditions when
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we love someone we carry part of their
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soul with
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us one betrayal makes it impossible for
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that person to hold that piece of you
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again i had my husband's heart in my
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hands and now I deserve never to hold it
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again nor will he ever hold mine this
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life has too much pain without hurting
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the ones we love love is too precious to
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risk on anything update: I cheated
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causing my husband to commit suicide
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days after confronting me this is
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intended as a final response liam likely
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didn't read it and considering he's been
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dead a year I doubt it was him for those
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trying to psychoanalyze me I appreciate
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the effort even if it was for your own
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self-interests professionals haven't
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provided a good theory for why I let
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things happen
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i feel like there should be some valid
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reason why I did what I did too i just
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can't come up with one and it wouldn't
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be a valid reason if I found
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one for those thinking this is fake I
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can't fathom a reason to post this other
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than to warn and perhaps help it wasn't
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a karma grab i've barely responded so it
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wasn't for attention and it certainly
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wasn't to lift my spirits because I've
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rightfully been slammed for my
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betrayal admitting to something horrible
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is not easy imagining it never happened
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doesn't help me but you all do i do not
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keep in contact with Mark and have not
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heard from him since before Liam
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committed
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suicide the only things I know about him
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are secondhand from people I worked with
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i have no interest in being with Mark or
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having him in my life in any way so
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those thinking I planned my vile actions
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to ride off into the sunset with a first
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string lacrosse coach no bless you all
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may you have stellar lives full of
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happiness but most of all
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peace a different betrayal i was married
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to my wife for 4 years and our marriage
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faced challenges due to her struggle
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with drinks even before we tied the knot
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I knew she enjoyed drinking particularly
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at parties she was the kind of person
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who loved to indulge in drinks during
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social
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events we first met at a club where she
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and her friends were celebrating a
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birthday i was instantly attracted to
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her and approached her in the group that
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night we talked and spent the rest of
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the evening at the club after meeting we
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went home together because she asked if
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she could come with me on that first
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night we became faithful despite my wife
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Ellaner thinking I was only interested
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in a one- night stand i felt
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differently i genuinely liked her and
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our closeness deepened my feelings for
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her in the following weeks we started
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dating after spending time together at
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least twice a week for three months at
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the time she had just finished college
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and was working hourly jobs until she
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could land her desired job the descent
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into addiction and loss early on I knew
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she had a drinking issue but I didn't
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expect it to escalate to the point of
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needing rehab after over a year of
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dating we got married officially moved
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in together and unfortunately a year
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later she lost her parents and only
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sibling in a tragic
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accident this intensified her emotional
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struggle leading her to cope with the
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pain through excessive drinking i
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thought her extreme drinking might be a
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temporary response to mourning but it
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persisted months after the burial she
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didn't recover from her family's loss
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becoming a shadow of her former self
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despite my efforts to comfort her she
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was in a dark mental state around the
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same time she experienced a breakdown
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adding to her emotional
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turmoil she stopped working and the
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responsibility of caring for both of us
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fell on me on days when she wasn't
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drinking she displayed aggression and
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anger over trivial matters another
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betrayal i walked in on my wife
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Elellanar making out with a neighbor
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David and I was really
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angry she was drunk but he seemed sober
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i kept the neighbor away and informed
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his wife yet I couldn't take any action
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against my wife thinking she wasn't in
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the right state of mind i was wrong
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because a few days later I caught her
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talking to the same neighbor when she
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saw me she immediately walked away
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meanwhile her drinking problem worsened
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if I gave her money she'd spend it all
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on drinks reaching a point where she
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couldn't go a day without drinking i got
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frustrated and tired tired of putting up
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with her handling bills alone and still
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caring for her it became overwhelming so
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I decided to get her help when there was
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no other option i informed her I was
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taking her to rehab and after several
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months of persuasion she finally went
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seeing a significant
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improvement i was relieved to be getting
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my wife back the ultimate deception as a
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concerned husband I finally found peace
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as she broke free from her bad habits
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and started rebuilding her life however
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my relief didn't last one day while
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enjoying content on Wistaloom my wife
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Eleanor announced she was marrying the
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love of her life i didn't take it
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seriously at first and just laughed it
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off but when she mentioned her rehab
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coach Alex I became attentive according
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to her Alex was the one for her and they
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were in love planning to get married she
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praised him for treating her well
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talking nicely and more i was shocked
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and knew she was going crazy the Alex
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she talked about was already a married
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man with two kids making no
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sense i was sure she didn't come up with
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the marriage idea on her own so I
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confronted Alex on her next meeting day
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when I shared everything my wife said
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Alex said she was
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delusional somehow my wife had overheard
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his responses she had been eavesdropping
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on our conversation upon hearing him she
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left her hiding spot tears streaming
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from her eyes she sobbed like a baby and
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simultaneously showed me a video of her
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and Alex both with nothing on in bed and
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the
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bathroom alex had recorded it during
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their last hotel encounter and sent it
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to her
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she claimed Alex vowed to divorce his
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wife so they could marry when she
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presented the video Alex angered bered
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her calling her foolish for thinking
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he'd leave his wife for an unstable
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woman his words shattered her heart i'd
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never seen my wife cry like that since
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losing her family it became clear she
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truly loved Alex even planning to
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divorce me for him which deeply saddened
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me i was furious with Alex for
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exploiting my wife his
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client to give him a taste of his own
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medicine I pressed charges using the
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video as evidence in court sharing this
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is easy because the hurt and heartbreak
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almost shattered me despite the
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challenges my wife Elellanar presented I
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still loved her and tried to help her
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return to normal unfortunately she
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cheated on me in return planning to
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divorce me for her rehab coach
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i felt pity for her when she discovered
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Alex's deceit and nearly fell into
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depression out of compassion I admitted
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her to a mental hospital and after her
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admission I initiated a
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divorce although it seemed she wasn't in
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her right state of mind she was
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clear-headed enough to consider
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divorcing me honestly our relationship
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was a significant waste of time
25:29
resources and emotions but I'll view it
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as a life lesson
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here's a piece of free advice some women
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aren't worth the sacrifices most men
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make even if you give them the universe
25:42
they might still find an excuse to cheat
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regarding Alex I won the court case and
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he received a jail term for exploiting
25:49
his mentally unstable client the
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government also shut down his business
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i often miss my wife but I won't let her
25:58
problems excuse breaking our marital
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vows and cheating on