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I'm A Lesbian Who Hates Men - But I Have A Husband | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

Jan 7, 2026
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LEWIS and Alexandra met on a photoshoot for a supercar campaign and hit it off immediately. They share a love for tattoos, supercars, and making spicy content. Alexandra identified as a lesbian at the time and hadn’t been with a guy for over five years, but there was something about Lewis that felt different. She explained, "I would define my sexuality as…complicated. I like beautiful women. I like sharing beautiful women with my husband." She continued, "[Lewis] is the only man that I'm attracted to. I've been in relationships with men in the past, but they were never long-term. I came out gay before I came out straight. I was like 14, so I never saw myself with a guy." When they got together, she had over 500K followers on TikTok; however, when she started sharing that she was in a relationship with a man, the community turned on her. She was called out for queerbaiting to build up her following. "I was getting mass reported on TikTok. People were putting 'You're not gay', 'You fake gay', 'You've been lying to me.'" Now the couple have a girlfriend, Kourtney, who said about joining them, "You're like the perfect couple, I wanted to slot myself right in there!" When asked if Lewis ever felt jealous of Kourtney and Alexandra's attraction to women, he said, "No, never. Jealousy isn't really a thing for me with her, with women. I've got quite a good reason, I suppose. I'm quite happy for those two to do their own thing because I can't offer that. She's always been interested in women; she always will be interested in women, so why not? If she met a woman that I couldn't compete with, then fair play, I can't change how you feel about somebody. I'm quite content [that] she's not going anywhere."

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