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You know, I've talked to women before who've miscarried, who've lost children
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And I feel like a lot, unless you go through it, it's a very misunderstood experience
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Do you think it's a misunderstood experience? And what light can you shed on it if so
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I do feel like it's a misunderstood experience. And the reason I would say that is because, well, a lot of people just say, oh, well, they were too early for you to know
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Because I've lost children at, you know, five, six, seven weeks. And it's true
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It was too early to actually physically know that they were there
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But as soon as you get those two pink lines as a mother, you're terrified already
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And you want to do everything for them at the very beginning. Um, so you know that they're there and they're a baby and I don't like the word stillborn
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because or stillbirth. I like to say that they were still here because even though that they were past and that they're
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not physically living, but they were still here for us and that those tiny little feet
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are always imprinted on our hearts and they never leave. And so I think sometimes when women go through this, sometimes we go through this alone, um
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Because we're the ones there most of the time when this miscarriage is happening and we don't often say, hey, this is happening to me
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And we're scared to say it because there's a lot of stigma about it
