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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
01:39 - Russell from Indiana
08:51 - Paris from California
09:58 - Paris - Coping Strategies
13:00 - Getting Therapy for Kids
14:22 - Finding Therapy for Yourself
18:15 - Sentencing Details
19:55 - Suggesting Therapy to Friends
21:06 - Coping with Difficult Situations
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that's our resident therapist who has a
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master's degree in clinical mental
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health counseling from Northwestern
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University basketball star at Central
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Michigan University producer with Grammy
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award-winning artist this man has done
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it all and dedicated his life to
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uplifting people and giving them the
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tools they need to have a better life i
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want to welcome him back the son of Mr
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and Mrs weber yeah give it up for David
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Weber right here man all you are is
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their son i know that's all you are
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don't get it twisted man as they sit in
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that truck because they don't want to
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listen to it in their home and we got
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him a free subscription when they're
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ready yeah i I got to let them know my
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bad they they prefer to sit in that
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truck man sit in the truck right now
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what's up mom what's up dad your dad
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loves that truck he loves the truck and
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he loves driving for him that's
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relaxation and and stress reducing and
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so he loves it he loves it yeah man good
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man man well welcome back to the show
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brother i'm going to put you straight to
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work russell is on on the line we're
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going to open up the phone lines if you
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need any advice you need some free
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therapy for the m for for the moment if
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you're on the fence about therapy trust
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me I was one of those people too at one
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point in my life okay it took somebody
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years to convince me to sit in therapy
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and the moment I did I I hate using the
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word regret but I wish I had done it
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sooner earlier because it it definitely
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helped me tremendously
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just to even have someone listen to my
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you know what I mean like it it
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just really helped me a whole lot but to
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have someone who's trained at it is even
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better so I going to start with Russell
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in Indiana russell welcome to the show
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hey Russell hey Russ thanks for calling
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hey good morning everybody hey how you
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doing Russell thanks thanks for having
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me absolutely uh you know I'm I'm okay
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i'm okay i I uh I I called because you
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know I I had been uh I don't know I've
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been fine I I think and then a lot of
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things have happened in life and even
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you know I had been dealing with that
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but then uh just the a few months back
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maybe toward the end of last
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year you know I just really started
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started having days where I felt like I
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just couldn't even get out of bed i
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started even thinking about you know
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what if what if I'm not here anymore and
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I and I'm not um you know I wasn't
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planning anything out or anything like
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that but just kind of having those
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thoughts like ah you know
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should would anybody even care type of
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things you know what I mean and and
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knowing in my heart that people people
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would but but those things type you know
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start to creep in and for me that is
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brand new i I've I've been you know
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where I've been down in life and things
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like that but um and it's hard and I'm
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and I'm I feel like I'm maybe climbing
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out of that but I'm just I'm just stuck
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i can't I can't let things go i started
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thinking about you know old things
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somebody did you know you know what I
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mean or a mistake I made back in 97 you
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know what I mean or whatever and and I
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just uh I'm just it's just new for me
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it's weird and and I am I I I hate it to
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be honest okay all right yeah first off
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thank you for your call and and for your
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vulnerability in front of in front of
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everyone uh right now if you've listened
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to the show before you've heard me talk
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about what I call what I call functional
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depression and functional depression is
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sort of similar to functional alcoholism
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where the person can go to work wake up
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go to work but they have four or five
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drinks after work every single day right
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and so it's it's functional they're
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drinking 20 25 30 drinks a week but they
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get up and go to work the next day so it
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seems very normal same thing with
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depression you may go to work you may
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still go out with family and friends and
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hang out but there's depression
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underneath it and so you may not meet
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the criteria for major depressive
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disorder there's nine criteria if you
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have five then you have mild depression
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if you have seven that's considered
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moderate if you have eight or nine
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that's considered severe depression so
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you may not meet the standard for um um
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major depressive disorder however you
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may have some of the symptoms of
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depression but it's very functional so
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if someone saw you or spoke with you or
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if you're at work people may not notice
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but you may notice anytime you're
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experiencing what I call functional
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depression you need to see a therapist
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ASAP because you're only one or two life
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events away from going into full
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depression possibly moderate depression
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so um but again thank you for your
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vulnerability number one I took a lot of
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courage to do that as men we don't talk
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about these types of things so I'm happy
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that you spoke about this because a lot
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of people are experiencing this in fact
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I experienced functional depression um
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not too long ago maybe six to eight
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months ago it wasn't it wasn't that long
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ago where I was noticing two or three
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symptoms that wasn't me and one of my
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symptoms by the way is when I begin it
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sounds crazy but if I go to four or five
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fast food restaurants in the same day I
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don't eat fast food so if I go to four
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or five fast food restaurants in the
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same day that tells me something's off
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wow that's That's your red flag that's
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That's my red Yes yes so we all have red
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flags it took me a while to even know
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what mine was my former supervisor said
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"I'm noticing that you you just went to
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Wendy's and then you you came back and
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then you you know went to Chick-fil-A
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and now you're going something's not
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right." And I'm like "No I'm okay."
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She's like "No that's not that's not
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you." So if you're noticing something is
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not you that's probably a sign that
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something's wrong if he came to you
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Russell you still there if Russell came
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to you and you say he should go to a
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therapist Yeah what would be some as a
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therapist what would you tell him to try
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to try to re you know eradicate this
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feeling or cope with this feeling yeah
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well the thing I would do with him first
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is I want to go back to his childhood
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personally okay and talk about where
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we're at now how you're feeling now
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where you think you would be sometimes
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we have these goals in life that are
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like you know that we think by the time
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we're 45 or by the time we're 60 or
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whatever it may be this is going to be
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going on in our life maybe we'll be
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married maybe we'll have children
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whatever it may be so we have these
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goals there's a lot there yeah and so
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when they don't happen when those things
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don't happen we're kind of stuck like
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wait what's I'm not happy right but
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that's usually connected to this idea we
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had in our mind about how our life would
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be and things aren't lining up that way
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so we create these scenarios when they
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don't line up sometimes that creates
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that as well so I would probably start
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there with him russell I want to invite
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you to follow David Weber um because I
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think y'all need to have a offmic
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conversation that would be good follow
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him at David Weber_LPC
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yes yes please hit me up on Instagram
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David Weber LPC okay I I will do that
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and if I could if I could just say one
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one thing really quick um you guys are
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uh the whole Sway in the morning family
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is very very important to me you guys
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actually do give me such a bright spot
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um in my day i I I don't I don't feel
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right if I don't get to get to listen to
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you guys and and you know it's um it's
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everybody it's the whole crew man db and
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and his mixes and and Tracy and Tracy I
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do uh you know I've listened to your uh
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your meditations and and things like
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that i searched them out on YouTube and
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um you know just the the encouragement
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from from everybody Lonnie Light man um
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and and you know Sway and Heather just
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the whole crew Torch you guys all bring
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something I know to a lot of people but
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you bring something very special to me
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and and that we we were actually uh my
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wife and I were cutting back on some
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some things around the house you know
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cutting like cable and stuff like that
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and the one thing she said "We're not
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going to cut Sirius XM because I know
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that's something that you really like
8:02
and I know that sway in the morning is
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something that you need." And so uh so
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we we I I just u So I just I I love you
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guys i got to come out to the Super Bowl
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party last year and uh you too Russell
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man we giving you a virtual hug again
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Russell man we appreciate you man and
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tell your wife thanks for not cutting us
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out of your
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life all right and thank you man follow
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David
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Weber_LPC Russell and we going to check
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in with you off mic okay all right you a
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super citizen right morning love to your
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wife as well let me take another one we
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just The lines lighting up
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8887423345 david Weber is here he's our
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resident therapist you can follow him
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citizens if you can't get in or you
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don't want to be on air hit him up
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directly david Weber d A V I D Weber we
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b_lpc paris is on the line from Cali
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talk to us Paris welcome to the show
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what up with it how y'all doing today
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excellent excellent man how about
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yourself
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i've been better but I'm here though
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right yeah man you here man and you
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called in so we appreciate that what
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What do you want to share with us
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bro so when I heard about the uh therapy
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thing it had really like
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uh resonated with me so to say like
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um so um my kids had unfortunately lost
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their mom to the system
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um at least for a while right uh and
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um like the kids know pretty much
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everything from the news and their
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cousins telling them and everything and
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uh the doctors that they go to like no
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they watch the news right and um my kids
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pediatrician wait on Paris when you say
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the kids lost their mom to the system
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she's incarcerated
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yes she's in California State Prison and
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so the reason she's incarcerated has
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been on the news
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yes she shot somebody she sought someone
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okay okay yes all right go go go go
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ahead and continue brother
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yeah so the
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uh the uh pediatrician said that we all
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need to seek uh therapy that he um
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advises for all of us to go now I've so
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far only got my 8-year-old son into it i
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mean my seven my sevenyear-old son into
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it but my nineyear-old daughter needs to
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be into it as well for surely cuz I'm
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noticing her you know short temper and
10:50
anger and you know I
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mean she not the same um
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nice girl like she was so to say right
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mhm and um and hell I got a a
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three-year-old daughter that mom left
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when she was six months like she don't
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even know her mom
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yeah yeah i mean and it and it's just a
11:16
lot and I was just How about yourself
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how you feeling
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tired yeah yeah yeah i haven't I haven't
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slept much um since she been gone
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bro was like
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um all right so I always respected women
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i mean at least to a certain point like
11:39
I've had my days or whatever right mhm
11:41
and I'm just a man but um like I was
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raised by a lot of women not that I
11:48
didn't have my father right but now my
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grandma my mom my older sister my
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aunties my like I mean like I was
11:55
around women always dude I have a
11:58
completely different line of
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respect for women now bro like I didn't
12:03
even Bro like I didn't know that grocery
12:05
shopping was a
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skill bro
12:10
right yeah Sweat pays for his that's why
12:12
he's over at my house a lot p yeah he
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doesn't know about that talk to him i
12:17
donate money to the grocery fund so I
12:19
don't have to it's confusing grocery
12:21
shopping man but you ain't got to go do
12:23
it right yeah but I don't got to go do
12:24
it you're taking on all the mom's
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responsibilities and then you're
12:28
learning that there's layers to being a
12:31
mom you know just being a mom period
12:34
goodness being a woman period but then a
12:36
mom at the same time right three of
12:41
and and then three that are going
12:43
through facing this tragedy of not
12:45
having their mom you know um probably
12:48
detachment issues probably there's a kid
12:51
there's a toddler and an infant
12:53
basically like this is crazy and knowing
12:55
and knowing the reason why the mom isn't
12:57
there is probably scary to those kids as
13:00
well david um what are your thoughts on
13:02
this yeah that's a lot that you're that
13:04
you're dealing with uh first and
13:06
foremost you can't pour from an empty
13:08
cup so you have to get therapy you
13:10
personally your your children um you
13:14
know and big salute to you for taking on
13:16
the challenge you you could have left
13:18
you could do what some fathers do
13:19
unfortunately and leave and not be there
13:21
so salute to you for being there but you
13:24
have to be 100% mentally physically and
13:27
emotionally healthy to help support them
13:30
during this tough time and support
13:32
yourself so first and foremost uh you
13:34
need individual therapy you can hit me
13:36
up on Instagram personally i help you
13:38
find resources in your area uh to help
13:40
you get therapy personally for the
13:42
children I would say listen right
13:45
they're going to have they may lash out
13:48
they may have mood swings they may be
13:50
angry for no reason or seemingly no
13:52
reason but but when they're going
13:55
through those things they just need you
13:57
to listen and hear them you have to get
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them in therapy as well but I want to
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first get you into therapy first and
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then let's get them into therapy after
14:04
that so if you hit me up on Instagram
14:06
directly I promise you I'll help you get
14:08
the resources uh that you need but right
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now for right now it's you getting as
14:14
physically emotionally spiritually um
14:17
well as you can um so that you can help
14:20
support them it's very difficult to pour
14:22
from empty cup david I heard Pete say
14:24
that he's having a hard time with the
14:26
9-year-old and not going to therapy can
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you force a child at that age because
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it's they're still not an adult to go to
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therapy i wouldn't force a child but I I
14:38
would do a play therapist i would get
14:40
with uh someone who specializes in play
14:42
therapy so they're playing games it
14:44
shouldn't feel like therapy for that
14:46
child right so for someone 9 10 11 12
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years old it shouldn't feel like therapy
14:52
it should feel like you're playing a
14:53
game it should feel like you're playing
14:55
cards it should feel like you're doing
14:56
checkers and those types of things and
14:59
while you're playing checkers or while
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you're doing you know hanging out in the
15:02
sandbox or doing something fun then they
15:05
begin to open up and talk about things
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um when I first started therapy I was
15:08
doing play therapy a lot and so
15:10
sometimes it takes children two or three
15:12
sessions to begin to tell you what's
15:14
going on but children talk they just
15:16
have to be comfortable what would be one
15:18
of the things but you you said to Paris
15:20
and Paris thank you man i think you're
15:22
very brave and courageous to share this
15:24
and it's it's reaching out you know
15:25
Paris is making this call yes cuz he
15:27
reaching out yes i I I know you
15:30
suggesting he gets a therapist but if he
15:32
came to you where would you start with
15:34
him knowing the circumstances man this
15:36
is so I've talked about this on the show
15:38
as well you don't grieve only when
15:41
someone dies you grieve when you lose a
15:44
job you grieve when you move cities and
15:46
you grieve when someone you love goes to
15:48
prison right like that's you're going to
15:51
experience the stages of grief so so the
15:53
denial and anger and bargaining and
15:57
depression you're going to experience
15:59
those things and so we would I would
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approach it from from that standpoint
16:04
this is really about grief this is
16:06
really about taking on the the weight of
16:08
an entire family when it was two of you
16:10
and now it's only one of you right and
16:12
then processing with those children um
16:15
you know the loss of a parent
16:17
essentially right and so that's what we
16:20
would start him and I Paris um will you
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will you um promise us you'll reach out
16:25
to David
16:27
yeah uh give me the um information again
16:30
I really don't got no information I was
16:32
going to say what about email you know
16:33
what if you leave your information uh
16:36
with us I'm going to hit you up directly
16:38
today okay got it got it we got it we
16:40
got that uh we got that we got the 707
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seven number okay
16:44
okay yeah for sure hey but um listen up
16:46
but I wanted to comment i know that he
16:49
couldn't see me with my hand up and I
16:50
didn't want to be like I was trying to
16:52
take the floor from the uh doctor right
16:54
so I just sat back and shut up okay so
16:57
as you said that I was uh courageous I
17:01
think you use or maybe brave something
17:03
like that for uh uh uh stepping up and
17:07
what a lot of uh other fathers would
17:09
have done and this that and the other
17:11
okay bro so I think that that's one of
17:13
the problem bro those are not fathers
17:16
bro those are like sperm donors or some
17:17
bro like I didn't I didn't um step
17:20
up because I never stepped off that's
17:22
what's up i get that man that's what's
17:24
up right so Right so like I'm So like I
17:28
mean I wouldn't be able to look at
17:29
myself to think like that um I know
17:32
something like this was going on and my
17:34
kids were in whatever bind and uh I act
17:37
like I didn't see the phone ring or act
17:39
like I didn't see the caller ID if I did
17:41
miss a call or something like what like
17:44
like I would look in the mirror and be
17:46
like you piece of like I
17:47
can't even look at you like what's your
17:49
problem
17:50
i mean so uh so uh for all those uh guys
17:55
whatever I guess that you call them that
17:57
would be like "Oh you know uh they'll
18:00
come find me when they 18 you
18:02
piece of like you don't deserve to
18:04
live like really you don't you done made
18:05
them goddamn kids and now just going to
18:08
leave them high and dry like that for
18:09
for the system to do whatever and like
18:12
who knows what some of these weirdos
18:13
might do
18:15
paris how how long were is um did the
18:18
your kid's mom get sentenced too
18:23
long enough i mean but like Yeah bro
18:26
like I don't mean to say that like I
18:28
heard how it came out after I said it
18:30
but I mean they gave her 15 years okay
18:32
oh gosh they gave her 15 years i guess
18:35
I'm just happy that she that she got uh
18:37
a number instead of the letter cuz I
18:39
mean we know what they could have gave
18:40
her yeah absolutely right so So I mean
18:44
I'm just happy for a release date and uh
18:47
with all the um new prison reforms and
18:51
i mean it ain't no telling she may
18:53
be get hopefully she get out soon and
18:57
hopefully she and hopefully she does the
18:58
right thing when she gets out because
19:01
like um how bad would that crush my kids
19:03
for them to have went through all they
19:05
went through and then she come home and
19:07
then go right back with parole
19:09
or doing something well I mean you know
19:12
bro like they could send you back for
19:14
any reason bro like you cross the street
19:16
the wrong way they could send you back
19:18
if they want to yeah Paris man i
19:20
appreciate you calling in man and giving
19:22
us um just letting us inside your life
19:24
like this and David is going to reach
19:26
out to you brother all right we
19:28
appreciate you family all right thank
19:29
you all right hug your kids thank you so
19:31
much Sway absolutely hug the kids let
19:33
them know they got family on Sway in the
19:35
morning all right uh Warriors man let's
19:38
go win this championship oh man you
19:41
really got nice
19:43
wow
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yeah I need him he got to be from the
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bay he a citizen this way in the morning
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everybody from the bay a citizen all
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right cool man um
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thank you David um Heather did you want
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to ask him a question or you Well I feel
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like we have callers you know um I feel
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like it's being touched on but just
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really quickly David what if you're in a
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a friend group and you feel like a
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friend needs therapy that friend needs
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therapy and it it's kind of hard to
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bring up it's not like saying "Hey let's
20:14
go to Beyonce concert or let's go to the
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movies." But how do you suggest to a
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friend you think it's time to sit down
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with someone yeah what I wouldn't do is
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an intervention unless it's severe oh
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okay i wouldn't do that unless it's
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really severe like severe alcoholism or
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something like that drug use people get
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um feel like you put them on blast in
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front of other people so I would go
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oneonone to the person and say "Hey you
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know this is something I'm seeing i'm
20:42
hearing from you it sounds like this is
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what you need um whatever I can do to
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help and support you i just wouldn't do
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it in a group chat i've been in those
20:50
situations i wouldn't do it uh a group
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of people making a phone call i would do
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it individually sit down with that
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person explain why I believe therapy
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would be beneficial for you and most
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people will be receptive of that but if
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it's in front of other people people get
21:04
embarrassed okay thanks wow okay dalia's
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on the line um from Oakland dalia go
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ahead welcome to the show Dalia hey Dia
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thank you you guys how are you doing
21:15
hello hello town business good morning
21:20
i Good morning i
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um I asked one question when you when I
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first called in but I re I'm really
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concerned
21:33
about what should a mother and this is
21:36
for the therapist
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what how should a mother cope
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with the fact that now keep in mind that
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I have been in
21:48
therapy all of this time still in
21:51
therapy
21:52
however when it comes to this situation
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with my 10year-old daughter who was
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taken from me by birth from a false drug
22:03
test from a
22:05
hospital and never given the chance of
22:08
giving her back i've done everything the
22:10
courts have asked i have proven from day
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one i've paid for hair follicle test uh
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or they told me "Okay you're a drug
22:20
addict," which I'm not you're a drug
22:23
addict go to this program all of my
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uh your
22:29
analysis random your analysis came back
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negative for any and everything and I'm
22:35
still dealing with this this situation
22:38
took her in
22:39
2014 and it's
22:41
2025 i'm low income never had the
22:45
opportunity to pay for a lawyer for this
22:48
situation until I got with my fiance who
22:51
I'm with now i've been through about
22:55
three four five different lawyers just
22:58
wasting money wasting money and the the
23:02
legal representation that I have now
23:05
doesn't even want me to stand up to let
23:08
them know that hey I have dialysis i
23:10
can't show up today
23:13
so I'm dealing with this with my
23:17
therapist and I've talked about
23:20
situation with my
23:22
therapist and every other
23:24
situation all my other situations has
23:28
gotten to where it's not a bother in my
23:32
life however when it comes to my
23:34
daughter's
23:35
situation I'm back in a depression i'm
23:39
crying
23:41
cryified and they ask if the therapy is
23:44
helping it helps in one aspect but the
23:47
moment I start dealing with my daughter
23:49
situation again I'm back in a depression
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uhhuh david you want to you want to
23:56
chime in thank you for sharing your
23:57
story Dalia yeah that's that's a really
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difficult situation i'm glad that
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therapy is helping in in the other
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areas this is my personal opinion
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some things are
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spiritual some things are therapy some
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things are a little bit of both some
24:14
things are tests um and when you're
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going through something really
24:19
difficult particularly when you've been
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accused of something that you did not do
24:24
um that to me feels like a spiritual
24:26
test right and so how do I fight through
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a spiritual test is I have to fight
24:33
through that spiritually
24:35
so there's nothing therapy necessarily
24:37
is going to help me with in a spiritual
24:39
test if that makes any sense because if
24:41
it would have helped it would have
24:43
already helped by now being being that
24:45
you've seen a therapist for so long so
24:48
at this point I'm not sure what your
24:50
faith may be but if I were you I would
24:52
lean into that
24:54
heavy right i would lean into my purpose
24:57
heavy i would lean into everything is
24:59
happening for a reason even though I
25:01
don't understand the reason even though
25:02
it doesn't make sense I would lean into
25:04
that heavy right because some things I
25:08
have no control over most things I have
25:10
no control over so what's the lesson for
25:12
me what am I supposed to learn and what
25:14
am I supposed to get out of this even
25:16
though it's difficult what am I supposed
25:19
to be learning from this situation how
25:21
do I get through this situation and I'm
25:23
sure you've already been doing parts of
25:25
this that what I'm saying right now but
25:27
I would focus heavy on the spiritual end
25:30
as it relates to that situation to try
25:32
to figure out okay what are you trying
25:34
to teach me what's the purpose of
25:36
everything I'm going through right now
25:38
dalia thank you for sharing your story
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you're a citizen i swear in the morning
25:42
and uh please reach out to David Weber
25:44
david I I want to thank you for coming
25:46
on today we you know you got you got hit
25:49
from every angle today worked out today
25:51
brother yeah he's sweating over here
25:54
yeah I'm always sweating no but I think
25:55
it's I think it's a great reminder and
25:58
and I've I don't think I've ever heard a
25:59
therapist say that um some things are
26:02
spiritual and I totally agree with you
26:04
and and we have to fight that fight as
26:06
well and and and nurture and pour into
26:08
that um so yeah thank you for for that
26:12
confirmation and sharing that today
26:14
absolutely man give this man a round of
26:16
applause if you want to citizens it's
26:18
like we got a lot of lines are lit up
26:20
yeah man you can hit him directly and I
26:22
promise you hit this man you tell him
26:24
you target him on this show he's going
26:25
to respond to you david how can they
26:28
reach you again please hit me up on
26:29
Instagram David
26:32
Weber_LPC and and Sway Heather B i I
26:36
appreciate y'all for even giving me this
26:38
opportunity also for for giving um the
26:42
people an opportunity some people never
26:44
even met a therapist never talked to a
26:45
therapist and and never heard this could
26:47
be scary like what's therapy what is
26:49
that that could be very scary for people
26:50
so shout out to y'all for even you know
26:52
bringing me on and giving me this opport
26:54
you get a lot of good response off air
26:55
too a bunch man bunch yeah great
26:58
response yeah give out your email too
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for the people who's hitting me saying
27:01
they don't they're not on I um you know
27:04
Yeah facebook they're on Facebook uh
27:06
Yeah yep email me at
27:10
davidweberlpcgmail.com that's David
27:12
Weberlpcmail.com
27:14
to the Weber family Mr and Mrs weber i
27:17
hopefully I'm I could come over and eat
27:19
one day wow y'all got big meals cuz
27:22
y'all got big kids
27:25
you being greedy all the way from Cali
27:27
no man i know they cook that i know how
27:30
they pops was too man oh so that's why
27:33
you giving them the subscription it's
27:35
like a down payment on the free meals
27:37
that's all it is i want that
27:39
subscription let me know how you know
27:42
how pops is you got to bring something
27:44
to the table son
27:46
we ain't going to just feed you what are
27:47
you bringing to the table
27:49
keep their father remind me of stuff you
27:53
know my
27:54
grandfather you know you know right oh
27:57
you don't you never met their father if
27:59
you heard the stories remind me of my
28:01
grandfather yeah the way the way he
28:03
raised y'all shout out to C Web and
28:04
Erica shout out to them as well always
28:06
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