5 Lessons To Live By - Dr. Wayne Dyer (Truly Inspiring) Best Motivational Speech

5 Lessons To Live By - Dr. Wayne Dyer (Truly Inspiring) Speaker: Dr. Wayne Dyer Wayne Dyer 5 Principles: 1. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. 2. There are no justified resentments 3. What you think is what you become 4. Be open to everything and attached to nothing 5. Don't die with music still in you. when you change the way you look at things the things you look at change Albert Einstein once observed that the most fundamental and major decision that you have to make in your life is this do I live in a friendly or a hostile universe which is it is it a universe that is filled with hostility and anger and people wanting to hate each other and people wanting to kill each other is that what you see because when you see the world that way that's exactly what you will create for yourself in your life this is from great scientific minds and the interesting thing is that this is not just a a clever play on words that when you change the way you look at things the things you look at change I'd like you to imagine the following scene you're in your house you've got your car keys in your hand the lights go out power failure you can't see a thing you stumble around in your living room and you drop your keys and you look around for a moment and you realize that you're never going to find them in the dark but you look outside and you notice that the street lights are on so in your mind a light bulb goes off hmm I'm not going to sit around here in the dark and grope around looking for my keys when there's a light on outside I'm going to go out here under the street light I'm going to look for my keys why are you laughing this this makes a lot of sense so you're out here and you're groping around and you're looking for your keys and you're looking and looking and your neighbor comes along and says what happened wait well um I dropped my keys oh I'll help you look for it and the two of us are now down here looking for our keys looking finally he says to me excuse me but where did you drop your keys well um I dropped them in the house he said you mean to tell me that you dropped your keys in the house and you're looking for them out here in the street light doesn't make any sense and I said well it doesn't make an assistant rope around in the dark when there's light out here now you laugh and you think how silly that is but isn't that exactly what we do when we have a problem a difficulty a struggle that is located inside and we're looking for the solution outside some place outside of ourselves it would be like going to the doctor and telling him all of your symptoms and the doctor says oh boy you've got a lot of symptoms and he starts writing out prescriptions you need a prescription for this symptom you need a prescription for that symptom and finally he gets this four or five and you go to walk out and you say well I'd like my prescriptions he said no no no I'll give this one to your mother-in-law and I'll give this one to your neighbor and I'll give this one to your daughter and I'll give this one to your father I mean you're the one with the struggles and with the difficulties expecting somebody else to change or something outside of you to get better in order for you to make your life work is something you have to really take a hard look at it's in here this is a very difficult principle for many people to get but one that I believe very strongly [Music] I was in a group one time of drug addicts and alcoholics and the sign on the wall said there are no Justified resentments in this group what I said to that group that that night was no matter what anybody says to you here no matter what kind of uh anger comes directed towards you no matter how much hate you may encounter showing up in your life there are no Justified resentments meaning that if you carry around resentment inside of you about anything or about anyone and I'm talking about the person that you lent money to and hasn't paid you back I'm talking about the person in your life that you feel was abusive in your life I'm talking about the person who walked out on you and left you for somebody else I'm talking about all of the things that you have justified in your heart and in your life that you have the right to be resentful about and I'm suggesting to you that those resentments will always end up harming you and creating in you a sense of Despair no one ever dies from a snake bite snake bite will never kill you you cannot be unbitten once you're bitten you're bitten but it's the Venom that continues to pour through your system after the bite that will end up destroying you there are many ways to get the things that we want fo