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tips for keeping your sanity when facing
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wedding day problems no one said that
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planning a wedding would be easy but
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sometimes things can go wrong that you
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from bright zilla meltdowns to last
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minute disasters these problems can
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cause a lot of stress on what is
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supposed to be one of the happiest days
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make sure you are prepared for any
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possible issue that could arise on your
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wedding day and have a plan be ready to
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go in case of emergency tips for keeping
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your sanity when facing wedding day
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problems one of the most common wedding
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day problems is the bridezilla meltdown
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the bride-to-be can get so caught up in
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the details and the stress of the day
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that she completely loses her cool
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if you see this happening try to step in
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and calm her down or offer to take care
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of some of the tasks that are giving her
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anxiety it's also important to remind
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the bride that this is supposed to be a
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happy occasion and that everything will
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work out in the end another common
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problem is last minute disasters
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something always seems to go wrong at
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the 11th hour whether it's a vendor
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cancelling bad weather or even a family
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again try to stay calm and have a backup
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plan ready to go it's also a good idea
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to have a wedding day emergency kit on
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hand just in case something does go
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this should include items like a first
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aid kit snacks and drinks extra makeup
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and anything else you might need in a
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pinch no matter what problems arise on
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your big day try to stay calm and
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remember that this is supposed to be a
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happy occasion with a little preparation
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and some help from your friends and
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family you can get through anything
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is it normal to be unhappy on your
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wedding day it's not unusual to feel a
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little bit anxious or even stressed on
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after all this is a huge event that
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you've been planning for months or even
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years and there's a lot riding on it
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however if you find yourself feeling
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completely overwhelmed or unhappy on
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your big day it might be time to take a
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step back and reassess your expectations
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maybe you're feeling disappointed
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because things aren't going exactly as
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you planned or maybe you're just
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realizing that this isn't the fairy tale
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wedding you always dreamed of
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whatever the reason it's important to
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remember that your wedding day is about
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more than just the details it's about
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celebrating your love for each other and
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beginning your life together how do you
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get over a ruined wedding day if your
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wedding day ends up being a complete
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disaster it can be hard to know how to
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pick yourself back up again
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first of all try to remember that it's
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not the end of the world and that you
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can still have a happy and fulfilling
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marriage even if your wedding day wasn't
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perfect it might also help to talk to
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someone who's been through a similar
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sometimes it's helpful to hear that
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you're not alone and that things will
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eventually get better
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talking to a therapist or counselor can
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also be helpful if you're having a hard
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time dealing with your emotions in the
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end the most important thing is to focus
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on your relationship with your spouse
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if you can do that then the wedding day
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problems will eventually start to fade
