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host. My parents never loved me. Well,
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that's not entirely true. They loved my
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brother and I was just a bonus. The kind
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of bonus you get with a combo meal that
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you don't really want but have to pay
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for anyway. Growing up, I had two sets
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of rules. One for my brother and one for
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me. And let me tell you, they were not
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created equal. Quick cut to a shot of a
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family photo with one child's face
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blurred out. Today I'm finally sharing
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how I got my revenge at my own wedding.
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And trust me, it was a long time coming.
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Music fades as the tone shifts to be
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more intimate and serious.
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The golden child and the scapegoat. From
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the moment I was born, my brother, let's
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call him Moski, was the son my parents
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orbited. And I I was the asteroid just
0:57
floating around, occasionally getting in
0:59
the way. All Moski had to do was say the
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words. Lily did it, and I was done for.
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It didn't matter what I was doing, where
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I was, or even if I was in a different
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zip code. The punishment was swift and
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brutal. I remember when I was seven, he
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told them I'd broken one of his model
1:19
airplanes. I'd been at a friend's house
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all afternoon, but that didn't matter. I
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was sent to my room without dinner, no
1:27
questions asked. Cut to a simple
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handdrawn animation of a small girl with
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a sad face looking out a window as a
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meal is being eaten in the background.
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And if Moski did something wrong, I'd
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still get punished. If I caught him
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red-handed, I was the one who got in
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trouble for not minding my own business.
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Even my own celebrations were hijacked.
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my high school graduation dinner. They
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took us to Mosky's favorite seafood
1:51
restaurant despite knowing I was
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allergic to shellfish. My dad, without a
1:55
hint of irony, told me, "You can order a
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salad." For a long time, I just wanted
2:00
to be ignored. But as we got older, his
2:03
entitled behavior evolved into something
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I became his personal punching bag,
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covered in bruises from his random acts
2:11
of aggression. The tables turn, or so I
2:14
thought. Everything changed in middle
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school. Mosski's friends gradually
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disappeared. They either moved away or
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more likely finally realized what a
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He became a social outcast, a fact I
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only discovered because we went to the
2:29
same school. I, on the other hand, was
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generally well-liked. I wasn't the most
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popular kid, but I had genuine friends.
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Cut to a photo of the host with her
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This difference made me an even bigger
2:44
target. He started making up elaborate
2:47
stories to get me grounded. My parents
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would parrot his lines, saying things
2:51
like, "Why can't you be happy staying
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home like your brother?" And if I dared
2:55
to defend myself, they'd hit me with,
2:58
"He's older and knows better." My only
3:01
saving grace was my cousins.
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They were my lifeline.
3:06
My only connection to a world where I
3:08
wasn't just my brother's punching bag.
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One day, I finally spilled the truth to
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them. I told them my parents had banned
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me from having friends because Moski
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couldn't keep any. That comment spread
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through my extended family like
3:23
wildfire. A graphic of a phone with text
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messages and a gossip icon flashes on
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screen. My aunt Sarah confronted my mom
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and I got grounded for weeks for lying.
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But something had shifted. The damage to
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their perfect family image couldn't be
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reversed. And because everyone now knew
3:43
about his social failures, my parents
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pulled Moski out of that school and put
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him in a more expensive one. Still, he
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never forgave me for exposing him. If
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anything, his mistreatment intensified,
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and it wasn't just him anymore. He and
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his new friends would come over and
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bully me together. My mom would just
4:03
smile indulgently, saying, "Boys will be
4:05
boys, sweetie. They're just having fun.
4:08
The boyfriend test and a revelation.
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Things stayed the same until I turned 16
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and got my first boyfriend, Tyler. My
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parents, in a rare show of interest,
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insisted on meeting him. My dad said,
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"We have to make sure he's good enough
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for our little girl." I was skeptical,
4:26
but Tyler wanted to meet them, so I gave
4:28
in. That's when I found out how truly
4:30
depraved my brother was.
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My boyfriend found me in a panic and
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whispered, "I don't want to freak you
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out, but your brother just hit on me."
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He said I was wasting my time with you
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and that he could show me a better time.
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He like touched my arm and winked.
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The host looks genuinely shocked and a
4:50
little disgusted. My brother had told my
4:53
parents a completely different story,
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claiming Tyler had made inappropriate
4:57
advances toward him. My parents, of
4:59
course, believed him without question.
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My father pounded the table, screaming.
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Are you calling your brother a liar? He
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was in tears, Lily. Tears. The thing is,
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I believed Tyler instantly. Moski was
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not the cat he thought he was. My
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parents and brother were all
5:14
significantly overweight, a result of my
5:16
parents showing love through excessive
5:18
food. Moski especially was pampered. I,
5:22
on the other hand, was naturally thin,
5:24
partly because food deprivation was a
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Considering my brother's entitled
5:30
attitude and awful behavior, even my
5:32
insecure teenage self, couldn't imagine
5:34
my boyfriend would risk our relationship
5:36
for someone like him. My parents banned
5:38
me from seeing Tyler. This exact same
5:41
scenario happened with my next
5:43
boyfriend. When I pointed out the
5:45
pattern, my parents decided I just had
5:47
terrible judgment in men and kept
5:49
choosing predatory boys. So, I gave up
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on high school relationships.
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My brother, meanwhile, proudly paraded
5:57
around his one and only boyfriend, whom
5:59
my parents treated like royalty.
6:02
But when that guy suddenly stopped
6:03
coming around, the narrative immediately
6:06
shifted to him being a manipulative jerk
6:08
who took advantage of my poor brother.
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The escape plan. The double standards
6:14
continued in every aspect of my life.
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Moski had generous spending money and a
6:19
lenient curfew while I was restricted
6:21
and monitored. When I called them out,
6:23
they'd either deny ever making the age
6:26
argument or claim I simply couldn't be
6:27
trusted like he could. When Moski
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graduated high school, he got into a
6:31
mediocre college with no scholarships or
6:33
honors. My parents threw him an enormous
6:36
celebration, gushing about how proud
6:38
they were. They promised to cover all
6:39
his expenses, including a private
6:41
off-campus apartment. I was secretly
6:43
relieved he'd be moving away, but it
6:45
barely improved my situation since he
6:47
came home most weekends to create new
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About a year later, my mom sat me down
6:52
for a serious talk about my own upcoming
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She explained that since they were
6:58
funding Mosky's education, they couldn't
7:00
afford mine. She suggested I get a job,
7:03
and if I wanted to continue living at
7:05
home, I'd have to pay rent and
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"We just want you to learn
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responsibility," she said with that fake
7:13
concerned expression she perfected.
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Moski is pursuing higher education, but
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you've always been more practically
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The host shakes her head with a rise
7:23
smile. They had no idea what my grades
7:26
were. They never believed in my
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So, I just calmly responded, "Okay."
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She seemed shocked by my lack of
7:36
reaction, probably hoping I'd throw a
7:38
tantrum so they could justify never
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The truth is, I never expected their
7:45
help. I'd been secretly preparing for
7:48
college independently, using all those
7:50
lonely hours at home to study
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College was my only escape route. My
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guidance counselor, Mrs. Peterson,
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helped me navigate applications and
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scholarships without my parents
8:04
When graduation approached, I secured a
8:06
full academic scholarship to a solid
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Knowing my brother would try to sabotage
8:13
it, I announced my acceptance on social
8:15
media simultaneously with telling them
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in person. A screenshot of a positive
8:20
Facebook post about getting a
8:22
scholarship is shown on screen.
8:24
Initially, they seemed proud and boasted
8:26
about it, but then Moski got to them and
8:28
they started asking if I was sure I
8:30
wanted to go, claiming Moski was
8:32
struggling academically and since he had
8:34
better judgment, I would obviously fail
8:38
I stood my ground and they reluctantly
8:40
accepted they couldn't stop me without
8:42
looking terrible to everyone who had
8:44
congratulated me online. College became
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The husband and the plan. My story truly
8:52
gets interesting when I met my husband,
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let's call him Ian, during my junior
8:57
year of college. He sat next to me in
8:59
economics class on the first day and his
9:02
quick wit and confidence immediately
9:06
He was my complete opposite in handling
9:09
Where I'm non-confrontational,
9:11
he's strategic and calm. A split screen
9:15
of the host looking stressed and a man
9:17
looking calm and thoughtful appears. He
9:19
was the first person I truly opened up
9:21
to about my family. When I described my
9:23
childhood, he said something that hit me
9:25
like a revelation. That's not normal.
9:28
That's abuse, Lily. You deserve better.
9:31
When we decided to get married, we
9:33
agreed on a modest ceremony since we
9:35
wanted to splurge on a dream European
9:39
We decided to hold the wedding in my
9:40
hometown, and after sending out
9:42
engagement announcements, my parents
9:45
demanded to meet Ian. The host grins
9:50
My husband was practically giddy with
9:53
He'd heard so many stories about my
9:55
family's treatment of me that he was
9:57
ready for a fight. He even purchased a
9:59
high-quality voice recorder to secretly
10:01
document whatever nonsense they might
10:03
try. He went alone despite my
10:06
reservations. He came back absolutely
10:10
Babe, you won't believe what they
10:12
proposed. We can absolutely destroy them
10:15
with this. According to the recording,
10:18
my parents and Moski had offered to
10:20
contribute financially to our wedding on
10:21
one outrageous condition.
10:24
Moski would walk down the aisle before
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me wearing a tuxedo identical to Ian's,
10:28
be featured prominently in the wedding
10:30
photos, and have his own special cake.
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My mom's voice on the recording. We're
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willing to help with the wedding costs,
10:37
but Moski has always dreamed of being in
10:40
a wedding. My dad's voice. It's not
10:44
proper for a younger sibling to marry
10:45
first, so this would give him the
10:47
experience he deserves. And Moskis, I've
10:51
even picked out the tux I want. It
10:53
should match yours exactly so we look
10:55
like a matched set in photos. My
10:57
husband, in his calm, strategic way,
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knew exactly what to do. He told them he
11:03
would need to test the waters with me,
11:05
but that he personally saw no issue.
11:07
Then he suggested they surprise me on
11:09
the wedding day since I hate
11:12
He cleverly used their own accusations
11:14
against me, convincing them that I
11:16
checked his phone and monitored his
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It's just easier if we keep this
11:21
arrangement verbal. He said on the
11:23
recording. She'd be devastated if she
11:26
found out before the wedding.
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My mom understandingly said Mosky's ex
11:32
was the same way. So controlling. We
11:36
understand completely.
11:38
Thus began months of elaborate deception
11:41
where my parents and brother thought
11:43
they were manipulating us while we
11:45
milked them for all they were worth. The
11:47
grand finale. We called it back payments
11:50
for emotional damages. A triumphant
11:52
upbeat song starts playing in the
11:54
background. My parents insisted on
11:56
controlling wedding details, but my
11:58
husband would play on my brother's
11:59
insecurities. He'd mention how
12:01
unfortunate it was that we couldn't
12:03
afford the luxury options, and Moski
12:05
would immediately demand my parents
12:06
upgrade us to the most expensive option.
12:09
This continued with the photographer,
12:11
the flowers, the venue, everything. We
12:14
ended up with an extravagant wedding
12:15
that would have been completely beyond
12:17
our means, all funded by my parents.
12:20
On our wedding day, their secret plan
12:22
was for Moski to arrive just as everyone
12:24
was seated. The doors would open. He'd
12:27
walk down the aisle in his identical
12:29
tuxedo, and it would be too late for me
12:31
to object. But we had a plan of our own.
12:35
We hired professional security and
12:37
positioned a large, intimidating guard
12:39
at the door with one specific
12:40
instruction. Do not admit my brother
12:43
under any circumstances. As the bridal
12:45
music began, my dad received a text that
12:48
Moski was almost there. He signaled my
12:51
bridesmaids to start and positioned
12:53
himself to walk me down the aisle. But
12:55
as the doors opened, I appeared. My
12:59
dad's face drained of color. He looked
13:02
utterly shocked to see me. A dramatic
13:05
slow motion shot of the host in her
13:07
wedding dress smiling.
13:09
His phone started ringing. It was Moski,
13:13
my dad mumbled. Something came up and
13:16
abandoned me at the altar to answer it.
13:19
The guests gasped in confusion. My
13:22
father-in-law, who we had prepared for
13:23
this possibility, rushed over and took
13:25
my arm. He said loudly for everyone to
13:28
hear. I'd be honored to walk you down
13:32
His obvious concern made me smile
13:34
through my tears. The ceremony proceeded
13:37
perfectly. The entire time, people kept
13:39
disappearing and returning with shocked
13:41
expressions, but no one dared tell me
13:43
what had happened. My brother had
13:45
arrived wearing a tuxedo identical to my
13:47
husband's, but our security guard had
13:49
refused him entry. My dad came out and
13:52
threatened to call the police. The guard
13:54
calmly agreed, knowing it would be too
13:56
late to disrupt our ceremony.
13:59
My friend, who was in on the plan,
14:01
arrived and created a scene, loudly
14:03
demanding an explanation.
14:06
My mother joined, followed by curious
14:08
guests, their plan now exposed.
14:11
My husband was summoned outside and
14:13
played his most bewildered expression.
14:16
What are you talking about? Why would I
14:18
want anyone else walking down the aisle
14:22
When they insisted he had agreed to it,
14:24
he demanded proof. And of course, there
14:28
My brother had a complete meltdown,
14:30
sitting on the ground, crying and
14:33
screaming like a toddler.
14:35
It was supposed to be my day, too. He
14:40
My father reportedly lunged at my
14:43
husband, yelling, "You lying piece of
14:46
garbage. You said she wouldn't make a
14:48
scene." My husband's response was calm.
14:51
"And I find it disturbing that you
14:52
apparently planned to hijack our wedding
14:54
without my fiance's knowledge or
14:58
No one at the wedding believed their
15:00
story. They were eventually forced to
15:02
leave with my dad literally dragging my
15:04
screaming brother off the ground.
15:07
The music swells as the host smiles at
15:11
We danced, cut our beautiful cake, and
15:14
soaked in the love from everyone who
15:16
truly cared about us.
15:19
Afterward, my parents and brother
15:21
bombarded me with calls which I ignored.
15:24
My brother eventually sent unhinged text
15:26
messages blaming me and calling my
15:28
husband a two-faced snake.
15:31
My brilliant husband compiled all the
15:33
evidence, screenshots of their
15:34
harassment, call logs, threatening
15:36
messages, and shared it in our extended
15:39
family group chat. He maintained his
15:41
innocence and publicly begged my family
15:43
to help stop the harassment that was
15:45
ruining our honeymoon. And with that, my
15:48
extended family had a come to Jesus
15:50
conversation with my parents.
15:52
While I would have preferred having
15:54
loving family support at my wedding, for
15:56
once in my life, they not only failed to
15:59
ruin something important to me, but I
16:01
actually got my revenge. And it was