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you've got to be their biggest
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cheerleader and help them to actually
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reach their goals but then trust that
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they know how they they can do it too so
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an example of that is my son our entire
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lives he wanted to be a doctor we were
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very excited my husband had always
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wanted to be a doctor and didn't get
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that opportunity so of course we started
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Living our expectation and dreams
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through our child and um yeah and so he
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that was always that was always the plan
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and then his freshman year he took a
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computer science class and then changed
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his major and called and was so excited
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and I was not excited and Ne was my
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husband and we were like but you said
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you were going to be a doctor and so I
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really had to sit back and stop making
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it about me you know I just trusted that
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he would find his way and that he would
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know what was the best for him and I
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think if we as parents just try to do
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that and give them the freedom to know
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that it's their life it's their journey
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and we're just we're just there to help
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them then it's going to be a lot better
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than if we keep imposing what we think
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they should be or what we expect them to
