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Ready for a Baby? But Not for Marriage?Jhene Aiko and Big Sean as case study
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Jun 5, 2025
Join us as we dive into the complex love story of Jhene Aiko and Big Sean, exploring the implications of bringing a child into the world without the security of marriage. While Jhene embodies the spirit of a modern woman, her recent motherhood raises critical questions about commitment and relationships. Is love enough, or should we prioritize commitment before starting a family? In this video, we unpack the dynamics of modern relationships, the pressures women face, and why it's essential to consider your worth before embarking on the journey of motherhood. Tune in for a conversation that empowers women to seek the love and respect they truly deserve. #feminism #SelfImprovement #MentalHealth #Mindset #Youtuber #wellbeing
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hello everyone welcome to son delicius
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today we are diving into a topic that's
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crucial for women to understand in the
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realm of relationships and that is the
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importance of not having
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children with men who aren't fully
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committed to marriage we'll be
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discussing the story of Jano and Big
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Sean's case as a case study um so
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especially in the light of recent rumors
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about their relationship and Big Sean
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claiming that he's not ready for
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marriage so let's Jump Right
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In okay let's let's talk about the
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reality of
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relationships you know the the Dynamics
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and everything in a world where societal
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Norms are evolving is essential to
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recognize that not every relationship
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leads to the
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altar Jen AO and Big Sean's Journey has
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been closely followed and while they've
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recently welcomed a very beautiful
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beautiful baby together there have been
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some unsettling rumors suggesting that
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big sea isn't ready for
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marriage this this situation opens up a
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vital discussion about the implications
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of having children without a committed
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relationship you know and for woman it's
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it's crucial to assess the level of
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commitment from their Partners before
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taking such a drastic step like having a
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child you know so when a woman brings a
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child into the world with someone who is
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not committed to her in a serious way
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and I mean who's not married to her it
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can lead to so many things it can lead
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to so many
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complications um financially emotionally
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and even socially so women need to
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prioritize their well-being and that of
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their future children by being
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Discerning about who they choose to
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build a future worth who they choose to
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build a family worth you know I mean I
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think we've
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all heard this
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phrase Why by the car when you can get
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the milk for
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free oh my God that St like a bee why
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buy the cow when you can get milk for
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free in relationships this Rings
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painfully true if a man is getting all
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the benefits of a relationship and I'm
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talking about intimacy support and now a
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child without the commitment of marriage
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it can send so many mixed signals about
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his intentions you know so J AO and Big
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Sean situation exemplifies this reality
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while they may love each other and have
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created a beautiful life together
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it it's still not enough it's still not
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enough it is not enough the lady needs
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to to to to be protected in a union
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in a union of a long life term and that
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is marriage you know so if Big Sean has
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expressed um resistance about marriage
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it now raises questions about what does
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that now mean for
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Jano what does that mean for her and
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their child woman must ask themsel is
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this the kind of a relationship I want
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to invest in and my question for both of
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them is guys are you willing to to to
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put to raise a child in a situation
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where the father is not fully
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committed what why are we normalizing
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this why are we normalizing this and one
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of the dangers of relationships without
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commitment is the risk of conditional
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love when a partner is not fully
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invested it can lead um it can lead to a
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dynamic Make Way Love Now feels so
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transactional you know so with genetico
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she may
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feel she may feel and find herself in a
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position where her value is measured by
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how much she provides you know rather
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than the unconditional love that comes
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with a commit a
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commitment you know that comes with a
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committed
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relationship so woman must be very
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cautious not to fall into this trap of
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thinking that having a child will
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strengthen the
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relationship before before you have a
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child because you think it's going to
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strengthen relationship ask yourself how
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many baby mamas are out there how many
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baby mamas are out there ladies we
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cannot keep doing this to ourselves and
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this
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this thing that I'm talking about having
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a child because you think it will
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strength the relationship all it does is
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to complicate matters even worse it it
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complicates things worse and even
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further especially if the father is not
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on board with the idea of a lifelong
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partnership so a commit a commitment to
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to marriage should preedee the decision
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to having children otherwise women may
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find themselves navigating a very Rocky
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Road filled with uncertainty let's not
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forget the most important factor in this
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discussion the
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children the children they deserve a
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stable environment where both parents
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are committed to each other and to them
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as
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well so bringing a child into a
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relationship without a solid foundation
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can have a longlasting effects on the
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emotional and psychological wellbeing so
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just think of the damage that you'll be
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creating to to to you you'll be
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afflicting to this new human being who
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just came onto Earth who didn't even ask
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to be born so yeah man we we need to we
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need to be very considerate before
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making
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these um hasty decisions which involves
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us having children with men who un
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married to
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us so as I was going through my my my
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research when I was busy making this
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video I came across a study and it had
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been shown that children thrive in homes
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where there is a committed partnership
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between parents you know and I'm not
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only talking about thriving just like
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thriving thriving in life in general I'm
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talking about in school and they their
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grades would improve so much so imagine
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what a stable home can do for your
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children not only to make them happy but
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also
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academically so yeah man let's just be
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considerate of the children that we
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bring into this world let's not just
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make children with people just because
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we love them but do these people want to
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be with us are these people seeing a
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future with us us you know these are the
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type of questions we should be asking
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ourselves
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and when one parent is unsure or
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unwilling to make a commitment it can
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create an environment of in instability
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Confusion And even resentment and you
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don't want your child to be in such an
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environment and women women must weigh
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the potential consequences for their
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children when deciding to have kids
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outside of a committed relationship you
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know so ultimately um the choice to have
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children is truly a deep personal one
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and it should come with careful
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consideration as woman we we have the
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power we have the power to Define what
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we want in our lives and what we want in
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our relationships so it's so vital to
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remember that being a mother is
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is a sacred role that deserves respect
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and
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commitment it's it's very sacred it's
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very sacred and guys we all know J AO is
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a remarkable woman who has made a
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significant change and contributions to
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to music and art you know
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so
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however her current situation with Big
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Sean serves as a reminder that no matter
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how successful or loving a relationship
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may seem it's very essential to ensure
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that both partners are on the same page
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regarding the future I mean Jana already
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has one child um whom Big Sean found
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with she raised this child with so much
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love and we need to we need to call it
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like it is the child grew up in
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an
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unstable family where she could have
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grew besides both the parents raising
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her Under One Roof and now for Jano to
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to be at the risk of having a child
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again go through the same thing again oh
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man I think big Shaw needs to do good by
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this woman he needs to he needs to
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really do good by by her and yeah man I
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I hope I hope for the best for their
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relationship I hope
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they I don't know mean I don't know but
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I'm just hoping that they don't break up
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over some silly things
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and for their love to grow for their
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love to grow so Ladies as we reflect on
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J Echo and Big Sean's Journey let's
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remember The Importance of Being
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Discerning about the relationships we
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enter and the decisions we make
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regarding motherhood so please never
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settle for less than what you deserve
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commitments matter they really do matter
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and for your future and that of your
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children they they they matter so I
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think I've said a lot now
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and
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wow wow I think not I think I mean I
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hope you've taken for yourself what you
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you can take from this video but yeah
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guys that's it for now that's it I'm
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done and I just want to thank you I just
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want to thank you so much for joining me
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today and please don't forget to like
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comment section you know until next time
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keep embracing your power Stay s
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delicious stay lovely stay true to
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yourself I repeat and bye-bye toles
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