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one night stands having an affair
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sticking to just one part and not being
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advised these are all considerations
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surprisingly when you're planning a
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cruise vacation though
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not in the way you might expect as
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you're about to discover as i share with
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you the very best cruise advice that i
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can give you if you're new here welcome
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aboard i'm gary bembridge and it's my
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goal to help make it fun and easy to
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discover plan and enjoy unforgettable
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cruise vacations one of the best pieces
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of advice i have about cruising is to
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avoid the cruise equivalent of one night
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and as thrilling as they may appear
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you're unlikely to find the part of your
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dreams on a one-night stand in real life
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and that's true in cruising too taster
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cruisers are the cruise equivalent of
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one night stands these short one or few
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night cruises are supposed to let us try
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out and taste a new cruise line they are
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a terrible way to find out what a cruise
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line is really all about first of all
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the people who are regulars to the
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cruise line don't really go on these
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short-tasted cruises you won't find the
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usual passengers and the mix at best
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they're people like you and me just
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checking the line out but much more
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likely as they're usually priced really
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low it's people seeking a cheap short
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break or a party time and they would
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never normally go on the cruise line we
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actually stopped taking our mothers on
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these taster cruises because we found
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that even on state lines like cunard the
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taste of cruises were getting too loud
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raucous and pretty untypical for them to
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bear in mind that the program is
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designed to show a kind of hyped up
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image of the cruise line it's a sales
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pitch they're going to be showcasing the
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very best parts like the best production
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shows the best quiz shows the best
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cooking displays the best whatever
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i've even been on one taster cruise
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where i discovered the guest
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entertainers book which were a fantastic
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high energy drag show
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they're never ever booked on their
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regular sailings they only had this act
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on because they felt it'd be more
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entertaining for that cruise than their
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usual entertainment which says
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everything so the most i get from these
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taster cruises is to see the ship to see
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the cabins you can't judge what the
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cruise experience will be you can't tell
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what it's going to feel like until
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you're on a cruise line cruising between
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ports with the usual passengers
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so instead of going on a taster cruise
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save time and save money up towards
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going on a proper cruise and do what i
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watch cruise vlogs on youtube so for
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i wanted to know if disney cruise line
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was the right line for me going as an
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adult so instead of booking myself onto
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one of those little taster cruises i
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effectively on a disney cruise by
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watching vlogs and i specifically
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watched sean and steph in real life
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now unfortunately the rather wonderful
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sean has subsequently passed away but
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through their amazing day by day vlogs i
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saw what disney is about and that helped
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me make up my mind and based on that i
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actually booked my first disney cruise
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but i got to experience a true cruise
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through the vlogs have you ever gone
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back to an x in my dating days like most
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people i did but the things that annoyed
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and drove me wild soon
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returned the same is true with cruise
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lines and i've learned that the hard way
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the first cruise line that i ever went
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on was piano cruises it was the only
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line that i used and cruise with for
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many many years for me that was what
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cruising was all about
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now because i'd always wanted to do a
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transatlantic i eventually went on
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cunard and suddenly realized there is so
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and so much more that i found was so
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much better suited to me than piano
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cruises i stopped using piano cruises we
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went our separate ways now piano i
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noticed had been changing they've been
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doing things differently that introduced
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loads of new ships so i decided post
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pandemic to give them a try again
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now unfortunately i found it was just
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like going back to an ex in real life
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the spark wasn't there the things i
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didn't like was still there
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absolutely and utterly didn't work
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i found out and i believe very strongly
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that once you fall out of love with a
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cruise line you shouldn't go back
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because you're likely to find that the
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things that weren't right for you in the
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first place still aren't right as i
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found out with piano cruises so the
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question is then is sticking with what
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always the right thing to do
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after switching to cunard i was enjoying
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the ceremony the style of formality but
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i did keep thinking maybe
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cunard were dependable
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and they were my dependable partner but
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i was tempted to try something exotic
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something different something totally
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not my type something a little bit wild
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and exotic as i said now for me that was
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costa cruises they had flashy new ships
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they sound very italian
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very exciting very relaxed very informal
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the opposite of cunard so i headed off
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and it really wasn't for me it just
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wasn't the experience i wanted i was
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attracted by the glitz the glamour the
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sexiness the difference of it all
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but just found the ships to brash to in
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your face the program to boisterous to
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holiday camp style for me so i wasted my
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time and money having my little fling
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and little affair it just wasn't me it
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didn't have the experience i wanted it
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didn't have the kind of entertainment i
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wanted it didn't have the food options i
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wanted it just wasn't right for me
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so having that left field affair just
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really didn't work out people often ask
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me why i've never been on carnival
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because i know for all their offer and
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do really well for their audience it's
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that fund ship experience is not the
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sort of thing that i want so i exclude
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rather than risk my time
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and my money that's also why for example
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i do relatively limited amounts of trips
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online like norwegian cruise line and
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royal caribbean because fundamentally
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they're not my kind of cruise experience
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they are big resort ships which are just
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kind of not what i enjoy both of those
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of course do some amazing and
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interesting things like go-karts water
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show spectaculars ice skating water
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huge array especially dining but i go
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cruising for different reasons
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trying something different just because
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it sounds very exciting brasher bigger
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it's got lots more new attractions new
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resist that i recommend think very
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carefully about it that thrilling affair
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may not be totally satisfying as i did
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with my costa i could have better spend
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my time and money without getting
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distracted by things that weren't
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fundamentally important to me so what
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should you do if you're tempted about
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trying something new do what i do now
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and use the cruise forums on sites like
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cruise critic and facebook groups set up
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by fans of the line they're really
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really good and excellent for asking
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questions like i'm this type of person i
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like these kind of things
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how would i get on this line would it be
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for me now people in those are more than
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happy to give you their personal
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insights and experiences for example i
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found this really helpful when i was
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looking at going on viking ocean for the
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very first time i found a we love viking
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uk cruises group there's also we love
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viking u.s cruises group and i went in
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there and i started talking to people
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and that really helped me decide viking
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was right for me the trip was a really
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good great great success
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people often rush to try a new ship
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because it is new and it's the latest
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thing without really thinking about the
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line and what's important and i've
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stopped doing that so because people i
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mean they're often really surprised when
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i'm not jumping on the latest ship like
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when piano iona launched or kind of a
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mardi gras i started selling and this is
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a flashlight ship is no substitute for a
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more meaningful trip on a line that
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better suits me doesn't mean i recommend
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you stick to one line once you've found
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one that you like and just not take any
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risk at all in the real world of course
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sticking with one partner is highly
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valued and it's the right thing to do
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when it comes to dating however what
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about in cruising i had a revelation on
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this through all the experiences that
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i've spoken about so far you know the
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one-night stands the affairs all that
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uh what i realized is there's always
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someone i'd much rather go to a big rave
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party with a different person i'd much
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rather go hiking with
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or to a fancy restaurant with or
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somebody else who might be better
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company to go to the theater or
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something cultural with so that's why
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what is your favorite cruise line i find
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it very difficult to answer because i
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learned through my piano and q knot
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experience that only having one faithful
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is probably not the actual way to go
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when it comes to cruising i have now a
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few lines that meet my key needs and i
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choose which one to use
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and which one to go with depending
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entirely on what i'm doing so for
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when i go to alaska i prefer to go on
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either princess orlando america holland
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america have been cruising there for
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something like 70 years princess for
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those are the experts in the area they
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get the best births they get into
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glacier bay they have fantastic
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relationships in all the ports they have
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their expertise they have alaska kind of
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in their veins this is why my next
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alaska trip for example is booked on
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princess if i'm going on an expedition
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cruise for example to antarctica or the
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arctic i value and rate you know having
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an incredible expedition team as really
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really key now i found those on silversy
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to be absolutely outstanding on my trips
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there now although they're expensive
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versus some alternative options they're
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always my first choice for expeditions
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and so for example for my first
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galapagos trip i book with them i'm not
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going on one of the other cruise lines
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that i also like for other types of
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if i'm looking to cross the atlantic i
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will always gravitate back towards
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cunard and do the full traditional
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transatlantic rather than kind of a
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repositioning cruise which of course is
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much cheaper and there are many more
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options for me the whole sense of
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experience on the queue queen mary 2 is
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part of what i want to do when i cross
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the atlantic so that's why i would
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choose that line but i wouldn't choose
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cunard for other trips
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them on different trips and there are
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other cruise lines that perhaps are
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better to do the mediterranean in or the
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caribbean in so i don't just default to
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one particular cruise line so if i am
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going to the caribbean or the
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mediterranean i focus on premium mid and
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small size lines that cater for me like
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celebrity honda america or much more
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like oceania and azamara because they
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tend to have the most interesting
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itineraries in the caribbean
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it's not about rigidly sticking to one
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line but i like to have a small select
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choice group of favorites that i then
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take based on who will be the best and
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the most fun to take me where i'm going
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you know i meet many many people on
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cruises which is fantastic but they
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will only go on say princess or seabourn
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or region seven seas or celebrity and
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they will never try another line which
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is great it's one option however
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when you're traveling to many different
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parts of the world different lines have
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different expertise different
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experiences different ports of core
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different relationships that could
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provide a better experience so i feel
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that a small select group
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loyal kind of friends that you know you
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can have a great time with
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feels like the right way to go now as
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you think about that once you watch this
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video of the nine best cruises in the
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world you should be doing and taking
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because they sell out really fast with
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that has the most bragging rights
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find out which it is and i'll see you