It's painful to be bullied.

um we don't talk we don't

talk enough about

how painful

bullying really feels being bullied

really feels

like because most people can only speak

from

seeing okay how Bullies Are but they

they they can't speak from a place of

having

experienced uh

bullying it's so dark it's so deep it's

so

painful it's so painful to be

bullied it's so painful

to to be bullied because here is the

someone you are

clearly scared off and they treat you

this bad

and you just want to end it you just

want to end your

life you just want to end your life

because this just this person who makes

your life so difficult who makes your

life difficult I don't know I don't know

it's it's it's very bad it's very bad

it's it's very bad what happens when you

are being bullied it does something it's

it's another type of abuse that it cuts

very deep and I do not

understand I don't understand why it

cuts that deep why does it hurt so much

when people who don't even know us they

really us and it cuts us that deep it's

as if like we are

expecting them to treat us a certain way

but they don't they would rather just

treat us bad or do all of those things

but it's very deep and this is one of

the reasons why there are so many cases

of children who commit suicide um

because of bullying I remember just um

years back here in South Africa

there was this young beautiful

girl um I don't remember her name but

she was pretty and very dark

skinned um it it has been said that she

was one of the students at school

learners who were doing good

academically and there was this video of

her um that was

circulating her bullies were bullying

her doing all these things to her I

don't remember what they were accusing

her of

doing and I'm I'm

hearing that it was it was something

that always happened to her by the same

people and after that video

trended she

later and it didn't even take so many so

many days it it hasb been said that she

just committed

suicide because she just could not take

the bullying

anymore and then that young girl she

just bullied she was bullied to death

yeah bullied to

death she couldn't take it anymore and

this is not the first case that I've

heard there was this other one from I

don't know where in America but I heard

that they even did it on on YouTube like

they they did it on YouTube on a YouTube

video I don't know was it live or what I

don't know if it's YouTube or whatever

um a platform out there and they just

ended their life after crying and

talking about how they are being bullied

and how they just want to end their

lives and they just ended their

life just like that because of bullying

So I myself a I've also experienced

bullying

and

it it it's another type of pain it's

another type of pain it's so dark it

makes you just want to end your life and

even when you look when you see your

your

bully your day just

becomes different you could have been

having the best day of your life but as

soon as you see one of your

booies you lose it you lose that spark

you lose that happiness and you

just are now becoming so sad you just

got reminded that there's this person

who's existing and you just want to you

just want

to be out of that reality where you're

going to be seeing this person's face

and this is

why some people just decide

to cut the road of life so short and

they just commit suicide

because the pain is too deep it feels

like no one is coming to save you

because yes they are bullying you but

how are you even going to explain that

you're being bullied what are you going

to say is happening to you you don't

most of the time you don't even have

scuss show you know it's easy to to to

to win a case and I'm not when I say

case I'm not talking about a case in

court but also just at your school in

your principal's office it's it's easy

to to to win that little

Case by saying look at what they did to

me look at what they did to me now your

principal is like okay now you see what

we're working with stop doing this now

they involve parents but if you don't

have anything if you don't have if you

don't have anything to show show that

this person is mistreating

you people who are not in your situation

they might just see that as something

that can just easily be resolved or

something that's just going to pass or

maybe no they're just kids they're doing

this they'll grow out of it but they

don't understand the thing

with with bullying is that it's it's not

always physical but most of the time

it's most

emotional

and

psychological

and it's it's it's painful that way

because it gives you this G that you

can't even

pinpoint and it's so hard healing scar

like that cuz how are you going to heal

something that you don't even see how

are you going to heal that so man I

think it's very important that we

we talk more about

this this dark Deep thing that happens

to people who are experiencing bullying

what it does to them how it changes the

way they see life their own life reality

and the world and how they feel like

they are alone and there's no one who's

coming to save them and I mean Big Ups

to the parents I see teaching their

children to stand up for themselves I

think that's the best thing you can do

honestly that's the best thing you can

do because you're not always going to be

there for your children at school you're

not always 24/7 next to your children

sometimes you're at work you're at home

and they're at school you don't even

know what's happening to your to your

children they're in school in classes

there by the toilets there by the

passages you don't know what's happening

so it's very important that you as a

parent you also teach your child to

stand up for themselves I don't know how

you're going to do that but find a way

to to also remind your child that um if

somebody's bullying them your child must

never ever feel like there's no one to

save them let them know

that they must tell you if they being

bullied and you will deal with the bully

you will deal with the bully and when

that opportunity is presented to you to

deal with the bully please deal with the

bully in front of your child I don't

know how you're going to do that I'm not

seeing hurt somebody else's child but do

something that makes sure that the bully

is not going to bully your child anymore

I don't know I don't know what you're

going to do I don't know how you're

going to fix that but if you don't have

the luxury the freedom to take your

child to a new school just I don't know

but the best thing is to obviously take

your child from that school to a new

school that's the best thing you can do

because the thing with bullies is yes

parents might be in the office and they

have they may have resolved this but

then the bully is always going to give

your child a look like I'm not done with

you even bring parents into this whole

situation I'm going to show you who I am

Friday after school now you've kind of

made things worse for your child so

taking a child out of the school is

always the best thing you can do but if

you don't have the luxury I don't know

how you're going to do it

but just do something do something and

make sure that your child sees you doing

something so that your child remembers

that they are never alone and somebody

gets them and someone is going to fight

for them this will help your child to

not feel alone this will help your child

to not feel like there's no one who's

going to fight for them there's no one

who sees them and this is going to help

your child to not be one of the children

who end up committing suicide because of

not feeling like somebody is out there

to come and help them someone is out

there to to help um deal with this bully

so yeah man rest in peace to all the the

children not only children and also

adults who ended up committing suicide

because of bully rest in peace and your

souls May rest truly in

peace and yeah man I hope Kama slaps the

bullies I really hope Kama slaps the

bullies and one thing about

Kama it does not forget your address you

don't even have to tell Kama your new

address your karma always knows where to

find you because your karma is

not karma is not a a physical thing

karma is your subconscious mind it's in

your subconscious mind that's why it's

everywhere you go your mind will always

remember what you did and somewh somehow

you're going to attract the things that

are going to make you pay for what you

did to somebody else so yeah man human

beings are such powerful human beings

human beings are such powerful beings um

we can make and we can also destroy

ourselves powerful so yeah man um if

your child is being bullied please do

something about it don't ever think to

yourself This Is Something they'll grow

out of it no do something do

something and this again my

last thing that I wanted to say about

buing so thank you so much guys for

watching and until next time bye and

toodles