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um today i'm chewing on some cranberries
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i'm still you know doing the thing that
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but then also getting to a point where
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i'm trying to find different parts of
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mentality and how those different parts
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of your mentality fit together
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different parts of mentality it allows
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react or interact differently with
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and when you have that amount of power
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really the only power that you need when
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are interacting with either big groups
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of people or one to one
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because to remember everybody is
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themselves to a degree
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so you always have a point of
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relatability also i'm going to segue and
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that i'm still mad that this barber cut
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off my handlebar mustache
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i'm still quite upset about that
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just especially because of his reasoning
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take it in stride because it had already
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and hair grows back even though it's a
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i still decided to wait till the end
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to see the final product and at least
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even though you know i care very much so
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about my handlebar but anyway i'm
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getting back to what i'm speaking on
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so today um i want to speak about the
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another way to look at this that people
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might be familiar with
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is the story of cain and abel or even
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interactions with people especially
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depending on where you are and who you
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the biggest point of power that comes
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are in control of how
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you react to anything as my mother used
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it's not being angry that's the problem
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but it's doing bad things when you're
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angry that's the problem
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so when you're angry using
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that thought process and that feeling
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to move towards something that can
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actually make a difference
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in the situation that's probably one way
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one example of how you could use that
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emotion to your advantage
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versus to your disadvantage like
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deciding to fight somebody
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like this to fist for no for that same
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and then putting yourself in a
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predicament between uh
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being put in a lawsuit or between
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having a cycle of violence that you
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might not be able to end
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so that's one part but the cause for the
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relatively separated from
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what the stuff that's happening around
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you the people that are around you
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and the stuff that's happening around
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you now if they overstep their
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that's cause for you to react
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but when you react it's important for it
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something that's detrimental to you
