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Flogging A Man Before Marriage: An Insane Wedding Tradition
Oct 9, 2025
In this hilarious but serious wedding video, I am sharing a story of how my in-laws told me that they will flog me 100 strokes of the cane before I can be declared fit to marry their daughter. I haven't seen such type of tradition before. Please note: This story is completely fictional. #fiction #nekenwatv #weddingstory #storytime
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Imagine going to make inquiries of what
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it will cost to marry the woman you want
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to marry. Then your father-in-law tells
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you that for you to marry their
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daughter, they're going to give you 100
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strokes of the cane before you end up
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marrying their daughter. For you to
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marry their daughter, they must fog you
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100 strokes of the game before you can
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marry their daughter.
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Oh God, it happened that after my
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parents have kept on warning me, hey, is
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that time you married? Is that time you
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married? Go and find a woman to marry.
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They kept on pushing me, pushing me,
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pushing me, I should go and find a way
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and get married. Now there's this
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beautiful girl that I saw in my school
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when I was still in the university. This
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girl I I liked her because she was very
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slim, beautiful and had everything that
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I needed in a woman. Then later on again
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we met in a in a supermarket somewhere
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in that supermarket. I saw I was like
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wow it's been a while. She was like how
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is it going? It's cool you know. Then
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one thing led to another we took our
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number again because we we lost contact
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you know. We took our contact and we
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started calling. From there something
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started happening. Then we started
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meeting our reaching out to each other
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and stuff like that. I picked it
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interest in this girl and since my
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parents have been forcing me or telling
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me to go and get married, I decided to
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go make inquiries about what it will
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cost to marry this girl. On getting to
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the girls family because I informed her
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of my comment, she she welcomed it. On
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getting to the guest family, they now
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told me that they they told me some of
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the things I'm going to bring for very
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cheap. I was very like, "Wow, it's going
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to be cheap." Like so I got I I now got
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to the part that got me confused. They
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told me that they are going to flog me
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the 100 strokes of the cane.
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100 strokes of the cane. I don't
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understand. She said that uh in they
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told me that in any family that you want
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to marry from in their community, the
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number of strokes you are going to
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receive will depend on the number of
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children the man has, the number of sons
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the man has.
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that each son is supposed to have
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flogged you 20 strokes of dec. So if the
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man has just one son you flogged 20
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strokes of dec you 20 strokes of the
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king. If the strong is not mature enough
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to flog you the father himself will do
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it. If the father is not there that is
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if the father is dead then one of our
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male relatives will fogg you 20 strokes
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of the king. Now if the man happens to
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have 10 sons then multiply 20 by 100 by
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10.
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Multiply 20 by 100, sorry, by 10. That
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is 200 strokes of the king. So the man,
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the father of my the girl now that I
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plan to marry has five sons and each of
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the sons are grown-ups like giant
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grown-ups. When you talk about
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grown-ups, giant grown-ups, it seems
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they used to go to the gym because what
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I saw those boys have a muzzles. Their
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muscles are so so so that even a punch
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alone can can send you to a land of no
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return. Then imagine them flogging me.
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Each of them flog me 20. and stroke
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until the five of them finish 20 strokes
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then at the end of it becomes 100
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strokes on the game. I became
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infuriated. I was like how did I tell
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you that I want to come and do one or
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two strength?
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Did I come here to waste strength with
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you? I came here to ask which one is
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they told me that is how it is done in
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the community that that is the only way
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I can marry I will be fit enough to
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marry that daughter. That the essence of
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the flogging is to is to is to is to
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pass for the family that this person
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this man enough this man is not is
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strong enough to contain any form of
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emotional h disaster that will come.
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he'll be strong enough to protect his
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family. In fact, he's very very strong
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to to control the affairs of his family.
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That the only way he can detect that is
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by flogging me 100 of the day.
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If not that I'm this kind of person that
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goes to church, I love God so much. God
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bless God bless me for loving God. If
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not that I love God so much, I would
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have started a fight in that family. I'm
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I'm I'm telling you the truth. I would
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have started a very serious fight with
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the family and I will start with the
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father move on the head. When I hold him
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on the head like this, you know how far
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that I came to marry your daughter. You
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say you're going to flop me 100 strokes
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of the cake. 100 strokes of the cake.
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Assuming you mention 10, which of course
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is too much. You said 100. You have five
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sons. Each of them will love me 2020 20.
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Then if this one that is head because I
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noticed that one was acting as if he's
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mentally not okay. So that one now we
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use the mentality of a mad man of a
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crazy person and me 20 while he's trying
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to flog me that 27 you know when he f me
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50 sorry uh uh 50 because to him when he
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fl me he will think that the thing there
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is they will take you what see I'm
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trying to explain things to you they
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will take you lock you up in a single
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room you and that young man will be they
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will be the one flogging now they will
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tell you against something so that you
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won't retaliate or fight the person they
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When they tie you against that that h
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the place they will tie you inside the
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room then each of the boys will be
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entering and be flogging you 2020 2020.
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So if the man has 10 sons it means each
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of them will flog you 2020 20 strokes
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you are to receive 200 strokes of K from
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the 10 boys. But if they are just just
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like this my my would be what they no
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longer going to be. Yeah. They no longer
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going to be my my my in-laws again. Just
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like there are five boys now. The five
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of them will fluff you 10. Sorry 20 20
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each that is 100 strokes of the king. So
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imagine
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my father-in-law telling me they going
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to flog me 100 strokes of the king
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simply because I want to marry their
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daughter that the reason for it is to
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wage my strength to know if I'm capable
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enough to protect my family or it seems
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you are not mentally fine. It seems it
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seems you are you are seeking for
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for hospital or muary. If I blow you
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this one you go to you go to hospital.
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But if this one comes like this in fact
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I'm going to give you two at the same
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time. So if this one comes first and
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this one joins the moment you are rush
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to the hospital the doctor will just say
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that the doctor will just pronounce you
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dead on arrival.
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Nobody should nobody should nobody
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should no if that girl comes to my house
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again trust me I'm I'm going to fight
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her and somebody who knows my parents
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should please call my parents on the
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phone and tell them they should stop
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they should stop pushing me to go and
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get married see what they want to nearly
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lead me into now eh
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do you know that I even escaped I
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escaped because when I got there the the
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family told me that uh if all my sons
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are complete that is what the father was
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telling me if all my sons are complete.
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There is no going back again. So, so far
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three people are here. Remaining two,
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two are yet to come back from where they
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went to. So, the moment they come into
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this place, everything nobody, you
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cannot go back again.
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So, they told me to just feel relaxed.
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You know, this started offering me, they
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started offering me food to eat. The
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essence of the food is for me to start
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building my mind around it. I'm coming
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to your house for the first time. He
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didn't tell me to go back and think
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about it. He said as I have come I have
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come. He started giving me food.
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So as man that I am I started thinking
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if I sit down here and start eating this
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food the tendency that these these
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people are going to spike my food and I
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I I will sleep off and wake up being
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being tied to a tree or being tied to
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something where somebody is going to
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start flogging or I will just they will
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use they will use strokes of the can and
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wake me up. I started thinking I started
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imagining a lot of things. Okay, what if
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I'm I'm eating this food on the process
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of eating this food this will begin to
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come back. So I told them I decided to
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act like I'm into it. I told them fine.
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I think it's is a welcome idea. I'm even
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surprised it's 100. You want to flog me
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but there's no problem. What will happen
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is okay we'll wait for them. We'll wait
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for them. But please I will need to make
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use of your toilet. Okay. I will need to
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make use of your toilet.
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Thanks be to God. God, that is why I
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will keep on praising you all the days
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of my life. These people, their toilet
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is not connected to the house. Is
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connected somewhere in the compound.
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They they told my girlfriend to lead me
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to the toilet that I'm already an
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in-law.
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The moment my girlfriend let me close to
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the toilet. Look at the toilet. Look at
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the gates.
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I got to the toilet. I looked at the
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girl. You are wicked.
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You are wicked.
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Evil. Evil runs in your heart. I those a
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very wonderful slap on the face.
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I thank for my life. You want me to come
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and die because I want to marry a woman.
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100 strokes of the game only me. My bum
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bum. They won't fogg at my back. My bum
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bum. You fogg my bum bum and you expect
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it.
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Thank God I ran for my life. Thank God I
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ran for my life.
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I didn't run that. I'm I'm not afraid.
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I'm not I'm not scared. I'm not scared
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of anything. No, I only took cover.
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But as for that marriage, it will never
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work again. It will never work again.
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100 strokes of the game just to marry a
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girl to prove my strength of being able
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to protect my family.
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It's not the financial strength now. It
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is your physical strength of protecting
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your family in case there is an external
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aggression.
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I'm not in for that. I I will never be
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in for that.
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