POLYGAMY VS MONOGAMY
Jul 13, 2025
POLYGAMY VS MONOGAMY
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God richly bless you.
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Oh yeah.
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[Music]
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[Music] Thank you. Amen.
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Good morning, church. Um, welcome to to have and to hold our third edition in
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the month. Amen. Are you ready for God's word? Lift up
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one hand with me and say, "Father, let your word heal me. Let it restore me. Let it
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increase me. Let your word work in me. What you have willed for me this day in
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Jesus' name." Amen. I want to speak on a topic that is
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incredibly very popular nowadays. The topic of polygamy and
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it has become so common. Uh pastors are advoc advocating now for polygamy
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and today it is the norm. If you are not advocating for polygamy, you are seen as
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advocating a white man's thought or point of view to to increase a
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conspiracy that is assumed by many as um
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being perpetuated. I I I I stand to say this without
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Yes. Help me sir. What was Yes. I stand to say this without
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without any intention to defend anything. I have prayed about this topic and with
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the grace of God I am going to share light on the truths in this matter of polygamy and monogamy.
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I am not here to defend a cultural point of view. I am not here to defend a
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religious point of view. So many times people misunderstand why
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we are called. We are not call to come and defend Christianity. The right thing in
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Christianity already defends itself.
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And so when we stand to mount puppets, we are not here to make sure we are defending a certain culture, a certain
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ideology or anything. And we are here to teach what the Holy Spirit has led in
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our hearts to the people on the subjects which he has chosen for us to speak. So
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please um open your heart and and listen. I believe it will bless you for
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years on ending. Amen. To know the truths about polygamy and monogamy.
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Amen. So number one, what is polygamy? Polygamy is a type of marriage union of
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more than two. Uh in any marriage union where the people are called married
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people are more than two.
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Again, a married woman to multiple male partners or a married man to multiple
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female partners. If you are female, you cannot marry your your fellow multiple
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females and claim you are in a polygamous marriage. Marriage in every context as have ever existed on the face
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of this earth under the watch of God without
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any form of prejudice has been between the opposite sexes. Do you understand?
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And I'll prove this in scripture. Amen. So that you know that this is not a ideology we are perpetuating but these
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things have been with us since creation. So you must know that to talk of
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polygamy is not limited to one man marrying multiple women or more than two women.
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Neither is it also limited to women alone marrying multiple men. and stop.
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Some of you are looking your face like this one there is new not it is probably new to you because you never heard in
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Africa here even in Nigeria there are women who marry seven men yes so it is not it is not strange to
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Africans if a woman chooses to marry more than one man let's stop lying we keep lying every time on television on
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these things and it sound as if we are telling the truth it's a lie it's a blatant lie in our African culture a
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woman can marry more than one man we may not like it as a but that is the culture
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of the system. So polygamy is not limited to one man and multiple women.
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Neither is it limited to one woman to multiple men. So it is also not limited to a race.
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It's not for black people. Neither is it for only white people. There are white people who are polygamos and there are
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black people who are polygamos and there are Asians who are polygamos. Polygamy does not know skin color.
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Hello. Let's tell the truth as it is so that we
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understand what is the truth. Polygamy is not new. It is not originated in
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Africa. It's not new. It has been there since when the Bible spoke of the genealogies
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after Abraham. It came to a man called Lamek. Lamek was the first person the
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first person huh from Adam. Lamek was the first person who
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participated in polygamy. So polygamy is very old. It is not
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something that just came out of Africa.
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There's no evidence of what you are saying. You are lying plainly to people in the pretext that you are teaching
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some truth. Genesis the chapter 4 and the verses 19. If you think I'm lying, look at it.
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Lamech became the first biggamist, marrying two wives and the name of the wives were Ada and Zilla.
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Polygamy is still today widely practiced. Maybe you came from monogamous family.
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So you think there are polygamous families everywhere. Widely practiced in the world. Now let's speak of monogamy.
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What is monogamy? Monogamy is a type of marital union involving a man and a woman.
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It is limited to opposite sexes. It means that in monogamy your only
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choice is to marry one opposite sex of yours. Are you understanding me? Very
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limited. So it is the oldest type of marriage known to man. It is the first
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and only union which God himself officiated.
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When God created Adam and Eve, he married them. That was the first monogamy. Monogamy is older than
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polygamy. Understand that? So, it's not as if some white man came
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to introduce monogamy to destroy the original plan of God was polygamy.
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There's no evidence anywhere that proves that theory.
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Are you with me? My evidence is in Genesis 2:4. The Bible
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says, "And for this cause shall a man leave his father and mother to be joined
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to his wife, not his wives, and the two," he didn't say, "and the three or the four." He says, "And the
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two shall become one flesh."
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And the only problem in in our society today is that anybody lying is given a platform to lie more. Anybody teaching
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the wrong thing is allowed to teach the wrong thing on television and radio. Even people intentionally open the door
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for them to go ahead and teach these things because when they do that then they justify what or cover what wrong
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you are doing. So that's the context. No, not every nation legal legalizes
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polygamy. In certain countries, polygamy is not accepted. Let's take for example the United States of America. They
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generally by law do not allow polygamy. But polygamy is practiced in America.
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Now the reason why they they stopped polygamy in their days was because they they saw what we call taxation fraud. In
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America when you have children, providing for children is meant to be the government's responsibility. So if you buy food for your child, you are
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supposed to build a government or take it out of your tax. If you buy dresses, you take it out of your tax. You take
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all those expenditure out of your money. H then what is left is what you pay tax
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on. So in most parts of Europe, America and the West,
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the reason why they generally as a law do not accept polygamy is because they
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want you to pay more tax. Otherwise, everybody who claim to have thousand children, even put names of children,
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they don't even have a claim. I have a child in this country. to this country, this country and then pay very little tax.
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Are you understanding me? But even in the United States of America, there is polygamy. When you go
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to um salt state, it's called salt state for a reason. I've forgotten the full name, but it is one of the states that
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is highly controlled by the church of Jesus Christ of Latterday Saints, the
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Church of Mormons. In the Church of Mormons, a man can marry as many women as he wants. The women all work together
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to bring money to that family to help the man fulfill his vision.
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Are you with me? It is not a sin. If you go to that city today,
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you can marry as much women as you want. If you're a member of that church and no government can touch you
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and the church is so strong with influence in government, you dare not come and practice your law there.
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Are you understanding what I'm trying to say? So it's not as if this is only new to
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Ghana or something that only Ghanaians practice. Note that that these two types
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of marriages are legal in Ghana. In Ghana, you can marry more than one wife. It is legal by law.
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Nobody can arrest you for marrying more than one. And it's acceptable also in God. That's
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the part people don't want to hear. You can be a polygamous man and God can accept you as you are. You can be a poly
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polygamos woman and God can accept you as you are. Marriage cannot cure
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adultery. So you marry many wives thinking to stop you from cheating or going out to have sex with other women
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or other men is a lie. You can have 10 wives and still urge for
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another new girl because what is moving you for that
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isn't about marriage. Are you understanding me? It's the way God has designed your body. If you see what you
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like, the things will begin to work in you. That's how it works. That's the truth
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people don't want to hear. What will help you is self-control. You get me?
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When you master self control,
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That is self-control. Are you understanding what I'm trying to say? But you cannot pray and fast enough to
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stop your lust. It's a lie. Then why do pastors fall? Why do prophets fall? Why
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do people fail with the anointing fall to sexual sin? It's because what drives us has nothing to do with the anointing
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or prayer. It's got to do with how God designed your body to function. Are you with me?
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When I talk like this, people think I'm I don't know. That's the truth. There's no other way around it. You understand
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me? If I tell you that if you anointed, you would never sin. And you see somebody who's anointed sin, you will judge the
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person immediately because you think that is it's not possible. Are you are you understanding me? But in scripture,
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there's no evidence that anybody anointed sin either. Neither is there any evidence in our modern time that
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anybody anointed has never sinned before or is never sinning again. Are you with me? So me, I'll tell you
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the truth. Whatever you want to do with the truth is your own business. My own as a pastor is to tell you the truth outside the truth is your is it. I don't
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take away your will to choose because the power to choose is still there. Listen, God created heaven and the earth. He created the earth. Put the
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tree of life and death. Put the tree of good and evil there. Huh? He said
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choose. Why didn't God just put good there? In this world terrain, God doesn't want us to influence people's
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choices. We must tell them the truth. They have to make a decision to make that choice what they want.
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I am not to inst fear or something in you so that you do what is right. That's how Christianity works.
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If you really want to understand the will of God, God expect people to know the truth and then make a choice out of
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conviction. This is what I want because with every choice comes responsibilities, burdens and comes
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judgment. Now listen to me. Churches, some churches frown on polygamy in polygamy.
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We all know, am I lying? As relating to their own dogma and
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tradition,
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they will state that we don't like polygamy. But no church can state in scripture that if you commit that you
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marry more than one man or one woman, you are going to hell. It's a sin against God. Because there's nothing
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like that written in the Bible. Hello. I know everything I say here one
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day I'll stand before God for judgment. So I know what I'm saying. I know that when I add to God's word which is not
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there to I will stand before God for judgment the day of judgment. So I don't joke with these things when I say them.
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There is no evidence for example that polygamy is a sin or evil. But one needs
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to understand that all marriages are serious endeavors. Whether polygamos or
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monogamos is not a joke. Marriage is not for comedians. Marriage is not for jokers.
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Marriage is not for children. Marriage is not for fun. Marriage is
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serious business. Where God raised serious families, God establishes divine
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precedence and will in families. So when you are about to start a family
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and marry, please do not joke. Understand what marriage is, what
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families are before you take the first step.
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At Favor Chap International, we do not oppose any and that's the truth. I cannot oppose what God can't oppose. We
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teach the truth to each member so we can be informed or take informed decisions.
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Now allow me to speak about monogamy. I as a pastor, I prefer monogamy.
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Hello. Though I am not being biased, listen to me. I prefer monogamy. And I'll share
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some of the reasons why monogamy is the oldest and first type of marriage God
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himself introduced to man in Eden. Biblical accounts show that God usually
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gives deliverance to be born out of mono monogamos
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families. When we say deliverance,
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And I've read the Bible from Genesis Revelations to tell you this. I'm not just I've done a study over a long time
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to tell you this and I'll prove them to you. Listen. So with the exception of Joseph
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with in history with the exception of Joseph Joseph is the only deliverer who
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came out of what a polygamous family
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Jacob's son many wives but the rest Noah
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was a monogamos man and came from a monogamos family.
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Samson, his father was a monogamous man.
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Moses, Aaron, Joshua, Jesus Christ.
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It fosters simple genealogy and peace among families. When you choose to be
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monogamous, you allow it to be easy to trace your children, your genology.
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But if you are polygamos drawing of your geology is
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a whole tree. God bless you. Clap for her. It's a whole tree. If you are monogam if you are monogamos
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is simpler to trace. But if you are polygamos uh it's a long to trace.
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The Bible is filled with many mighty men who chose monogamy in a time that polygamy was popular.
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Truly there is nothing new under the sun as Solomon said. Nothing new. What we are facing today is not new. The world
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then knew it. They faced it and they made choices. Now let us look at other people who um
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made a choice in a time where there was polygamy fully being practiced yet they
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chose to be monotous and still work for God. People like Joab
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or Job, sorry, Job. People like Boaz who married Ruth. Jesse the father of David.
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People keep saying, you see, David was never David's mother was never married to Jesse. Jesse had an affair with
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David's mother that gave birth to David. But David didn't have a mother married
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to Jesse. Jesse only had one wife. This is why his own brothers also could
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not easily accept him. This is why it was easier for him to stay in the bush and take care of animals and not be part
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of the bigger family because it will bring trouble. Are you with me?
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So Jesse himself was monogamos but he had girlfriends which resulted in children
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and it didn't make God turn him into an enemy. God still had a plan for his home to choose one of the sons to be the king
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of Israel. I know when I preach it's always trouble. It's always interesting.
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Ezekiel, the prophet Ezekiel chose to be monogamous. Nehemiah chose to be
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monogamous. That doesn't mean that there were no other prophets who were not polygamos. I'm just sharing something on
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monogamy. Ezra, Amos, Zachariah, Ura,
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ah Uriah. The man who David killed was Monogamos. David killed to get what? Sheba from
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her. Okay. Bashba from her. Sorry.
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King Lemu or King Lemmer, whatever you like to call him. He was a king. He had the right to marry many women, but he
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chose to be polyamos to be monogamos. Manuela, Joseph, Aquila, Cornelius,
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Philip, and Timothy. All these menus
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was monogamos. even when men at that time was genuinely practicing polygamy.
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Now these are many lies we keep hearing on television and radio that polygamy was handed onto us from our ancestors.
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Polygamy was older than our ancestors that God is more pleased with polygamous
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men. I hear people say that television.
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There's no evidence of that. They just talk this talk. They just open their mouth and talk. They can't prove this.
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God is not more pleased with a polygamous man than a monogamos. God loves all of us equal.
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Polygamy cures lust and adultery. Big lie.
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Go and find some who has four wives still chasing a small girl. He can't help himself. It is humanity.
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Huh? So you having many wives or many husbands will not stop you from lasting
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after another person. Polycoming makes men live longer and healthier lives.
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That's why you become here more. Let's let's let's verify this truth. Now
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if polygamy means you have more sex every day, then it means that you likely
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may live longer. But it is not insurance to live longer because sexual
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our sexuality as God created has a link to our health and longevity.
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Sex helps our body to stay healthy.
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This is why the devil perverses it so that we are incapable of understanding
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our sexuality. That will lead us to more troubles in life. H
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men are required to have intercourse often so they can men and women so they
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can regulate their high blood.
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For that second whether you are in pain, whether you are suffering, whatever you are going
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through then disappears for that second. So that hormone can only be released and
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that hormone keeps you happy, stronger and healthier.
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So it is not to say that those who are not having it are going to die. But we
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are saying that those who have it increases their chances for longevity. That is all. So it's not about whether
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you marry them or don't marry them. It's about how often you have intercourse. Hello. So even your marriage you are
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being it once a month, two a month. Please increase it. It's for your own good. Hallelujah.
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Uh please increase it. Don't say because my wife can't give me I'm going for four more outside. Don't don't listen to
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those advice you hear on television. Say your wife
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Just increase the amount of time you can do it. That's all I'm saying. Amen.
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That's the truth. There's nothing else to say about it. Again, polygamy makes men live longer. And we've answered that
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one. Yes. Polygamy will make God bless you financially. It's not true.
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Not true.
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It's not really true. There's no evidence that proves
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sometimes. Hallelujah. So, let's be honest with ourselves.
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Having plenty children doesn't make you rich. Having plenty wives doesn't make you rich. Because you see when you marry
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the women, the law of God says you must treat them equally. God didn't say you will not love one more. He say you must
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treat them equally. So you don't like this woman but whatever you give to the one that you love the most, you must
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repeat the same and give them. If you love sleeping with the one you love the more, you must sleep with the one you hate the more also.
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So we'll come to those laws in God's word so you understand what I'm talking about. So
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um polygamy won't make you rich. Polygamy provides security for the
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family. Not true. If you have many wives and you are not wise, the wives can turn your home into a warfield.
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Every child's life will be in danger because every mother is trying to fight to make sure that his children will make
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money or will inherit you. Everyone may be trying to use their
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children to win favor from the man's eyes. So the women can go far extents to destroy the very children so that by law
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of elimination elimination only the best will survive according to their choices.
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So you having many wives in a family will not guarantee yours family security. It's a lie. Let's look at the
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lies people tell out of monogamy. Uh people tell monogamy is the only form and type of marriage that God endorses
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is a lie. There were holy men in scripture who
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married more than one wife. God still worked with them. God never said to them say because you are married to me I hate
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you. I won't work with you. No it's a lie. Number two monogamy is a white man's
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scheme or scam for colonial control. Big lie.
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Monogamy is the reason why a lot of men die young. Lie.
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You listen. You can choose not to marry and have more than one girlfriend. They will still kill you.
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You can you can choose not to marry but have more girlfriends and the girls will kill you. Am I lying?
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So there's no truth in that statement people make. Okay.
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Monogamy makes you live long and brings you into financial blessings.
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Not true. The mere father you have one wife doesn't mean you won't die young.
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You have to take responsibility to be healthy. You have to exercise. You have to eat properly.
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You have to stop drinking and putting yourself at risk of disease and and infections.
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And if you are married to one woman, you have to often have sex as much as possible to keep your mental and health
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strong. Another lie people tell if a man is
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pressure.
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[Music] Okay. So, monogamous men are not wise.
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Now there was a practice where some people would buy slaves and for some reason they love their slaves. They see
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this slave girl working their house and they fall in love with their slaves and they marry her. And when they married
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the slave, she's still in their eyes a slave. And so they don't treat her equally as a wife. And God says if you
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marry a woman and listen remember it's not about slave or no. If you marry a woman
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and you have more than one wife whatever you are doing for the other woman you must do it for the other woman also.
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So this one there she's attractive she has care. So you like her so you like to go three times a day or so with you must
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repeat the same with the other. You can't treat one better than the other. So now you call for death now you go
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knock on death door say come take me
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h you yourself decide I want to die knock on there a waiting come take me go
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it also means that if you buy one a car you must buy the other a car if you buy one a house you must buy the other a
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house one cannot wait for the other to enjoy for the other to eat monkey go for babu chop You must treat them what?
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Equal. You don't understand this in English. Hallelujah.
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Deuteronomy 17 verse1 17. Neither shall he multiply wives to himself that his
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heart turn not away. Neither shall he greatly multiply to himself silver and
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gold. This was an advice God gave to kings. If you are a king, don't multiply
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wives. You can add wives, but don't multiply. This is wisdom. Take your time. The word multiplication means that
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you increase them faster. Addition means you marry just enough what you need. You can't say marry 700
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so mean I marry 700. Me to marry 15 women. No.
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God said if you are a king don't be interested in having many wives. It is dangerous for you.
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Eh don't also be interested in making money as a king because authority is not for
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making money. is for service. I don't know how you get this, but it's
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so simple. See,
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If you are a king, you should not multiply wives to yourself. Neither should you be running after silver and
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gold as a king. This also goes for presidents.
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When a person becomes a president and start liking plenty women, you start seeing their government fail. You start seeing slay queens come on television
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and report what they are doing in secret. Women are not wise in this country. So a president is sleeping with you. Why you
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telling another person? How does that concern you? If the president gave you a private jet, will you come and tell me the president has slept with you? Women
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power and their wisdom.
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Hallelujah. Whatever happen secret should keep in secret. Hallelujah. Tell somebody whatever happens in secret
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should be kept in secret. Whatever happened between two people should be known by only two people.
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Don't go and report any brother to any pastor or anybody. Keep your secret. I don't want to know those things. Hallelujah.
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The book of first Timothy the chapter 3:2. A bishop then must be blameless.
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The husband of one wife, vigilant, sober of good behavior, giving
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to hospitality, apt to teach. The Bible says if somebody claims to be
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an overseer or somebody who is in charge, he must be up to teach.
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Especially when it's got to do with the church, he must be able, he must have the ability to teach God's word is
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important. Number two, the person must have a good behavior. He must love how
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to receive visitors. He must be blameless. How does he become
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blameless? He must have one wife.
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Because when women are angry, they are emotional. Common sense won't work.
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Hello. So why move them to jealousy? The Bible is not against you sleeping
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with your wife's sister, but the Bible says do not sleep with her whilst your wife is alive. Why? He said you
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of this church. A bishop, when I'm gone, please. You can't marry two women.
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Hello. You must marry only one wife, one mosquito in your net sucking your
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blood. That's all. First Kings the chapter 11:3.
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And he had 700 wives and princesses and 300 concubines.
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And his wives
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Super man. There must be war in his house every day. The Bible says Solomon
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had 700 wives and 300 girlfriends.
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But listen listen the part that I like the most. Listen the part I like the most how they explained it. You see as
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when you read read English a statement and there's this two two comments there like that two dots there is explain the
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first sentence. said the essence of having all these wives and concubines is that it turned his heart away from God.
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You can't have all these women and still serve God.
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What was the result of having 700 wives and 300? He later became a satanic
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worshipper. He began erecting temples for the devil and evil people to
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worship. So stop trying to copy Solomon and and find your own girl, your own wife and
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enjoy her small small. Hallelujah. More wives led to Solomon turning away
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from God. Isaiah 4:1 and this is the part people also haven't
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understood. And today I'm going to share with you what the Holy Spirit taught me. Are you with me? Isaiah 4:1 says, "In
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that day seven women shall take hold of one man.
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saying, "We will eat our own bread and wear our own dress. Only let us be called by thy name and
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take away our reproach.
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certificate. All right, let me explain this to you.
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The whole chapter talk the whole chapter of Isaiah 4 is talking about the glory of God. Says when the glory of God shall
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come upon you, it speaks of the first thing. The first is that women will be willing to marry you and carry your
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name.
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Let me ask you a question. mention big name like Dangote. Let's say Dangote is living in Ghana. Are you sure you not
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send your daughter after him? You yourself will tell your daughter
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as a pastor, I don't have people offering me
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until the glory comes.
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The same as professors and have the same temptation.
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The first
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is above reproach is that he must have one wife.
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Proverbs 12:4, a virtuous man is a a virtuous woman is a crown to a husband. Not virtuous
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women, but a virtuous woman. Proverbs 19:14, "House and riches are inheritance
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of fathers, and a prudent wife," not prudent wives, a prudent wife is from
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the Lord. Genesis 2:8, "And the Lord God said, it is not good that man should be
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alone. I will make him a help, not many helps for him, a help."
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Proverbs 31:10, "Who can find a virtuous woman? Not virtuous women, for her price
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is far above rubies."
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Now, why why is there a need for polygamy for some people or or why at
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all should polygamy be okay that God doesn't speak against it? Number one, it
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is the fastest means to grow a population. If I have one wife and that wife gives
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me 10 children because I'm busy at night creating the children and I have five
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wives, how many children you think I can make more? Is that not it? So population
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increase always require polygamy. That's why you will hear certain things like nowadays you hear they said there are
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countries now the the government is saying each one must marry more than one wife. They have populational decline
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and our olden ancestors that's what they did whenever they found that they needed population so they can make more money
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they can have an army that they can defend their country that they can be productive as to having a productive
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working force to generate money and taxation for civilizations. It was required anybody who can should marry
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more than one wife. So polygamy brings about population growth.
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It is implored to safeguard a survival of potential heirs of kings and leaders.
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When you are a rare gem like you a king and they want to have your generation
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around, it is prudent that you marry more than one woman.
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So if you find yourself a rare gem, you're not a king, but you're a rare gem. You're a rare quality human being alive.
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Please duplicate yourself.
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Go to the photocopy machines and photocopy yourself.
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I I know you understand what I'm saying. Polygamy is needed in times of war and
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disease to help the human race survive. When the co happened, all civilizations
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realized that um monogamy made it easier for their civilizations to be wiped out.
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In countries that practice high monogamy, they lost more than 50% of
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their population. This affected them. Then they started doing you can come and work for free in
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this country and make you come and live here. It's all a scheme to cover up for their population loss. They are all
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schemes. Okay. So that's it. also for their effective working class.
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Population increase offers larger worker force and help big build sorry build big
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uh helps uh build stronger economies. All right, that could be there. Okay,
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needed under great leaders needed. Polygamy is needed. If there is a great leader like never before in any country,
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polygamy is very important because then he will steer the direction of the nation with the population.
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something like China until recently China passed law making
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it illegal to have more than one child. You can have plenty women but you have you must have one child but for them to
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get to where they were a man could marry more and have more children and when they realized that they were too many.
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When they became many they offered cheaper labor. They were the best place for manufacturing. They offered
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increased taxation. That's why they are a huge economy you cannot fight with because if you fight with them, they can
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consume a lot of your services and your products. Instead of making them enemies, it is wiser to make them what?
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Your friend and do business with them. Are you understanding what I'm trying to say? Uh so um it is very important we
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understand these things that when there's a great leader, great mighty leader, polygamy can be put to a good
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use. If if polygamy is not put to a good use,
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you have what we call unplanned population challenges.
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We have too many people. We don't know what to do with them. We don't have a structure that absorbs them for education, workforce. We don't have a
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structure that can use these people.
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Um it allows monogamy allows for slow population growth. So in other sense in
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certain countries where these laws cannot be passed officially to show that they are trying to control population
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they will pass laws or introduce family planning measures so they can slate the
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population if they know they cannot f fight the cultural perceptions of polygamy. They will introduce things
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like um family planning and the rest to control the growth of the population
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so they can plan alongside the size of the population. Leaving room for planning
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monogamy allow for quality parenting.
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It was a rare commodity but
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you understand but when you have one parent one father usually you are able
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to develop quality parenting the children have access to their father in a polygamous family where there's
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only one mother or one father and there are many women the women already want the attention of the man so their
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children don't get quality parenting with their father or with their
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Because everybody's attention is working towards getting one man's attention. Are you understanding what I'm saying?
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Please. Stronger marital bonds and friendship are built in monogamous marriages.
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Monogami is largely encouraged among Christians to foster marital peace and
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safety in homes. Monogamy is is today
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needed to avoid or was needed to avoid being pitched against one another in
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some cases. I want to explain this part. If you decide to be a monogamous family,
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you have to understand that God cannot bless all your children. He has to use some to help others.
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This is the part you must learn. So we learn this from the encounter with
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Jacob in the book of Romans the chapter 9 11 to12. Are you with me? The Bible
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says for the children being not yet born neither having done good or evil that
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the purpose of God according to election might stand not of works but of him who
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collect human beings. It was said unto her the elder shall serve the younger.
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Sorry, sorry, sorry. This has got to do with uh I'm quoting wrongly. This got to do with Isaac, Isaac's generation, and
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his wife is going to give birth. And he's told that one will be called Esau, one will be called
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um Jacob. Thank you. God bless you for the correction, Holy Spirit. And God
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chose one and left the other.
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Let's strike that one out. Let's strike that one out. I think I was
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sleeping. I was tired. Amen. Hallelujah. Yes. Let's strike that one out because
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if I add that one, it will start a whole new debate unnecessary. Amen. Hallelujah. If you have a question, I
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would like to answer it. Do you have a question? Do you have a question? Okay. So, what I'm trying to say is
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this, why I'm trying to say, okay, let me go back and explain that part otherwise some people won't forgive me.
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What I'm trying to say is that even listen, even in a family of monogamy,
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uh, even a family of monogamy, God will choose one
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and reject another. Classic example
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for whatever purpose God is doing in my family, God must choose one person to continue after me. Are you with me?
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God may use the rest to help the cause, the cause of training, preparing
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by either pitching them against each other to fight, to struggle, or to oppose each other until they
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arrive there. Are you understand what I'm teaching? So imagine that. Imagine
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the opposite wise where they don't come from one mother, but they come from multiple mothers
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and God chooses one. What do you think the rest will do?
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they will fight to destroy him or her especially when they see the light of God in that person. They will do
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everything possible to stifle it out. So what I'm saying is that it is true basing on the gospel of election
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and basing it also on the fact that Bible has said a man's enemy shall come out of his own family.
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I think in a monogamos family is it is easier for a man to teach his children that this is how the way of life is. So
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if one begins to shine all of you must come together to support and help that line that light keep shining in our
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home. I think it's easier not simple but easier if it is coming from a polygamous
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family. Even if you convince the children you have nine other women who pollute these children daily not to see
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the essence of unity. Are you understanding where I'm trying to come from? I felt if I added it to turn into a
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whole discussion, that's why I I wanted to strike it up. But that's what I wanted to say. Amen. Now I finish. God
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knows I don't hold back anything. Amen. Is there any question? Did you enjoy the sermon? Bow down your head. Let us pray
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then. [Applause] I pray that generations would come to
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hear this sermon and they would take decisions based on the information
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they've heard and the Holy Spirit through the information they've heard will help them to make choices that will help them. If there's anybody here who
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also chooses to be polygamos or monamos know that you are accepted in Christ you
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are not an enemy. If you choose to marry your own man you are not accepted. You choose to marry your own woman you're
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not accepted. But whatever choice of the two types of marriage that God has overseen for
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generations and centuries till today, if you make a choice for any, you must
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understand the rules and the requirements and what Bible says about them. So that with informed decision,
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you can take the right steps to making sure that the will of God
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would work in your home. Father, I thank you for the wisdom and
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the clarity of thought to teach the ability to explain this truth to people
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without prejudice, without biases, without the intention to misapply,
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misinform or misconstrue, but to teach truth as it is and to leave
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it for your final work of conviction in their hearts. I thank you that in this
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lifetime it is a privilege I can follow you and do as you bid me. May it be also
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the culture of this church and these people to do as you bid them in this life in Jesus name. Amen.
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Give a clap offering unto Jesus.
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Please take out your offering. Please take out your offering.
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Please take out your offering and speak over your offering.
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Oh, thank you. Thank you. Speak over your offering. Declare blessings and glory and honor
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and praise over your offering. Let it go and come back. Measures
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pressed down, shaking together, and running over. [Music]
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In Jesus to me. [Music]
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Father, we bless you for the seed. Let it go and come back. Measures pressed down, shaken together and extremely
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running over Jesus name. Amen.
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[Music]
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So now are you [Music]
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[Applause] [Music]
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come [Music]
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Yes. Hey,
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are you
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are [Music]
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Oh yeah. are
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now. [Music]
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[Music]
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[Music] Yes. Now I am Yeah,
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I have never heard the funk version of this song before. The beat we're playing is like funk. I
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never heard the funk version of it. Amen. Amen. Can we be on our feet as we
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share the grace? May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and
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the sweet fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with us now and forever more. Amen.
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The Lord bless you, help keep you,
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make his face shine upon you, be gracious to you.
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Praise the Lord.
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[Music]
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and keep you. Make his face shine upon you. Be
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gracious to
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[Music] the
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Heat. [Music]
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Heat.
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May the Lord bless you and I am his face to shine upon you.
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Lord before me. May the Almighty be a cloud by us
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taking all evil, all trouble, all shame away from our places.
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And the Lord causes angels when around our places to keep us safe and to
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preserve and protect our home and our children, our generation.
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He table before us in the presence of our enemies.
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The Almighty [Music]
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filled with glory, filled with honor.
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Heat. [Music]
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Heat.
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Yeah. Heat.
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Yeah. Heat.
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Yeah. Heat.
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Yeah. Heat.
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Yeah. Oh yes.
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Sh.
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See my
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creation. Heat. Heat.
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[Applause] away.
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Heat.
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