What happens when comfort becomes something to fear?

What happens when comfort becomes something to fear? For someone with disorganized attachment, connection feels like chaos. Early experiences — like a caregiver reacting with anger when comfort is sought — teach the child that love and danger coexist. As adults, this can look like emotional intensity, fear of rejection, or sabotaging closeness without meaning to. Healing takes time, trust, and body-based therapies like EMDR and somatic experiencing to help the nervous system feel safe again. Watch full video: https://youtu.be/8jjplecoX0M #AttachmentTrauma #TraumaAwareness #EMDR #SomaticHealing #DisorganizedAttachment #TherapyEducation