Up next in 10
Getting ignored hurts—but you don’t have to stay silent.
In this video, you’ll learn 7 powerful texts to send when he’s not replying—designed to spark curiosity, reignite attraction, and gently pull him back into conversation. Whether you’re feeling anxious, confused, or just need a response, these messages give you control without chasing.
💬 What You’ll Learn:
– What to text a guy when he’s ignoring you
– Psychology-backed messages that get a reply
– How to balance vulnerability with self-respect
– A 7-day challenge to shift the dynamic and deepen connection
– Why timing, tone, and emotional hooks matter more than “just checking in”
Whether it’s been hours or days of silence, these texts will help you reach out with confidence—and reconnect in a way that feels good to both of you.
👇 COMMENT which message you’ll try first—#2 if you’re sending a memory, or #6 to show you care
📲 SHARE this with someone who’s tired of being left on read
🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more texting tips, love advice, and emotional connection strategies every week
New videos every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.
From relationship advice, tip and goals to love facts for building happy relationships, our channel is here to celebrate the magic of love in all its forms. Whether you're in a relationship, single, or just a hopeless romantic, we have something special for you.
Show More Show Less View Video Transcript
0:00
have you ever stared at your phone
0:01
fingers hovering over the keys heart
0:04
pounding wondering if he's ever going to
0:06
reply you send a message full of hope
0:09
Then silence It feels like you don't
0:12
matter Like you're shouting into empty
0:15
space But before you let doubt take over
0:17
know this There are specific texts you
0:20
can send right now that turn that
0:21
silence into connection Today I'm
0:24
sharing seven powerful messages to text
0:26
him when you're feeling ignored messages
0:28
that spark curiosity show your value and
0:31
invite him back into the
0:33
conversation Use these texts wisely and
0:36
you'll see how one well-timed line can
0:37
shift his focus reignite his interest
0:40
and remind him why he cares Stick with
0:43
me By the end you'll have a toolkit of
0:45
messages to try plus timing and tone
0:47
tips that make each one land like a
0:49
gentle tap on the shoulder rather than a
0:51
demand for attention One I'm curious
0:55
what's been keeping you busy when you
0:57
feel ignored a direct yet friendly
0:59
check-in can break the ice without
1:01
pressure This message shows you notice
1:03
his absence but you're open and
1:06
relaxed Imagine you send this mid-after
1:08
afternoon He glances at his phone and
1:11
instead of guilt or defensiveness he
1:13
feels cared about He realizes you
1:16
remember he had a big project or errand
1:19
You're not accusing him You're
1:21
interested in his life Why it works you
1:24
acknowledge his silence without blame
1:26
You invite him to share his world You
1:29
remind him you're paying attention to
1:31
his life not just your own need for a
1:33
reply Wait a few hours after your last
1:36
message unless it was days ago Keep it
1:39
simple No emojis or exclamation marks
1:42
that feel needy Be ready to follow up
1:44
with genuine questions if he opens up
1:47
Stay with me because with message number
1:49
three you'll learn the one text that
1:51
taps into his protective instinct Don't
1:54
miss it Two I found something that made
1:57
me think of you Shared moments create
2:00
bonds When you send him a link a meme or
2:03
a quick photo that reminds you of an
2:04
inside joke or a shared interest you're
2:07
saying "You matter in my day." Picture
2:09
this You're scrolling and spot a line
2:11
from his favorite movie or a dog breed
2:13
he loves You snap and send Just saw this
2:17
and laughed Remember our late night
2:18
movie marathon in that instant he's
2:21
transported back to the fun you had His
2:24
stress eases and his smile comes through
2:26
his reply Why it works it triggers
2:29
nostalgia and positive feelings It
2:32
shifts the focus from his silence to a
2:34
happy memory It positions you as someone
2:36
who shares and remembers the details
2:39
Choose something vivid an image a short
2:42
clip or a oneline quote Tie it to a
2:45
specific moment This scene at 123 Keep
2:48
the tone light and playful Three I read
2:52
your message again and realized I owe
2:54
you an apology When silence builds
2:56
tension taking responsibility for any
2:58
misstep can clear the air If your last
3:01
interaction ended on a tense note this
3:03
text shows maturity and care Imagine he
3:07
stopped replying after a
3:09
misunderstanding You text I read your
3:11
message again and saw how my words came
3:13
off I'm sorry if I hurt you That
3:16
admission melts defenses He knows you
3:19
value his feelings and he's more likely
3:21
to open up Why it works it lowers
3:24
emotional walls by showing empathy It
3:27
shifts attention from blame to repair It
3:30
invites mutual understanding rather than
3:32
demands a reply Only use this if there
3:35
was a real conflict or
3:37
miscommunication Keep it brief and
3:39
sincere Follow up by asking how he feels
3:42
not by justifying yourself Quick
3:45
reminder message number five will spark
3:47
his protective nature in the sweetest
3:49
way Stay with me Four I miss our late
3:53
night talks Any chance we can catch up
3:57
appealing to shared patterns draws him
3:59
back into routine If you used to chat at
4:02
night remind him of that time when
4:03
connection felt effortless Picture him
4:06
winding down phone in hand He sees your
4:10
text and remembers the comfort of
4:11
talking until dawn Suddenly distance
4:14
feels smaller He types back "Sure just
4:18
let me finish this email He's back in
4:20
your world." "Why it works It taps into
4:23
habit and nostalgia." It highlights the
4:26
positive side of your bond It suggests a
4:29
concrete time to reconnect Pick a time
4:32
you know he's usually free Use the word
4:35
catch up rather than talk to keep it
4:37
casual Be open to rescheduling Let him
4:40
propose the time Five I bet you could
4:43
solve this problem Need your genius
4:46
advice Everyone likes to feel capable By
4:49
asking for his input you appeal to his
4:52
desire to help and to be valued for his
4:54
skills Imagine you're choosing between
4:56
two books for your book club You text
4:59
"Hey I'm torn between these two titles
5:02
Thought you'd know which one's better
5:04
Help." He sees an invitation to be your
5:07
adviser His ego flares in a positive way
5:10
You trust him He replies quickly
5:13
Definitely go with the second It's my
5:15
favorite Why it works you compliment his
5:18
judgment You create a natural reason for
5:21
him to reply You shift the dynamic from
5:24
lonely waiting to collaborative problem
5:26
solving Choose a question relevant to
5:28
his interests or expertise Keep it
5:31
simple Two clear options or a single
5:33
issue Thank him afterward with a
5:36
follow-up message Six Just checking in
5:40
How are you holding up sometimes a
5:42
simple expression of care cuts through
5:44
the walls he's built This is more
5:46
personal than number one because it
5:48
emphasizes his well-being not just his
5:51
busyiness Picture him after a rough
5:53
weekend at work He sees your text and
5:56
feels noticed I'm swamped but hanging in
5:58
there You reply "I'm here if you want
6:01
event or if you need a pizza delivered."
6:04
He smiles feeling less alone Why it
6:07
works it validates his stress and offers
6:10
support It reminds him you're attentive
6:12
to his emotional state It opens the door
6:15
for deeper conversation if he chooses
6:18
Use when you know he's dealing with a
6:19
tough situation Offer a concrete gesture
6:23
venting take out or
6:25
distraction Be ready to listen not just
6:28
talk Seven I'm looking forward to seeing
6:31
you soon Can't wait When words are
6:34
scarce creating anticipation for a real
6:37
life meeting reignites excitement This
6:40
text reminds him of the bigger picture
6:41
beyond
6:42
screams Imagine he reads this as he
6:45
wraps up his workday He feels your
6:47
eagerness and warmth Can't wait either
6:50
Let's plan for Friday Suddenly his focus
6:53
shifts from silence to planning He's
6:56
motivated to reconnect in person Why it
6:59
works it paints a hopeful future It
7:02
moves the relationship offline where
7:04
genuine connection happens It reassures
7:07
him you're invested in seeing him How to
7:10
send it suggest a day or activity but
7:12
stay flexible Use words like looking
7:15
forward rather than see you Follow up
7:18
with a specific idea once he
7:20
responds Seeing the patterns and
7:22
responding with confidence These seven
7:24
texts cover curiosity shared memories
7:26
empathy nostalgia value care and
7:29
anticipation
7:31
They meet his unspoken needs Connection
7:33
You remind him you're part of his life
7:36
Value You recognize his skills and
7:39
perspectives Support You show empathy
7:42
for his stress Nostalgia You reignite
7:45
happy memories Hope You create plans to
7:48
look forward to When you use these
7:51
messages in the right moment you shift
7:53
the dynamic Instead of feeling ignored
7:56
you guide him back into conversation and
7:58
closeness
8:00
your 7-day texting challenge Over the
8:02
next week send one message per day in
8:04
order Day one I'm curious What's been
8:06
keeping you busy day two I found
8:09
something that made me think of you Day
8:11
three I read your message again and
8:13
realized I owe you an apology Day four I
8:16
miss our late night talks Any chance we
8:19
can catch up day five I bet you could
8:22
solve this problem Need your genius
8:24
advice Day six just checking in How are
8:27
you holding up day seven I'm looking
8:30
forward to seeing you soon Can't wait
8:32
Keep a simple note of his replies and
8:34
how each text makes you feel By day
8:37
seven you'll see a pattern of renewed
8:39
engagement and deeper connection From
8:42
anxious to empowered lover you're not
8:44
just someone waiting by the phone You're
8:46
a confident partner who knows how to
8:48
reignite conversation and closeness
8:50
These messages position you as
8:52
thoughtful fun supportive and future
8:55
focused Embrace that identity Trust your
8:59
instincts You have the power to turn
9:01
silence into a shared moment Which
9:04
message will you send tonight drop its
9:07
number number four if you're craving
9:08
nostalgia or number six if you want to
9:10
show you care about his well-being in
9:12
the comments Share this video with a
9:15
friend who needs new ways to reach out
9:17
when feeling ignored And if you're ready
9:19
for more tested heartfelt texting tips
9:22
subscribe now and ring the bell so you
9:24
never miss an insight Remember being
9:27
ignored doesn't mean you're not worth
9:28
talking to It means you need a fresh
9:31
approach Send these seven messages and
9:34
watch the conversation and your
9:36
connection come back to life